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My neighbor‘s daughter (18) made out with an older man last night
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:18 am
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:18 am
There was apparently a big party last night in our neighborhood and one of the chaperones (prob around 45 years old) made out with my neighbor’s daughter and he (the dad) is furious about it, she is a senior in high school.
He was telling me he’s gonna press charges and all this other bullshite, but the reality is that she 18. And although I would never tell him this, she’s not very attractive.
If you were her father, how would you handle this?
UPDATE based on curiosities from others below: she did it based on a dare, it lasted about a minute. Both sober, both consenting. Neither are attractive, his son was a the party which is why he was one of the "chaperones". I don't know the hosts or if they are even making a big deal about it. The neighborhood is very nice so leave out the trailer park comments.
He was telling me he’s gonna press charges and all this other bullshite, but the reality is that she 18. And although I would never tell him this, she’s not very attractive.
If you were her father, how would you handle this?
UPDATE based on curiosities from others below: she did it based on a dare, it lasted about a minute. Both sober, both consenting. Neither are attractive, his son was a the party which is why he was one of the "chaperones". I don't know the hosts or if they are even making a big deal about it. The neighborhood is very nice so leave out the trailer park comments.
This post was edited on 2/12/25 at 2:45 pm
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:19 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Both of them probably post here.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:20 am to member12
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Both of them probably post here.
Peej and Liz?
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:21 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
He should ask the guy out on a date.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:22 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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daughter (18)
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chaperones (prob around 45 years old)
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If you were her father, how would you handle this?
With my fists.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:22 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Not a damn thing he can do legally. If it's worth it to him to get assault charges, that's his call. Sounds like he did a bad job as a father.
This post was edited on 2/9/25 at 11:23 am
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:22 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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If you were her father, how would you handle this?
Feel like a failure for giving my daughter daddy issues
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:22 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Everyone is at fault here.
-The Dad overreacts & thinks he can press charges. She is 18. He knows deep down he has failed as a father.
-The 18 year old daughter is a whore
-The 45 year old making out with an unattractive 18 year old has Wooderson vibes. She has to be hot & not living with her parents before it is acceptable.
-The Dad overreacts & thinks he can press charges. She is 18. He knows deep down he has failed as a father.
-The 18 year old daughter is a whore
-The 45 year old making out with an unattractive 18 year old has Wooderson vibes. She has to be hot & not living with her parents before it is acceptable.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:23 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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My neighbor‘s daughter (18) made out with an older man last night
Sugar daddy?
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:24 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
The weirdest part of all of this is that you and all of the other people on Nextdoor know this happened.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:26 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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There was apparently a big party last night in our neighborhood
Did the trailer park manager approve of this party?
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:26 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
The neighbor is creepy. I don't care if it's legal.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:27 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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If you were her father, how would you handle this?
To the daughter, I would tell her that she is eighteen. She's highly valuable to any man that wants her at her age and she is a treasure to be had. I would also tell her how women have tougher choices to make at a younger age than men in choosing a partner.
I would tell her that if she was looking for someone that much her senior while he may have resources, he lacks time and the strength for adventure in that he's already lived his life to a certain point.
To the chaperone, I would tell him to stay in his lane unless he wants to face the consequences. I would also put himself in my position and ask how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. If he was childish about my response, then I wait for a moment and hold him accountable in front of my daughter if he didn't get the message.
I would fight for what's best for her in front of him and not call him a single name but make him answer every hard question about what he could provide for her in front of her. I would show her that the person who cares for her should fight for her no matter what.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:29 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Wait till they start banging.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:30 am to hometownhero89
Damn. You put some thought into that. This is the OT, not Wendy’s.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:31 am to hometownhero89
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She's highly valuable to any man that wants her at her age and she is a treasure to be had
According to the OP she’s an unattractive 18 year old slutbag. I wouldn’t exactly call her a treasure.
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:31 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Pics or it didn’t happen
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:31 am to Cool McCool
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With my fists
So this is one of the few options. She’s 18 no legal remedy is available. Fuq his wife, kick his arse (most preferred), or if he’s a puss he could try and publicly shame the dude and or get his employer informed etc.
I think a knock on the door and giving your best attempt as a beat down is the way to go. No one but Harry Sisson will be upset about this
Posted on 2/9/25 at 11:33 am to HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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