re: The societal cost for women deciding to behave sexually like men

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People want all kinds of things without looking at the bigger picture and the future cost of such desires.

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Like the fact that women are batshit crazy?

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A few frank observations:
1. The only reason for the sexual double-standard between men and women behaving promiscuously is margin of difficulty. It is much more difficult to be a man-whore than it is to be a woman-whore. Frumpy, fat, ugly women can still get sex pretty much whenever they want if they’re willing to lower their standards. Not true for men. Women have much higher physically standards for men than men have for women, which is the opposite of the way society depicts it. Studies show that men tend to rate women’s appearances as “above average”, “average”, and “below average” at the rate of a traditional bell curve. Roughly half of women are average or below, and half are average or above. For women, they rate 90% of men as “below average”, 9% as average, and 1% as above average. So, most women have much higher standards of what they believe is acceptable. While men often have over-inflated views of their own attractiveness, they’ve got nothing on women. They all think they’re average or above, and thus entitled to that top 10% of men. So, if you’re in the top 10%, women are all over you. If you’re not, best enjoy those video games, buddy, because they’re not interested. The reason less sex is being had is because it’s more concentrated. Some people are having a whole lot more while most are having significantly less.

2. Women’s and men’s natures haven’t changed, our abilities to see those natures has. Character is who you are when no one is watching, and every one is watching everything now, or at least everyone is sharing everything now. We’re so connected that you know about others sleeping around when you wouldn’t have before. Jilted exes put everything on social media when before, only a few close friends of theirs would have known about it. Dating apps just make indulging our urges seem easier, and also make getting caught indulging way easier. It’s not happening significantly more frequently, we just get to see it more now.

3. No one would be bothered by all these women being sexually liberated if:
A. They weren’t having a bunch of kids out of wedlock
B. Those kids out of wedlock weren’t going being paid for by entitlement programs. You get more of what you subsidize and less of what you tax.
C. These women weren’t so f$&king fat these days.

So, to recap:
1. Dudes who aren’t studs or rich aren’t reaping the rewards, so they’re cranky.
2. People are the same, we just see it now thanks to social media.
3. Men need to wrap up and women need to make them or take the pill to stop spawning crotch goblins and annoying Facebook MLM-hawking single-moms.
4. Government needs to stop paying single women to have kids out of wedlock.
5. Stop being so f$&king fat and take responsibility for yourself for once!

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basically said, all women are sluts, at least I have myself a 10!

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Thus the problem with the country; men stopped being men.

All women have the equipment to be sluts that's correct and there are 2 kinds of sluts; the ones in the bars every weekend and those that stay home with their hubbies and "service" them.

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Thus the problem with the country; men stopped being men

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Which would have never been tolerated if women still demanded to be treated with respect.

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But even so, how can you lay blame on women? It takes two to tango. Men and women are both making choices to engage in these behaviors.

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I think the problem is that so many men are so opportunistic and desperate that they put up with and reward any and all kinds of negative behaviors in women just so they can “get some”. I think of it like the girls on college campuses in oversized t-shirts and nike shorts with their hair in a messy bun. No one thinks that look is attactive, but because guys still give women positive attention despite them dressing that way, women still get the reward, and the behavior persists. If men were more choosey, they could disincentivize this behavior, but enough men have zero standards and zero self-control, so women are rewarded for all manners of self-indulgent and negative behaviors and rarely face any real push back from the opposite sex.

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What if all our post college age unmarried women like sex? Should they not?

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It is female nature to be selective

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Did you tip your fedora when you typed this?

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Clever.

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This is an impossible request....if I demanded to be treated like the President, do you think I would be? You can't stop someone from being a douchebag

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A woman can most certainly choose to not date a man that doesn’t treat her with respect.