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Tell me about your experiences with Bipolar disorder.

Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:45 am
Posted by LarrytheGolfer
Glen Iris
Member since Mar 2014
2433 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:45 am
Have you ever dated someone with bipolar or have a family member who has it? Do you have it yourself? Looking to hear about first hand experiences and to learn more about this illness.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:46 am to
It sucks
Posted by dkreller
Laffy
Member since Jan 2009
31297 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:46 am to
This is a trick question right? I think every female is a psych visit away from being diagnosed.
This post was edited on 3/19/14 at 7:47 am
Posted by LSUballs
RayVegas LA
Member since Feb 2008
38155 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:47 am to
Never had one buddy. If I had I would gladly share.





Now go frick yourself bitchface.
Posted by LSUSoulja08
Member since Oct 2007
16969 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:47 am to
You'll get more misinformation than anything here, but I do have a family member that has it.

bottom line, it's hell. total emotional roller coaster
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
57082 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:50 am to
If its a family member with it, best of luck. It will take a lot out of you over the years.
This post was edited on 3/19/14 at 7:51 am
Posted by Kankles
Member since Dec 2012
5995 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:50 am to
It's really not that bad, but holy shite it freakin sucks
Posted by okietiger
Chelsea F.C. Fan
Member since Oct 2005
41353 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:51 am to
Dated a girl who had it during college.

After we broke up, she one night broke into my parents house (during summer and while they were gone and I was there alone). And threatened to cut herself in front of me with a fairly large knife.

We argued, and somehow I said at one point "frick this, I'm going to bed." And I left her downstairs. She came upstairs later and she did cut herself, just not on the wrist or anything.

Her breaking into the house was pretty damn scary though. She rang the doorbell literally 60 times. I should have called the cops.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129104 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:51 am to
My ex had it. It's hell dating someone with it that doesn't take their meds. Basically you feel like you are walking on eggshells with them the entire relationship and your mood begins to be based off what mood they are in.



This was my best solution to dealing with it....
LINK
Posted by Greengirl
Member since Dec 2011
5856 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:51 am to
A few people (two of them therapists, but only once of whom actually met him) suggested that my ex-husband may have it, but he was never formally diagnosed, and I don't think he does.
Posted by Chaos Six
En Route
Member since May 2009
7814 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:53 am to
You hit a 340 yard drive on a par five straight down the middle and you smile.
You slice your 2nd into the pond and snap your 4 iron in half.
You chili dip your drop back into the pond and laugh about it for 20 minutes.
You slam dunk your 5th from 130 yards out and drive the cart into the lake because you didn't do it on the 3rd shot.


A lot like that.
Posted by htownjeep
Republic of Texas
Member since Jun 2005
7631 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:54 am to
quote:

Tell me about your experiences with Bipolar disorder.

What Type are you asking about? They are VERY different depending on the Type.
Posted by BayouBrawl
Junk Yard
Member since Aug 2012
1151 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:56 am to
EX-wife is bipolar. One minute the world is fine and full of rainbows, the next the sky is falling and everyone is an a-hole (I am an a-hole anyway, but she knew that to begin with). It takes a really strong person to put up with someone that is bipolar and refuses to take their meds.
Posted by ugasickem
Allatoona
Member since Nov 2010
11349 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:57 am to
It's a nightmare.
Posted by Monk
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2007
3660 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 7:57 am to
From what I can tell, it's all about the proper diagnosis and finding the right combination of drugs.

Do that and it is manageable.
Posted by sloopy
Member since Aug 2009
6891 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 8:03 am to
I had a family member with it who decided to take his own life when he stopped taking his meds. As others have said, it's an emotional roller coaster and hell on that person.
Posted by ellishughtiger
70118
Member since Jul 2004
21135 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 8:09 am to
It's real and sucks. If your significant other is bipolar let her take her Zoloft and get out the way for a few hours.

Everything is smooths out after a few hours.
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53427 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 8:16 am to
My best friend dated 2 bipolar chicks.... Back to back. It was crazy. They fake who they are until they've got you in deep in the relationship then they unleash the fury.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129104 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 8:19 am to
How long have you been with her?
Posted by Rube Saibot
Member since Mar 2014
609 posts
Posted on 3/19/14 at 8:21 am to
I've dated two chicks with it. It was terrible and exciting at the same time. I'll say one thing, you literally never know what to expect. One minute she's awesome to be around, the next you want to get the hell out of Dodge. Secks was pretty great with both, but the rest of the bullshite was not worth it in the end. Another similarity that both of the girls I dated shared was that no matter what, it always seemed like shitty things happened to them. Both had parents die at a young age (one was suicide), one's brother died while we were actually dating, one girl's house was destroyed by a tornado at a young age, etc. The list goes on... Regardless, all bitches be crazy. Just find the one with the amount of crazy that you can handle. Chances are if she's legit bipolar, you won't be able to handle it. Unless you're a beta amirite?



ETA: Cdawg speaks the truth...

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I'm going to give you a little advice b/c I have a close family member with this. Go ahead and leave this relationship. Nothing is going to change. I'm sorry to break this to you but there is nothing, not even medication that is going to make her better. It requires an effort on their part that's not possible for them partake. Your life will only go downhill as long as that's in your life. That unfortunately is the cold hard truth. Years of counselling may work but again, it requires them on a level of honesty and openness they're not capable of.

This post was edited on 3/19/14 at 8:24 am
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