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re: So if I had a child during these times......What should I say?

Posted on 6/13/20 at 8:54 pm to
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
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Posted on 6/13/20 at 8:54 pm to
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When the child is old enough to understand rudiments speech introduce the child to Jesus Christ, you can’t do better than that


Amen
Posted by Chrome
Chromeville
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 6/13/20 at 8:55 pm to
Do what I do for my children, pray.
Posted by Ricardo
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Posted on 6/13/20 at 8:58 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/14/20 at 8:09 pm
Posted by deuceiswild
South La
Member since Nov 2007
5056 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 8:59 pm to
I'm doing with my youngest (14) the same thing I did with my oldest when she was 14. I am having her read The Terrible Truth About Liberals, by Neal Boortz. It's a very simple read, and is a good starter for understanding the liberal mindset.

I haven't decided on the two or thre books she will read after that.

But ultimately it will all lead to reading Atlas Shrugged in a couple years.

In the meantime, I try simplifying thu ha somshe can u deestand the things she sees on tv.
Posted by Wild Thang
YAW YAW Fooball Nation
Member since Jun 2009
44181 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:02 pm to
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CoachDon



My first point covers most of what you said, but I agree with your list.
Posted by Wild Thang
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:04 pm to
quote:

When the child is old enough to understand rudiments speech introduce the child to Jesus Christ, you can’t do better than that.



Not bad, but again, my first point matters regardless of JC.

My kid can rock whatever Religion as long she/he does #1 IMO
Posted by Andychapman13
Member since Jun 2016
2728 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:08 pm to
Best lesson of my life my HS wrestling coach told me 25 years ago: “Nobody gives a frick about how you feel, Andy!”
Posted by Flats
Member since Jul 2019
28192 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:09 pm to
In addition to all the standard passing down of values, when they're old enough to understand, you give them the points you find pertinent (I don't like all of them) from John Derbyshire's "The Talk". Especially if you live in a metro area. Especially during times like these.

https://www.takimag.com/article/the_talk_nonblack_version_john_derbyshire/

Posted by Wild Thang
YAW YAW Fooball Nation
Member since Jun 2009
44181 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:10 pm to
quote:

Nobody gives a frick about how you feel, Andy!”


Point 3. Suck it up
Posted by Muthsera
Member since Jun 2017
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Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:47 pm to
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In addition to all the standard passing down of values, when they're old enough to understand, you give them the points you find pertinent (I don't like all of them) from John Derbyshire's "The Talk".


This is some sickeningly racist shite. You should be ashamed for posting it; I feel ashamed for reading it.

As for the topic at hand, I have a toddler and have thought long and hard about how to explain the world in a way to keep her safe and successful. I'm still learning myself, but there's a few hard and fast lessons that speak for themselves.

1. There is kinship in misery, but surrounding yourself with broken souls doesn't better your life or spirit in any way. Surround yourself with people who are successful, outgoing, and personable.

2. Have a clear vision for your life, at least parts of it, and never compromise on it. Always be striving for the things that will make you happy, financially stable, and emotionally fulfilled.

3. Humans crave responsibility. Maintaining a romantic relationship, raising children, running a household - many people avoid these things not because they don't want them, but because they fear their own inability to perform them acceptably.

4. Show kindness to others, seek out kindness for yourself.

5. In the workplace, always look out for yourself. Trust no one. Act as if you trust everyone. Never let your boss pressure you into a decision without sleeping on it.

6. Never hesitate to tell your friends and family how much they mean to you.
This post was edited on 6/13/20 at 9:48 pm
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:48 pm to
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Twitter is the worst. People think it’s some kind of majority...


Twitter is like 90% people shitposting from the toilet
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112918 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:49 pm to
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I've had multiple interactions with multiple different races over the last week and none of them were miserable. They were all friendly affable people. The disharmony is on your TV, not in your everyday life.

I'd tell them to prioritize school or learning something after high school to become successful enough to live in a nice area so they don't have to deal with all the nonsense you see on TV.

My family is in a good spot now, and all the stuff i see on TV is just that, on TV. I'd tell them to try and replicate what me and their mother have going for our family right now.
Posted by OSqueal
Member since Jan 2011
5985 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:50 pm to
I have an 18 yo son about to head off to college. I asked him what he thought of this whole thing. His answer? I'm tired of hearing about it and everything woth it.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:52 pm to
quote:

My family is in a good spot now, and all the stuff i see on TV is just that, on TV. I'd tell them to try and replicate what me and their mother have going for our family right now.


And kudos are in order to you and your wife for providing that setting
Posted by messyjesse
Member since Nov 2015
2299 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:54 pm to
My three rules.

1) Don't commit crime.
2) Don't do drugs.
3) If you knock someone up/get knocked up, raise the child.

That's it. If my kids follow those three rules, I'll be proud of them no matter how badly they frick everything else up in life.
Posted by bigtrain333
Member since Oct 2017
321 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 9:55 pm to
as pointed out by the Brookings Institute (not a bastion of Conservatism)... Follow 3 simple rules and you will be middle-class in the US. "finish high school, get a full-time job and wait until age 21 to get married and have children."

"Our research shows that of American adults who followed these three simple rules, only about 2?percent are in poverty and nearly 75?percent have joined the middle class (defined as earning around $55,000 or more per year). There are surely influences other than these principles at play, but following them guides a young adult away from poverty and toward the middle class."
Posted by Flats
Member since Jul 2019
28192 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 10:01 pm to
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This is some sickeningly racist shite. You should be ashamed for posting it; I feel ashamed for reading it.


As I said, I don’t care for some it. Some of it can keep you safe, though. As someone who’s been in a car that had bottles and bricks thrown at it because we were the wrong color, I find those parts useful.

If you find reality racist there’s not a thing I can do about it, but I can assure you I don’t feel shame for recognizing reality.
Posted by MeatPants
Member since Nov 2015
8921 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 10:03 pm to
Tell your kid to judge everyone by their actions and to give everyone respect until they show they don’t deserve it

Posted by Kentucker
Rabbit Hash, KY
Member since Apr 2013
20055 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 10:03 pm to
Name her Corona, him Viris.
Posted by 1BIGTigerFan
100,000 posts
Member since Jan 2007
55873 posts
Posted on 6/13/20 at 10:03 pm to
You really don't have to be permanently aggrieved by a past which bears no resemblance to the present. Just do good to others and expect others to be good to you.
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