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re: Relationship Advice. Girl problems brah.

Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:17 pm to
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137302 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:17 pm to
Well put, sherman
Posted by PBnJ
in your lunchbox
Member since Aug 2009
2643 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:23 pm to
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I did some things when we first started dating that I regret.



Go on...
Posted by hendersonshands
Univ. of Louisiana Ragin Cajuns
Member since Oct 2007
160187 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:25 pm to
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I literally give her the world.



No you don't.
Posted by Hat Tricks
Member since Oct 2003
28668 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:27 pm to
How old are you? Dump her arse and find another girl.
Posted by ShermanTxTiger
Broussard, La
Member since Oct 2007
11030 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:28 pm to
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Well put, sherman


I have some experience with this. A couple we were very close to 10 years ago had fidelity issues. My wife and I got dragged into it (That sucked). I remember telling the wife. "If you want this to work eventually you have to bury this thing and move on. If you can't, that's ok because it is hard. If you decide to go forward you have to let it go eventually". She agreed but never did. They eventually divorced. They both messed up. Him by fricking another woman. Her by never forgiving him and staying in the marriage.

I am pretty sure I would bail if I found my wife cheated on me and I would expect she to do the same. But if I did try to work through it, I would have to bury it. Harboring resentment and distrust is poison.
Posted by bendellee
Member since Aug 2006
2429 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:29 pm to
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I literally don't understand hyperbole.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:29 pm to
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Trust is hard to win back. If y'all have trust issues marriage does not sound like a good idea.



This. And you can't make someone trust you. You earn it....and sometimes you can still do all the right things and it's never earned back.


Might be best to move on to another relationship where there is trust.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10158 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:30 pm to
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:32 pm to
She's just not that into you, dude.
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
51810 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:34 pm to
quote:

I did some things when we first started dating that I regret


Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:39 pm to
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I literally give her the world.


She doesn't trust you because you use "literally" incorrectly.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137302 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:42 pm to
Nurse is probably right

Been there where i was the one that messed up trust. It will always cause heartache. Something that i dont think i will ever fully get over

#beta. #dontcare
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
65844 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:45 pm to
Be an open book. Share an email account, Facebook, whatever. Give her complete access to your cell phone, computer, etc. Don't do anything that would even so much as suggest an indescretion your part.
Consider initiating counseling (singles or couples depending on the issue) to show your seriousness. Eventually she'll get over it or she won't.

Advice from my own past.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10158 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:47 pm to
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Be an open book. Share an email account, Facebook, whatever. Give her complete access to your cell phone, computer, etc. Don't do anything that would even so much as suggest an indescretion your part. Consider initiating counseling (singles or couples depending on the issue) to show your seriousness. Eventually she'll get over it or she won't. Advice from my own past.

Posted by iliveinabox
in a box
Member since Aug 2011
24120 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:47 pm to
She's never going to get over it, move along.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
58183 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:49 pm to
Ahem. I brought it up.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84216 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:50 pm to
She's bringing it up now because she's cheating on you.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
65844 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:53 pm to
Don't clown me when I put my heart out there.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
73199 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:55 pm to
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Be an open book. Share an email account, Facebook, whatever. Give her complete access to your cell phone, computer, etc. Don't do anything that would even so much as suggest an indescretion your part.
Consider initiating counseling (singles or couples depending on the issue) to show your seriousness. Eventually she'll get over it or she won't.


What in the frick?

I've never cheated in any of my relationships, but there is absolutely no way I would ever do any of that.
Posted by Feral
Member since Mar 2012
12573 posts
Posted on 9/1/14 at 11:56 pm to
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If it's been a while and she still doesn't trust you... you might have permanently fricked it up back in the day and have no shot of ever fixing it.


This.

I laugh when I hear guys say stuff like "I did some shite when we first got together BUT I'M 100% FAITHFUL NOW" and act like it's crazy when the girl has trust issues.

Women have loooooong memories -- they're not toddlers, you can't just jingle keys in front of them and suddenly everything's okay and they forget what they're pissed off about.
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