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Question to OT about an old flame
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:01 am
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:01 am
No pics.
Story goes: In college I met a girl and we hit it off. Hooked up a couple times, and there was genuinely something there, as we both openly liked one another,but then summer hit and school was let out. We sparsely spoke during the summer, but then she went aboard with one of my really good friends.
They end up hooking up abroad in Prague, to much of my sadness, but my buddy straight up confessed to it and told me right after it happened. I asked him if it was just a one time thing, and he said yeah and that it was unlikely to happen again.
Well it happened again, they hooked up and it kinda tore at me but I respect him as a friend and man for telling me, and they both ended up genuinely loving one another. Theyve been dating ever since, and I believe (im not sure) that I was the last guy she liked before her to be husband. They are both great people and they are now (8 years later) engaged. It took me sometime to get over it back in college, but I eventually did and I see it now as something that happened for the best. I am happy for them (people make mistakes. its how you deal with it), and hes actually someone I go to for my own current relationship advice.
Well I mention this because back when I was a dick in college, we were all out drunk once, and the gal and I were talking, and I asked her if she had a chance to go back, would she have liked to have officially dated me, and she said yes, with no hesitation. I actually went on to date one of her friends, but I never got her seal of affirmation for that relationship. Which brings me to this.
So ive caught her gazing at me a couple of times in the years after our ordeal, and after we all moved on maturely. Sometimes when we have conversations her body language is more friendly than it is with other people, but she is flirtous by nature. Its nothing overtly direct, but we also have a history of (un)finished business. I do feel uncomfortable speaking to her at times as I dont want an suppressed feelings I may have for her (I dont know of any) to arise and become apparent. She'll send me direct snapchats alot, none of which are sexual or anything. Just her out and about with my good buddy. I hardly send any to her, but she always sends them to me.
Is there a possibility that there is something still there (I have moved on and have a great little deal now and dont wish to go back in time)? Has this happened to anyone else? Does she just consider me to be a good friend? I feel like had college not let out for the summer that year, things may have been different, at least for the rest of our college experience together.
Story goes: In college I met a girl and we hit it off. Hooked up a couple times, and there was genuinely something there, as we both openly liked one another,but then summer hit and school was let out. We sparsely spoke during the summer, but then she went aboard with one of my really good friends.
They end up hooking up abroad in Prague, to much of my sadness, but my buddy straight up confessed to it and told me right after it happened. I asked him if it was just a one time thing, and he said yeah and that it was unlikely to happen again.
Well it happened again, they hooked up and it kinda tore at me but I respect him as a friend and man for telling me, and they both ended up genuinely loving one another. Theyve been dating ever since, and I believe (im not sure) that I was the last guy she liked before her to be husband. They are both great people and they are now (8 years later) engaged. It took me sometime to get over it back in college, but I eventually did and I see it now as something that happened for the best. I am happy for them (people make mistakes. its how you deal with it), and hes actually someone I go to for my own current relationship advice.
Well I mention this because back when I was a dick in college, we were all out drunk once, and the gal and I were talking, and I asked her if she had a chance to go back, would she have liked to have officially dated me, and she said yes, with no hesitation. I actually went on to date one of her friends, but I never got her seal of affirmation for that relationship. Which brings me to this.
So ive caught her gazing at me a couple of times in the years after our ordeal, and after we all moved on maturely. Sometimes when we have conversations her body language is more friendly than it is with other people, but she is flirtous by nature. Its nothing overtly direct, but we also have a history of (un)finished business. I do feel uncomfortable speaking to her at times as I dont want an suppressed feelings I may have for her (I dont know of any) to arise and become apparent. She'll send me direct snapchats alot, none of which are sexual or anything. Just her out and about with my good buddy. I hardly send any to her, but she always sends them to me.
Is there a possibility that there is something still there (I have moved on and have a great little deal now and dont wish to go back in time)? Has this happened to anyone else? Does she just consider me to be a good friend? I feel like had college not let out for the summer that year, things may have been different, at least for the rest of our college experience together.
This post was edited on 7/28/15 at 12:19 am
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:03 am to NWTS_
Holy shite it's too late to read that
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:04 am to NWTS_
Almost everyone has that one that got away. Looking back on it fondly is OK but it's time to move on.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:06 am to NWTS_
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:06 am to NWTS_
Must feel terrible being such a pussy.
You use an alter to post this...
You use an alter to post this...
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:07 am to NWTS_
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:09 am to NWTS_
Dear diary,
Today I cried like a bitch and wrote a story that was way too long for the OT.
Today I cried like a bitch and wrote a story that was way too long for the OT.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:09 am to NWTS_
Just dont get yourself into any weird situations with her and you can keep the friendship going hopefully.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:09 am to NWTS_
sure, most people feel that way about a person or two. life is just a constant string of coincidence and chance...a split second glance or look the other way can change your whole life without you even knowing it...
honestly, I have given it a second go with a couple of old flames and it typically doesn't work out. either the two of you have just grown in different directions through the years or you each fall pretty quickly back into the habits that caused you to break up the first time...
honestly, I have given it a second go with a couple of old flames and it typically doesn't work out. either the two of you have just grown in different directions through the years or you each fall pretty quickly back into the habits that caused you to break up the first time...
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:14 am to NWTS_
Dude, I normally don't do this, but you sound like a fricking giant vagina.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:19 am to NWTS_
It sounds like she still has feelings for you
If I were you id started texting her any chance you get. Maybe even write her a letter telling her your true feelings. While your at it send her flowers. That's what I'd do if I were you
If I were you id started texting her any chance you get. Maybe even write her a letter telling her your true feelings. While your at it send her flowers. That's what I'd do if I were you
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:42 am to NWTS_
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:45 am to NWTS_
Based on what you shared I think there are two scenarios:
1- She is rubbing your nose in it. You had a chance and missed it or she wants you to want her for her own self affirmation issues.
2- She really wants you to make a move
I have no idea which is the correct theory. Let us know how it turns out. CSB
1- She is rubbing your nose in it. You had a chance and missed it or she wants you to want her for her own self affirmation issues.
2- She really wants you to make a move
I have no idea which is the correct theory. Let us know how it turns out. CSB
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:52 am to NWTS_
The only way to know is to slip her one of these...
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