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re: "I’m The Woman That Stopped Sleeping With Her Husband Completely, Here’s Why"

Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:50 pm to
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97834 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:50 pm to
oh he's fricking someone, may not be her but he gets his
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83701 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:50 pm to
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I worked part time as a receptionist at a clinic to help with our bills but allow me to spend most of my time with the baby and I managed to make dinner almost every night and keep our house clean and our bills paid. There simply wasn’t any more time or energy to do anything.


I work full time, cook dinner every night, clean the kitchen, do all the yardwork, pay the bills, etc

and I always have time to bang my wife

this bitch is just lazy and/or not attracted to her husband
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:51 pm to
Yeah. That's a divorce waiting to happen.
Posted by NOFLyZ0ne28
West Florida
Member since Apr 2014
876 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:51 pm to
Pic, you ask??

























Yea, he's been getting some on the side for years now.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10079 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:51 pm to
Sounds like a miserable pack of dregs.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39649 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:52 pm to
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However, if the guy wants to get down, he needs to actively participate in giving her a break so she has the energy to put out.



Her excuse is bullshite. Its a tired refrain from many a woman. To appear as if they are the only ones who are "tired" during life.

The tired excuse is so prevalent its in many tv shows and movies.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17634 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:52 pm to
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Pic, you ask??


:yack:
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8634 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:52 pm to
I agree with you.

I think this line of thinking happens a lot over time in marriages.

The problem s, when these types of issues start to creep in, people aren't mature enough to handle.

There has to be give and take. For a fully adult woman to say I don't like or want sex, makes me think there is a bigger problem, maybe even medical.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
425886 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:53 pm to
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My husband and I had a great sex life when we were dating, it was fun, new, and exciting. It made me feel desired and loved the way he always wanted me. Looking back, I know that that was what I enjoyed about our sex life, not the sex itself. The few times I did initiate sex, it was because I knew he would like that. Our sex life was about attracting him and making him happy, not a reflection of something I truly wanted.

quote:

I thought, I guess, as harsh as it seems to say this out loud, that sex was one of many things women do to find a great guy that is completely unrealistic to keep up with for the rest of your life

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The truth is, sex isn’t that interesting to me.

i get her argument and similar arguments (devoting energy for other things, mainly), but THIS is just her admitting to a bait and switch. here is another problem from her argument

quote:

We’re adults, adult life is not all fun and games.


sex isn't the only thing i bet she lied about, and i guarantee you that she uses this reasoning for all of that
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
67602 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:53 pm to
dat arse
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:53 pm to
Hopefully all that she asks is that he keep his infidelities discreet. That's all they really want anyway, a roof over their head and babies. It's the natural order of things.
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8634 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:54 pm to
quote:

Her excuse is bullshite. Its a tired refrain from many a woman. To appear as if they are the only ones who are "tired" during life. The tired excuse is so prevalent its in many tv shows and movies.


Also agree with this.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17634 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:54 pm to
quote:

she must not have orgasms


Knew a girl like this back in Athens. Turns out she had some issues...
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15596 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:54 pm to
quote:

Her excuse is bullshite. Its a tired refrain from many a woman. To appear as if they are the only ones who are "tired" during life. The tired excuse is so prevalent its in many tv shows and movies.


I agree, people are lazy. There is a guy at work that complains about not having time to do basically anything because of his kid. Only problem is he said the same shite before he had a kid. He just likes to go home and sit on his fat arse all the time. He seems to never miss much TV.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
425886 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:55 pm to
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That is really common when kids are introduced into a marriage. By the time you work, deal with kids, maintain your house, etc., you just want to be left alone and no one to frick with you.

i get that

and i get that women are very mental/emotional about sex and motherhood often fricks with that

the author in the OP uses that as a secondary excuse. she clearly states she never enjoyed sex and just did it to bait her husband. THAT is a pretty shitty argument. trying to mask it with the other, acceptable, arguments fails to me

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However, if the guy wants to get down, he needs to actively participate in giving her a break so she has the energy to put out.

agreed
This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 12:56 pm
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129079 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:55 pm to
Well she shouldn't be surprised when her marriage falls apart.


Sex is a very important part in having a successful marriage. Doesn't mean you have to have sex every day or you are doomed. But how are you supposed to stay connected with your spouse when you aren't having sex with them on a regular basis? Only exception is if one of you has a medical condition that prevents sex.




Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17634 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:55 pm to
quote:

There is a guy at work that complains about not having time to do basically anything because of his kid.


Sounds like a sorry arse excuse for a father. Notice I did not say a Dad.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83701 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:55 pm to
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i get her argument and similar arguments (devoting energy for other things, mainly


how much energy does it require to have sex once a week?

the best advice I ever received from an older couple was to always set aside one day a week to have sex with your partner and never miss it

even if you are busy that night, you make time for it, it actually becomes a game of sorts to see if you can squeeze in a quickie
Posted by DrTyger
Covington
Member since Oct 2009
22325 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:57 pm to
This dumb bitch just got in the fastlane to divorce.
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8634 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 12:58 pm to
quote:

how much energy does it require to have sex once a week?


It's more then that.

Not everyone wants to have sex with a completely unwilling partner.

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