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re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:46 am to Jreily85
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:46 am to Jreily85
Look that's ridiculous and simplistic. You went from being very helpful to getting influenced by peer pressure in the thread so resorting to the lowest common denominator.
The girl is hot - I'm a good catch myself, otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player". I was on top of the relationship 3 weeks ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.
She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters. I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.
The girl is hot - I'm a good catch myself, otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player". I was on top of the relationship 3 weeks ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.
She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters. I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 9:48 am
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Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:50 am to SirWinston
quote:dude you are already behind the 8 ball.
The girl is hot - I'm a good catch myself, otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player". I was on top of the relationship 3 WEEKS ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.
quote:Which will only make her want to sleep with him more. If she already isn't.
She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters. I WILL work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.
I'll never understand why so many twenty-somethings get so over the top about new relationships. If you are dealing with this kind of heartache & "weakness" now. What makes you think this relationship will last?
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 9:53 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:52 am to SirWinston
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". I was on top of the relationship 3 weeks ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.
I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.
if this is what you got from the good advice in this thread, then you are missing the point. you are read instructions for building a chair and ending up with a dog house.
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She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters.
she is not spending every night with you. you do not know where she is on those other nights.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:53 am to SirWinston
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otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player".
Well how do you know she didn't say that to your friend with the intention of feigning a subordinate position (knowing that it would get back to you) in order to give you the illusion of having the upper hand?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:55 am to SirWinston
Settle down. I was kidding. 
That's actually a very good attitude to have. Just see where it goes.
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The girl is hot - I'm a good catch myself, otherwise she wouldn't have wanted to be exclusive with me and revealed to my friend that she thought I was a "player". I was on top of the relationship 3 weeks ago and probably still am. I just sensed a weakness and want an opinion on how to address this.
She is not fricking the dude currently, she is fricking me - that's really all that matters. I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great. I have a hot GF that I'm happy with. If not, then fine - I learned a lot, banged a hot chick for a few months, etc.
That's actually a very good attitude to have. Just see where it goes.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 10:06 am to SirWinston
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I will work to keep this chick away from him which won't be THAT difficult and if things work out then great.
I can't possibly see this "working out". Maybe she can stay away from him, but this will flare up again in the future with someone else. Her behavior is disrespectful and unacceptable.
You seem to already have her viewpoint figured out-she finds this guy interesting, knows he is getting under your skin, and is trying to get a rise out of you. Why? Because it's funny to see a "player" like you get upset.
You've pretty much lost it by this point-however, you did get to bang a hot girl for a while so that's pretty cool. It seems like you can find another girl that isn't as hard on your ticker. Trying to put the guy down or out-alpha him is futile--your girlfriend will see right through what you're doing. I would focus less on fixing her shitty behavior and more on how you can stop the relationship on your own terms.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 12:03 pm to SirWinston
The more you talk, the less I want to root for you in this situation. Instead of listening to the few nuggets of wisdom here, you cherry picked what you wanted to hear. As it stands right now you probably shouldn't be in a relationship, instead focus on yourself and deal with these insecurity issues. Not trying to be callous but you sound insufferable to be around with all this alpha beta crap.
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