Another really good discussion on the topic as well:

Single Men No Longer Looking For Dates Or Having Sex

Scary to think that up to 50% of young men haven't had sex in the last year. There are probably a lot of men who haven't had sex in the last several years and an increasing amount of young men who are virgins. I know for me I haven't had sex in just over 3 years and have no prospects on the horizon for ending that.

As this board now trends older I think most of the posters here are married and are somewhat insulated from what's happening. That is true for general society as well and I think it's why more and more people are just now waking up to what's happening with Xenials, Millennials and Gen Z. We all know that emotional and physical benefits that men have when they are in a health relationship and having sex. It's truly a crisis that people like me saw a good 5 years ago but most people are just now starting to see.

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Posted by soccerfüt

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Posted on 10/1/23 at 9:48 am to OceanTiger83

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I know for me I haven't had sex in just over 3 years and have no prospects on the horizon for ending that.

Mercy.

I would move Heaven & Earth to resolve this, if it were me.

That includes moving to another continent and learning a new language.

I would however not resort to Plan Aggie.

Even I have limits.

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Posted by LordSaintly

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Posted on 10/1/23 at 9:50 am to OceanTiger83

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I know for me I haven't had sex in just over 3 years and have no prospects on the horizon for ending that

I get it sucks, but there's literally nothing that can be done about this. Sex requires two willing participants.

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Posted by Jake88

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Posted on 10/1/23 at 9:55 am to OceanTiger83

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I know for me I haven't had sex in just over 3 years and have no prospects on the horizon for ending that

This is somehow women's fault? Describe yourself, please. Where do you live? How do you attempt to meet women? Do you have guy friends to go out with?

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Posted by Allthatfades

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Posted on 10/1/23 at 9:58 am to OceanTiger83

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I know for me I haven't had sex in just over 3 years and have no prospects on the horizon for ending that.

This might be the saddest thing I’ve ever read on this board. Just download Tinder or POF. You might have to go big or ugly or both but you can get laid

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Posted by patnuh

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Posted on 10/1/23 at 10:06 am to OceanTiger83

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know for me I haven't had sex in just over 3 years and have no prospects on the horizon for ending that.

Go to a bar. Buy girl drinks, talk, sex. You will strike out in this process, but one will be in the same boat as you and break her slump.
If you want a girlfriend, do the same but start with coffee shop, gym, church type settings. They’re not just going to knock on your door.

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Posted by Limitlesstigers

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Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:16 am to OceanTiger83

Men aren't "lost", they are awake. The average American woman is 40lbs overweight, on at least one antidepressant, works a "lazy girl" job, and has an average of 10k worth of student loan and credit card debt. They just aren't simply worth it to men who work 60 hours a week and go to the gym. They are a declining investment. You have a better chance of winning a casino game than having a stable marriage with a decent woman that doesn't end in divorce.

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