re: Any of you fellas on the dating sites

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My unsolicited advice, get off the dating sites.I fell in love with a girl I met on a dating site, but overall I think it it better to meet women organically where your vibe and personality and intelligence and verbal game and playfulness can really shine.

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I agree there, it's just a tool to facilitate a meetup. When I was using it I was trying to go from matching to in person meet ups as quickly as possible. It was usually within a day or two of matching. Usually to grab a quick drink after work at the Rum House or Olive or Twist since I worked nearby. You could usually see what you were working with for around $20 during happy hour. If it seems like there was something there I'd ask her out on a real date or if it was just smash potential keep doing the bar meetup thing. Was pretty successful with it and was usually meeting up with two or three women per week. Even if I wasn't attracted to them it was a lot of fun and I got a lot better at dating. I wasn't really looking at the initial meetup as trying to smash, just feeling things out.