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re: Paging married folks. Is Marriage really the end of sex ?
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:56 pm to LeeVanCleef
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:56 pm to LeeVanCleef
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After she has a baby, her libido crashes for a year or so.
This is kinda true for various reasons but the rest is a big NO!
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Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:56 pm to LeeVanCleef
Only been married for 2 years so jury's still out for that, but so far no it hasn't. We have had a baby though, and admittedly the 2 months leading up to the birth because it was uncomfortable and the 2 months after the birth because she had to heal, it was a dry spell, but since then we've been doing it more than we ever have, so the post-baby libido crash definitely hasn't been our case.
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:56 pm to LeeVanCleef
I'm not in the mood all the time but if i was i could get it whenever and however often i want it. not the same for everyone though.
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:56 pm to LeeVanCleef
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When she hits menopause at 40ish that sex is all but over.
Overwhelmingly false. At 40, women are insatiable
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:57 pm to LeeVanCleef
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Every married guy I know says the follwing:
After a year or two of marriage, the frequency of sex plummets.
After she has a baby, her libido crashes for a year or so.
When she hits menopause at 40ish that sex is all but over.
That it's not all her fault, but due to menopause their libido becomes non-existent and that due to physical changes it can be painful for them etc.
They say that marriage is pretty much the end of sex, to just know that going in.
Doesn't paint a very rosy picture.
Is this all true ?
kids seal the deal
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:57 pm to LeeVanCleef
Over? No, but it’s far less frequent than 20 years ago
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:58 pm to LeeVanCleef
No.
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:58 pm to LeeVanCleef
28 years here. No Complaints. They want to feel the love. Do crap you don’t want to do with them. Take vacations and have date nights. Love your wife and she will love you back. Pretty simple
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:58 pm to Loup
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This post was edited on 8/7/23 at 11:21 pm
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:59 pm to Towelie
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Why you so salty about women?
Salty about women ? Not at all
Have major reservations about marriage ? Absolutely
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:59 pm to jchamil
We're 41 and 40. Our libidos are strong as ever.
My opinion is if you prioritize your wife ahead of other trival things you should be fine sexually as you age.
If you make it a point to hang with the boys at the bar or at the hunting camp expect your sexual connection with your wife to weaken over time.
My opinion is if you prioritize your wife ahead of other trival things you should be fine sexually as you age.
If you make it a point to hang with the boys at the bar or at the hunting camp expect your sexual connection with your wife to weaken over time.
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:59 pm to LeeVanCleef
No. IMO, it’s about making the time and communicating what each of you want. We had a convo early on about wants and needs. When you talk through it you can flat out ask or read between the lines to find out what’s “getting in the way” of the alone time. We both make an effort to free up time for the other. Laundry, dishes, cleaning, kids, etc. If you do your part to free up their time, it’s typically filled with more fun adult time. At least that’s been my experience after 15+ years of being together.
Posted on 7/26/23 at 3:59 pm to StonewallJack
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This right here. More kids = less sex
We have SIX and still have sex almost daily
Either your wives are getting it from somewhere else or y’all don’t want it
Posted on 7/26/23 at 4:00 pm to LeeVanCleef
No, but I think it's somewhat normal for it to decline some after long enough together.
Hell, I don't want sex as often as I did when I was 28 now after almost 20 years
Hell, I don't want sex as often as I did when I was 28 now after almost 20 years
Posted on 7/26/23 at 4:01 pm to JonTheTigerFan
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We have SIX and still have sex almost daily
Either your wives are getting it from somewhere else or y’all don’t want it
Doesn't sex with the same women for decades get boring and monotonous ?
Not only the same woman, but an older version of the same woman
Posted on 7/26/23 at 4:03 pm to LeeVanCleef
it's mostly a myth. Once she hits 30, hold on, baw!
A lot of this "no sex" thing probably happens when you start having kids.
A lot of this "no sex" thing probably happens when you start having kids.
Posted on 7/26/23 at 4:04 pm to Tiger Ike
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If you make it a point to hang with the boys at the bar or at the hunting camp expect your sexual connection with your wife to weaken over time.
Yep but these baws don’t want to hear this. They think their wives are actually on “girls trips” when they’re at the camp all winter
Posted on 7/26/23 at 4:07 pm to LeeVanCleef
Not even close to the end.
Posted on 7/26/23 at 4:07 pm to JonTheTigerFan
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Yep but these baws don’t want to hear this. They think their wives are actually on “girls trips” when they’re at the camp all winter
True.
There is a reason that they dress like sluts on Girls Night Out
Posted on 7/26/23 at 4:07 pm to Tyga Woods
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In their 40’s is when they want it the most.
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