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re: Day One of Stopping Watching Porn...
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:14 am to NATidefan
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:14 am to NATidefan
At least you are admitting the real problem and not just going on some bullshite "no fapping" crusade that is supposed to bring enlightenment and clarity to your life.
Porn addiction is real folks. You're parents failed you but you can change it.
Porn addiction is real folks. You're parents failed you but you can change it.
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Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:15 am to NATidefan
Honestly the best way to get over your problem is to have lots of sex every day until it doesn't make you nervous anymore
Don't worry about the porn
Don't worry about the porn
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:28 am to goatman1419
Well whether it's the porn, a mental issue, or whatever... I don't see how giving up porn for a while could make it worse. I really like this girl but don't get to see her but about twice a week and only for a short period of time sometimes due to my work schedule and the fact she's working, in school, and has kids. So I tend to feel pressure to perform when I do get to see her, and it becomes more like some task or mission than just enjoying the experience and being with her.
Like I said I don't think it is totally the porn, but I think it may be part of it.
Like I said I don't think it is totally the porn, but I think it may be part of it.
This post was edited on 3/24/15 at 8:29 am
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:37 am to NATidefan
How often are you porn fapping?
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:41 am to NATidefan
You watch porn every day? Wow
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:45 am to NATidefan
It must really suck to never get laid.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:45 am to HailHailtoMichigan!
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Well, porn obviously affects your ability to differentiate between affect/effect...
Well, porn does have some special effects....
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:47 am to NATidefan
You have everything to gain by dropping the porn habit. Especially if you want things to go somewhere with this girl. Women take their guy watching porn very very personal and it is hurtful to them. Not trying to white knight or anything either, but it hurts me when I am too weak minded to put her feelings before my urges.
Dropping porn will work miracles for your performance as well, you gotta let that thing get sensitive again. You will really notice a difference around 5-7 days. A lot of it is also just getting comfortable with this woman. For me just enjoying the act itself and not worrying about the finish the whole time made things a lot better.
Don't let anyone in this thread make you feel like porn isn't a problem, because it is.
Dropping porn will work miracles for your performance as well, you gotta let that thing get sensitive again. You will really notice a difference around 5-7 days. A lot of it is also just getting comfortable with this woman. For me just enjoying the act itself and not worrying about the finish the whole time made things a lot better.
Don't let anyone in this thread make you feel like porn isn't a problem, because it is.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:48 am to NATidefan
Give it up. It won't hurt.
Next time she comes over you might be TOO excited from stopping fapping and pop in 2 seconds. But that's Ok. You got to get to the point where sex is not a big deal. No pussy on the pedestal. Obviously easier said than done. Taking porn out might help ease your preoccupation and relax.
Next time she comes over you might be TOO excited from stopping fapping and pop in 2 seconds. But that's Ok. You got to get to the point where sex is not a big deal. No pussy on the pedestal. Obviously easier said than done. Taking porn out might help ease your preoccupation and relax.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:48 am to NATidefan
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Well whether it's the porn, a mental issue, or whatever... I don't see how giving up porn for a while could make it worse.
It can be all of them. Being nervous around a new girl is perfectly normal for a lot of dudes. Dont put so much pressure on yourself. Dont go into seeing her thinking you "HAVE" to frick her. Let it be spontaneous. Or try and take control when you're ready. I have a lot of physicians in my family and I have this issue, especially when first hooking up with a hot girl, or Im not comfortable with her yet. As ive gotten older, IJDGAF and it works fine.
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Like I said I don't think it is totally the porn
Porn can change the chemistry in your head and makes real sex difficult to perform. If you feel you are in fact addicted, then stop and you will see a tremendous difference. But dont feel like you're alone in all this bro, because more guys are suffering and going through this than most would be willing admit.
This post was edited on 3/24/15 at 8:50 am
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:52 am to BayouBlue386
Watching porn isn't the problem...busting 50 loads while watching porn is the problem...
When the real opportunity presents itself, you would have shot all your loads, and will have to frick for a long time to bust your load, if it ever happens. Bottom line: stop busting loads while watching porn.
When the real opportunity presents itself, you would have shot all your loads, and will have to frick for a long time to bust your load, if it ever happens. Bottom line: stop busting loads while watching porn.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:55 am to NATidefan
I am a month in. Stopped for the same reason you did.
There is hope. If you fail. Just start back again. We are human.
There is hope. If you fail. Just start back again. We are human.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 8:58 am to NATidefan
There was a thread here that may help you, lots of happy customers in there and comical stories. Solve your problems for $30
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Porn Star Juice
Posted on 3/24/15 at 9:06 am to NATidefan
Sick edit dude. We both know the truth.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 9:07 am to DarthRebel
Havent watched in over a year. When my daughter was born last year, I gave it up. It has been good for me and my relationship with my wife.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 9:09 am to NATidefan
Just remember, she's already in bed with you. She's already impressed. She likes you. Let her do the work for a little bit so you won't be as anxious. Just worry about enjoying yourself and enjoying the moment, and everything good will flow from there.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 9:44 am to kingbob
I think the worst part is that she doesn't understand it even though I've tried explaining it to her. She just thinks I'm not attracted to her. But thanks for all the encouragement and responses.
Posted on 3/24/15 at 9:45 am to kingbob
just munch on it ahead of time then kill the poon all good
Posted on 3/24/15 at 9:46 am to NATidefan
tell her that she's not trying hard enough to turn you on, or that you think her sister/cousin/best friend is maybe just a little bit hotter than her. This will get her competitive side going to "I'll show him how hot I can be"
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