re: what's the best online dating app?

it is/ isnt I still have trouble playing it cool with the ladies, how do you find this happy medium?

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How is [grindr] different than tinder

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The only difference is the amount of friction you will encounter when making your connection. One has more friction early on while the other has a lot more friction on the backside.

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Met my wife on Tindr. I know that is a rarity.

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Not really.

A lot of us met your wife on Tinder.

yea, your wife is gorgeous, I was way too up-front with her and she was looking for someone with less girth

In all seriousness:

Dating: Bumble and Hinge, particularly Hinge (for me at least)
Hook Ups: Tinder

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She's awesome, isn't she?

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I couldn't tell, I was 8th in line.

Experimenting and understanding the fact that you’re gonna have to go through lots of girls, and knowing that you might hurt some of them in the process. Which if you’re like me, I was always afraid of hurting girls, and I wanted to be nice to them. But if you’re that way, then you’ll end up being the one who gets hurt in the end, not them. They’ll think of you as a pussy or something, and won’t give two shits about you. Girls can be very cold, so you can’t be afraid to be cold yourself in order the achieve what you’re looking for sometimes. They won’t really think twice about a decision they make. When they make a decision, it’s final, and it’s all that matters to them. They won’t really feel bad or nothing.

Idk if how I figured it out was the right way to do it or not, but I just started meeting and talking to girls, and basically using them as an experiment for myself lol. Probably pretty shitty of me but I was very similar to you with being nice and all. And I was tired of being hurt and just knew I had to change. So I used tinder to meet girls, because I knew that most of the girls on tinder weren’t girls I’d want to date or marry anyways. And I’d say or do things that I wouldn’t have done before, strictly for learning purposes.

It’s a dog eat dog world out there, for everything, and you gotta have that dog in you sometimes, that’s just gonna do whatever is necessary to find what you’re looking for.

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Unless you meet the following criteria, don’t bother:

1) at least 6’ tall
2) yearly salary at least $100k
3) never been married/no kids

These are the requirements for the basic 5’2”, 260 lb. tatted up skank.

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The joke is that it's the 6-6-6 rule

6 feet tall

6 figure income

6 inches (minimum) below the belt.

Otherwise don't bother.

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Im always so nice to girls. I dont know why they dont ever want to sit on my face:( are dating apps different?

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Solid post, OP. 7/10