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Mental health and empathy

Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:16 pm
Posted by Abstract Queso Dip
Member since Mar 2021
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Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:16 pm
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This post was edited on 5/27/22 at 7:28 am
Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
46300 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:18 pm to
It would really show him who’s boss if you screwed his sister.
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
11005 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:18 pm to
shite in his bed
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
42816 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:24 pm to
Remain calm and say what you have to say.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
31876 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:29 pm to
quote:

Pics of broads with voluptuous tits are also welcoming.


It was bad enough that you didn’t post pics of the gf, and now you are making requests? fricking shame…

You also seem to have left out the part where you need to talk to the guy to begin with. Are you just looking for a confrontation?
Posted by Ben Hur
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2013
995 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:30 pm to
Get him scanned for a tumor. Could be hereditary. The GF as well.
Posted by Irregardless
Member since Nov 2021
2237 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:32 pm to
What did he do exactly? Also, you sound like a huge douche.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41735 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:36 pm to
quote:

how do I deal with his son who will be my brother in-law.


It’s not your place to do anything unless there is some physical violence going on. Most important thing as a son in law is to know your place and keep opinions about their family to yourself until you’ve been around for a few years.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
23000 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:36 pm to
Some folks are just self-centered. There is not a lot you can do about it.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41735 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:38 pm to
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I've been more of a son to his father over the last 2 years than his POS arse.


This way of thinking is a mistake. You’re not his son and if it comes down to it that family will choose him over you 10/10 times. You should stay out of their business.
Posted by VolsOut4Harambe
Atlanta, GA
Member since Sep 2017
13886 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:38 pm to
PIIHB
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18702 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:40 pm to
I don't understand what he did and why it's your responsibility to do something about it?
Posted by Hot Carl
Prayers up for 3
Member since Dec 2005
62119 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:43 pm to
What exactly are you hoping to accomplish?
Posted by hellsu
Northshore via Westbank
Member since Jan 2009
4151 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:47 pm to
MYOB and stay out of it or you could find yourself on the outside looking in. Blood is thicker than water.
Posted by Abstract Queso Dip
Member since Mar 2021
5878 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:53 pm to
I have stayed out of their family business best I can. But at some point when you are seeing her father weekly and his own son is so paranoid he can't go see his dad cause of "Covid" his grand parents got it twice but he even wouldn't see them.

I'm probably gonna have to hold her cousin back and he is a big dude. Our friends and cousins and their friends have been there more for him. Think I may gather a bunch of my dog's poop and deliver it in a bag and light it on fire. If he makes it to the hospital I have connections that will shut down the power grid and sneak into his house and shite on his bed, all over their floors and put dead rodents in his sink. This takes several connections with law enforcement on local state and federal but gotta do what u gotta do.

Posted by Irregardless
Member since Nov 2021
2237 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 10:58 pm to
I hope you are drunk and not this stupid.
Posted by Abstract Queso Dip
Member since Mar 2021
5878 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 11:13 pm to
Why not both?
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22295 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 11:15 pm to
What’s your end game with all this? You seem all over the place.
Posted by Abstract Queso Dip
Member since Mar 2021
5878 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 11:22 pm to
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This post was edited on 5/27/22 at 7:29 am
Posted by LSUGUMBO
Shreveport, LA
Member since Sep 2005
9573 posts
Posted on 5/26/22 at 11:31 pm to
You’re marrying the whole family- it’s all for better or for worse. It’s unfortunate sometimes, but it’s true. I’ve been married 16 years this June, and my mother in law has become increasingly difficult to deal with, but I take my cues from my wife, as to whether we should help out or help her help herself. My wife’s mother-in-law (my mother) can’t keep her damn mouth shut about some things, and it drives my wife crazy. They (our parents) are adults and are fairly set in their ways, so you likely won’t change them, and the same goes for siblings. You and your future spouse need to have an understanding about what’s ok to deal with and what’s not. Sometimes, it’s not fun, but it is what it is. Good luck

ETA: Don’t let it get to be too much- sometimes you have to distance yourself from their stuff for your own mental health. Don’t feel like you have to conquer the world for their well being
This post was edited on 5/26/22 at 11:39 pm
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