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Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:21 pm
Posted by Gamecock1990
Member since Nov 2018
55 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:21 pm
My fiance has two children 14 and 16, I've never met them. As a matter of fact I've never met any of her family. I found out her ex husband will be at the Christmas eve family party tonight and the Christmas dinner will be at his house. I am not invited to either. She has custody but the kids live at his house, she stays with them all day until 10:00 at night until she comes over to spend the night with me. Am I stupid to stay?
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
13958 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:22 pm to
There’s a lot of red flags here, idk where to start really.

ETA I highlighted the red flags for you
This post was edited on 12/24/21 at 5:17 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
50553 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:23 pm to
Move to another state
Posted by PCHSDawg
Pine Belt
Member since Oct 2014
313 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:23 pm to
I can only tell you what I would do, and that is hit the door running.
Posted by barbapapa
Member since Mar 2018
3490 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:24 pm to
Yikes
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
47315 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:24 pm to
quote:

Am I stupid to stay?


This post was edited on 12/24/21 at 4:26 pm
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
100767 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:24 pm to
You're engaged and you've never met her kids?
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
27354 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:25 pm to
You realize she is still married and he works the graveyard shift, right?
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
19094 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:25 pm to
quote:

My fiance

This is where you went wrong

This is possibly a frickable chick, but nothing else
Posted by Gamecock1990
Member since Nov 2018
55 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:25 pm to
No I haven't or her parents
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
47315 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:26 pm to
How long have y’all been together?
Posted by SalE
At the beach
Member since Jan 2020
2496 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:27 pm to
Good..you do not want to attend that gathering.
Posted by Champs
Geaux Tigers
Member since Feb 2008
11899 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:28 pm to
quote:

My fiance has two children


quote:

I've never met them. As a matter of fact I've never met any of her family.


Trailer park trash
Posted by Grateful Reb
Member since Apr 2011
8070 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:28 pm to
How long did you date before getting engaged?
Posted by Gamecock1990
Member since Nov 2018
55 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:28 pm to
Seven months
Posted by Warfox
B.R. Native (now in MA)
Member since Apr 2017
3273 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:29 pm to
If this isn’t a trolll, then you better man up and run(away from her).
This post was edited on 12/24/21 at 4:30 pm
Posted by Gamecock1990
Member since Nov 2018
55 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:29 pm to
We dated a very short time before the engagement
Posted by Kcrad
Diamondhead
Member since Nov 2010
58409 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:30 pm to
quote:

My fiance has two children 14 and 16, I've never met them.


I can't get past this tidbit.
Posted by Indefatigable
Member since Jan 2019
30417 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:31 pm to
Why would you be engaged to someone if you’ve never met their children? Or apparently have no clue about her or her life?
Posted by coolpapaboze
Parts Unknown
Member since Dec 2006
16725 posts
Posted on 12/24/21 at 4:31 pm to
quote:

Am I stupid
yes.
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