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re: What's your relationship with your dad?

Posted on 9/26/23 at 6:35 am to
Posted by beaverfever
Little Rock
Member since Jan 2008
32758 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 6:35 am to
4 seems like it would be tough between father/daughter or mother/son. I love my mother dearly but it’s just different. She doesn’t know how to turn off mom mode.
Posted by CeauxPilot
Hammond, LA
Member since May 2020
187 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 6:37 am to
#4. I’d go to prison to save him the sentence. Full admission of the crime
Posted by Lowercase G
Member since Jul 2022
832 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 6:39 am to
1 , He's dead and the world is a better place without him
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
4935 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 6:51 am to
Don’t hate him. Got no reason to talk to him.
Posted by Potchafa
Avoyelles
Member since Jul 2016
3249 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 6:59 am to
- Professional rodeo clown
- SF in Nam
- Pro-Am bass fisherman
- Hell of an outdoorsman
- He new calligraphy
- Could also draw very well
But choose alcohol over his three boys!
Not much respect and he's dead. Had a chance to leave a legacy behind him.....choose a fricking vodka bottle.
This post was edited on 9/26/23 at 7:00 am
Posted by mindbreaker
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2011
7643 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:01 am to
been gone for 16 years. was one of my best friends and greatest mentor till the day he passed. 16 years later I still miss him everyday and occasionally still have dreams about him.
Posted by Ghost of Bob Horner
Somewhere between Atlanta & Athens
Member since Jul 2023
410 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:06 am to
3. When you're a child, your parents are like gods full of love and fear. When you get older you realize they're broken humans just like yourself.
Posted by OldCat55
Member since Apr 2021
645 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:12 am to
#4 he’s been gone 17 years now. Sometimes I still reach for my phone to call him. I strive to be like him. He’s the best man I’ve ever known.
Posted by 053wab
Charlotte NC
Member since May 2023
161 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:15 am to
His last 10 years were bad. My mom did everything she could to make him a better man. She died of cancer in 2010 (after 11 yrs of fighting)... she knew she was not gonna be around so she remodeled the kitchen and hired a trainer to try and get my dad in decent health.

She died, and he quit exercising. Hit the bottle hard, but not as hard as Fox News. That was his life. Became a bitter old man who viewed the world through the Fox News scope.

He was a miserable F at the end and I thank COVID for taking him in 11 days. If not for that, he would've survived a nuclear holocaust.

Before all that, he was a trip. We played golf a lot and had a great relationship.
Posted by hogminer
Bella Vista, AR.
Member since Apr 2010
9666 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:23 am to
quote:

We were transitioning from Parent to Friend - passed.

wish i'd asked so many more questions about life.

Then it was too late.


Same here.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70945 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:28 am to
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This post was edited on 9/26/23 at 9:45 pm
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43308 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:33 am to
3.

Dad and I had a couple of fallings out through my late teens and I held quite a grudge for a long time. We still talked some but I didn't want much to do with him. As I've grown older I have realized what and why he did those things, and while I still think he chose other things over me in critical moments, I understand him better. He and I are a lot more alike than I would've admitted just 6-7 years ago. Now that I have kids, I want them to have a relationship with him and that's helping to mend ours.
Posted by AlumneyeJ93
Member since Apr 2022
652 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:34 am to
1 before he died 16 years ago. There were some good memories when I was young but the bottle turned him into a verbally abusive drunk when I was a teenager.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83650 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 7:35 am to
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4. That's my dog. He's always been my go to person for anything I need in life. Couldn't live without him.



We talk weekly. I make it a point to visit my parents monthly despite living a few hours away.

My Dad is one of my best friends.

We don't agree on everything, but my Dad is pretty laid back and understanding about most things.

He is pretty awesome.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1623 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 8:03 am to
Fairly close still, surprisingly still alive. Dad is in his mid 70s, drank hard and smoked a many cigarettes, his parents both died young due to heart attacks. Dad was a calm drunk but hard on us when young, very little patience until he got drunk. He got healthy in his early 50s and still does well. I see him about once a month, don’t talk on the phone much though. He’s a quiet man
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
15276 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 8:04 am to
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Well he’s dead so….



Same here, and ever since I was just 8 years old back in 61, so I never really got to know my dad since he worked so much when I was a kid.

I did get real close to my now late father-in-law and he was born just 2 days before my dad was born in 1926 and lived to be 84 before cancer took him. I loved that old man and feel honored to have know him.
Posted by Jameson2954
Member since Mar 2022
661 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 8:10 am to
God I wish it were 4, hoping everything I do now makes it 4 for my son.
This post was edited on 9/26/23 at 8:11 am
Posted by TiggerWoods
Auburn
Member since Nov 2010
3981 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 8:18 am to
4. Neither one of us are great communicators, but I love him and always appreciate what he's done as a father for me.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 8:22 am to
my dad was the greatest man I've ever known, he passed 19 years ago, not a day goes by that I don't think of him, and when I have a big issue requiring judgement and a big decision I always draw on his example for guidance
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
78079 posts
Posted on 9/26/23 at 8:29 am to
Younger days...

A little bit of 2 and slowly edging closer to 3.

These days... A lot of 3 and moving more and more to 4
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