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When did you know you capped out in life?
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:04 pm
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:04 pm
34 going on 35 and feeling like I maxed out in life. Don’t see career heading to greener pastures, don’t see my fitness improving a lot, just burnt out from many things. This just a man thing? How do you deal with it?
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:06 pm to fareplay
Damn dude, 35 was great for me. Wait until you hit your 50’s…
ETA: You may want to change your scenery.
ETA: You may want to change your scenery.
This post was edited on 3/25/25 at 2:08 pm
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:07 pm to fareplay
I dont know. Between two kids, a wife, work, hunting, and a few other hobbies I don't have time to think about it. I think thats the route to go. Don't give yourself much time to reflect on it until you are much older.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:07 pm to fareplay
Jesus...you feel you've maxed out at 35?
You need to set bigger goals for yourself.
You need to set bigger goals for yourself.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:07 pm to fareplay
I'm hearing a lot of "me, me, me". Maybe start living for others. Living selfishly will never amount to a fulfilling life.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:08 pm to DemonKA3268
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Damn dude, 35 was great for me. Wait until you hit your 50’s…
think about when you were 35 and how the economy was.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:09 pm to fareplay
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34 going on 35 and feeling like I maxed out in life.
Do you have kids? Enjoy helping them and watching them prosper.
Are you married? If so, don't worry. Statistics show you'll be divorcing around 40 and starting life all over.

Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:09 pm to RummelTiger
I’m not very smart and hit my max too quickly due to luck, kinda feel it’s down hill from here
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:09 pm to fareplay
You’re focused on the wrong thing. I’m 64 and am stronger in some areas than I ever was. Physically, Mother Nature wins in the end. Quit focusing on physical and material things. Talk to older people who have been in your shoes. Life after 40 is not like life after 40.
Financially, I’ve saved more in my 50’s than in the entire rest of my life. I contribute that to becoming debt free.
Get yourself right spiritually. Everything else will fall into place.
Financially, I’ve saved more in my 50’s than in the entire rest of my life. I contribute that to becoming debt free.
Get yourself right spiritually. Everything else will fall into place.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:11 pm to LSU1SLU
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think about when you were 35 and how the economy was.
Fair point but I didn’t let that influence how I felt about my life then or now.
Everyone has their ups and downs, life’s like a roller coaster, just have to hold on and enjoy the ride.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:11 pm to fareplay
I'm trying to start a career over at 39 and it's rough.
I feel like I wasted my youth and have nothing to show for it.
Although I am 5 chapters into a novel, so there's that
I feel like I wasted my youth and have nothing to show for it.
Although I am 5 chapters into a novel, so there's that
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:11 pm to fareplay
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34 going on 35 and feeling like I maxed out in life. Don’t see career heading to greener pastures, don’t see my fitness improving a lot, just burnt out from many things. This just a man thing? How do you deal with it?
Ive thought multiple times that I maxed out and then things get better. At 35 I wouldnt accept that this is as good as it gets. You never know whats waiting for you.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:12 pm to LSU1SLU
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think about when you were 35 and how the economy was.
The economy is up and down and up and down. Either you adapt, and constantly improve yourself, or you get left behind.
Life is really good for those that embrace it, constantly work to improve, and have a strong sense of purpose, and a good attitude. I guess it kinda sucks for those that feel like a victim all the time.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:12 pm to fareplay
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I’m not very smart and hit my max too quickly due to luck, kinda feel it’s down hill from here
I actually understand this and felt I hit my max in my late 20’s. Lots of ups and downs since then but I’m still pushing forward.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:13 pm to fareplay
Some articles I write are terrible.
Some are pretty good.
My philosophy is to try and do the next right thing, and the rest will sort itself out.
Some are pretty good.
My philosophy is to try and do the next right thing, and the rest will sort itself out.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:14 pm to fareplay
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When did you know you capped out in life?
Hopefully never.
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34 going on 35 and feeling like I maxed out in life. Don’t see career heading to greener pastures, don’t see my fitness improving a lot, just burnt out from many things. This just a man thing? How do you deal with it?
Play the stock market.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:15 pm to imjustafatkid
I lost 60k so prob not the best person for this. Options are a bitch
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:16 pm to fareplay
Yes. About 10 seconds ago when I opened this thread.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:17 pm to fareplay
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I lost 60k so prob not the best person for this. Options are a bitch
Yeah I'm not playing the options game. I seek out dividend stocks when they're down and then just reinvest the dividends.
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