re: Would You Take Your SO Back if Caught Cheating With Another Man

I did. Five years after my wife was treated for alcoholism she told me about having an affair while she was using. Her reasons is that she wanted to lay all her baggage on the table. She offered sincere apologies and sought forgiveness but stated she understood that I owed her nothing. Simply put....she wanted to come clean. We were both young at the time and after the fact I had ample evidence that she was running around but chose to ignore what for me was the unthinkable.

Fast forward 25 yeas and we are still married and she hasn't had a drop of alcohol since. All of that being said I've always wished I'd have just never known.