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re: Complex Modern Parenting issue with online games

Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:29 pm to
Posted by The Sad Banana
The gate is narrow.
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:29 pm to
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It sounds like your son is going to be an architect.

Congrats on retiring rich.
By being an architect?
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
36790 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:30 pm to
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Prolific gaming in childhood has shown to create social dysfunction and isolation.

Sure, it can promote many good skills, hand/eye, quick decision making, et all, but it needs to be done in moderation.

The behavior described in this OP is absurd.


Dude, go be a grumpy baby boomer somewhere else.

Kudos to OP for the way he's approached this. I'm 29, I play video games all the time, have ever since high school, and I have plenty of friends.

Seriously though, if it gets bad, it might not be a bad idea to turn PVP off. Playing video games with other people is fun, but it can get vicious for children and teenagers. I hate minecraft, but if I was that into that game, I think it'd be something I'd want to play by myself, just to get away from the world every once in awhile.
Posted by Draconian Sanctions
Markey's bar
Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:32 pm to
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Learn to play. If your son burns down his sister's house, go and burn his house down.

An eye for an eye.

He can't beat you up, can he?


this is the correct answer
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:32 pm to
Okay, congrats on retiring with children that actually have successful, rewarding careers.
Posted by GRTiger
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Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:39 pm to
I enjoyed this thread. It had the always entertaining super parents (who may or may not have kids), with an interesting technology/gaming twist.

I might have to check this game out. Oh, and put my son up for adoption in advance since I assume he is going to hit his siblings who are not even born yet.
Posted by The Sad Banana
The gate is narrow.
Member since Jul 2008
89498 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:40 pm to
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Okay, congrats on retiring with children that actually have successful, rewarding careers.

That's better.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:48 pm to
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this is the correct answer

no doubt. I can still take his little bitch arse. I hate minecraft. We waited way too long to play games that look that shitty. shite looks like Adventure on Atari 2600. I played the hell out of this game
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 2:51 pm
Posted by Al Dante
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:51 pm to
mikelbr, how long do you allow them to play each day?
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:54 pm to
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mikelbr, how long do you allow them to play each day?

They don't get more than an hour during school year if that. Weekends and summer a powersurge is purely arbitrary like 'cuz I said so', disciplinary when they fight, or weather/travel related. I try and mimick my childhood schedule(well we had no portable games except them relic led games). More outside than inside when daylight is rule of thumb
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 2:57 pm
Posted by Al Dante
Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:58 pm to
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They don't get more than an hour during school year if that. Weekends and summer a powersurge is purely arbitrary like 'cuz I said so'




I limit to an hour as well, and only after homework is done. 2 hours on the weekend. Summer is the same schedule. I don't even like giving them that much time but I think there can be some things learned from it all.
Posted by SpqrTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2004
9297 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 3:01 pm to
I don't understand everyone and every game maker's obsession with multiplayer.

Multiplayer is bullshite. Seriously. It doesn't matter if you're 5 years old or 50, there's always somebody who is going to frick your shite up in multiplayer JUST BECAUSE THEY CAN.

I say wipe that fricking world off the hard drive and make them play their own individual worlds.

They can earn time to play in their individual world by making good grades and cutting the grass and washing your car.

He who serves best, plays most.

Act like an a-hole when others are playing... lose privileges for a week. Punch your sister? Lose privileges for a month.

I'm not a video game hater. I love video games. But I have no trouble taking that shite away and making them earn it back.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47612 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 3:04 pm to
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Multiplayer is bullshite. Seriously. It doesn't matter if you're 5 years old or 50, there's always somebody who is going to frick your shite up in multiplayer JUST BECAUSE THEY CAN.

AfrickinMen. God I long for single player rpg, adventure, and fps. I'm the most social dude in any setting except cyberspace games.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 3:05 pm
Posted by crash1211
Houma
Member since May 2008
3154 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 3:05 pm to
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If your kid see punching someone in the face over a game, he has seen that this is a legit reaction.

horseshite. 8 year old boys are 8 year old boys, and will fisticuff from time to time even in the best parented household.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
36790 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 3:07 pm to
Now I do love me some co-op games, like Borderlands.

So much fun.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47612 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 3:09 pm to
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horseshite. 8 year old boys are 8 year old boys, and will fisticuff from time to time even in the best parented household

I know. And we didn't see it happening. They know better than that. And his sister is bigger than him and scratches his face when we're not looking. It's fair fighting at this age but he knows it's trouble if he hits her in the face. I said that earlier. He knows man code on that topic.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 3:10 pm
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 6:37 pm to
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