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re: Sandy Hook Commission Draft: Homeschoolers are evil

Posted on 10/7/14 at 4:15 pm to
Posted by Ralph_Wiggum
Sugarland
Member since Jul 2005
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Posted on 10/7/14 at 4:15 pm to
The blame with Sandy Hook is with Adam Lanza's mother. She knew she had a deeply disturbed person living at home and she provided him with access to guns. That is the issue and what needs to be focused on. Adam Lanza should have been institutionalized and at the least been in a home without such weapons.

Posted by RollTide1987
Augusta, GA
Member since Nov 2009
69988 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 4:18 pm to
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I'm saying there are some concerns with home-schooling.


Such as?
Posted by buckeye_vol
Member since Jul 2014
35373 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 4:33 pm to
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Such as?


The quote below are some concerns I brought up in a previous post. I do not think this is exclusive to homeschooling or that homeschooling is inappropriate for all students. It was my mistake bringing this up in this thread as I am with everybody else in that the connection between Sandy Hook and homeschooling is absurd.

I just think that there are issues that need considered for every child and every educational system that is chosen.

I believe that students with average to above average intelligence and parents that are involved in their life and education will have positive outcomes regardless if they attend public, private, or home school.

I think that students with disabilities or skill-deficits are probably better served with high-qualified educators, which would be more likely in a public or private school than in a home schooling. That being said, there are options (e.g., home bound) that provides a sport of quasi-home/public schooling options.

I also recognize that being a good teacher is hard. Furthermore, the emotional aspects of a child-parent relationship could be detrimental when that transfers to a teacher-parent relationship.

Overall, these are broad concerns that I think are important to discuss and consider, but I do not advocate for more governmental control. That doesn't mean we can't have the discussion, but I should have picked a better thread than this one.

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You shouldn't care what I think. I just stated that I thought it. But here are some concerns.

1. Socialization opportunities with peers. School is a great time to learn to interact with others. Now if parents have their kids in other activities that give ample opportunity to socialize (e.g., sports, youth groups)then this isn't much of a concerns, but I think that interacting with peers is important.

2. Instruction. Teaching is hard, and this isn't exclusive to home-schooling; however, lack of training can be problematic. I think the likelihood of getting poor instruction is greater in a home-schooling environment with no training requirements. That being said, there are surely some parents who prove great instruction, even better than many teachers.

3. Curriculum. From what I understand, there are some excellent curriculums and some that are just flat out bad. Making sure parents know the differences between the good and bad is important. Unfortunately, it's easily to be persuaded. I just want them to have objective information.


Again these concerns are not exclusive to home-schooling. Nonetheless, I still think we need to try to work out the kinks in everything that we do.
This post was edited on 10/7/14 at 4:34 pm
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 4:53 pm to
As a homeschooled grad, one of my few social flaws is coming back to this lunacy-filled site every day
Posted by C
Houston
Member since Dec 2007
28169 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 5:00 pm to
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I think that students with disabilities or skill-deficits are probably better served with high-qualified educators,


The difference is parents love their children and will often work damn hard for their own kids. You couldn't pay me enough to teach someone else's kid what I painstakingly sit through with my kid. And teaching 1 -5 kids at a time is much easier than the overcrowded rooms are current classrooms exist as. This isn't rocket science we are teaching our kids. And with the technology we have today, answers are just a click away for parents as well as kids. Great opportunity for kids to stay at home with a parent willing to put in the effort and control learning at their own pace.
Posted by buckeye_vol
Member since Jul 2014
35373 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 5:01 pm to
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As a homeschooled grad, one of my few social flaws is coming back to this lunacy-filled site every day


As a public schooled grad with the same flaws, I guess this shows our flaws are independent of one's educational environment; we could send this as a rebuttal to the commission's report.

Interestingly enough, I got stuck in the argument because I found KCT's comment quoted below to be absurd. In addition, I had just read the Oprah thread where she made some absurd accusations about you so her shtick had become especially tiresome.


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Home schoolers are overwhelmingly white, conservative, and Christian.


Of course they're evil.

Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 5:06 pm to
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As a public schooled grad with the same flaws, I guess this shows our flaws are independent of one's educational environment; we could send this as a rebuttal to the commission's report.


Would cosign

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Interestingly enough, I got stuck in the argument because I found KCT's comment quoted below to be absurd. In addition, I had just read the Oprah thread where she made some absurd accusations about you so her shtick had become especially tiresome.


KCT likes to argue and froth at the mouth for the sake of arguing It's always funny when she tries to go after me because half the time I'm actually on her side of an issue but she's too busy spoiling for a fight and doesn't notice

And yet you and I and other otherwise well-adjusted prople continue to return to this place :lol:
Posted by buckeye_vol
Member since Jul 2014
35373 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 5:08 pm to
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The difference is parents love their children and will often work damn hard for their own kids. You couldn't pay me enough to teach someone else's kid what I painstakingly sit through with my kid. And teaching 1 -5 kids at a time is much easier than the overcrowded rooms are current classrooms exist as. This isn't rocket science we are teaching our kids. And with the technology we have today, answers are just a click away for parents as well as kids. Great opportunity for kids to stay at home with a parent willing to put in the effort and control learning at their own pace.


Good points. This is how I see it though:

Good educators are the experts on instruction, skill-building, curriculum, etc. but may not have extensive knowledge on the the strengths, weaknesses, motivations, etc. of each specific child.

Good parents are the experts on their children and know the strengths, weaknesses, motivations, personality traits, etc. but may not have the instructional background.

When you can combine the strengths of both the parents and teachers and collaborate to form a plan, then this is going to provide the best opportunity for success for the student.
This post was edited on 10/7/14 at 5:12 pm
Posted by buckeye_vol
Member since Jul 2014
35373 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 5:19 pm to
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KCT likes to argue and froth at the mouth for the sake of arguing It's always funny when she tries to go after me because half the time I'm actually on her side of an issue but she's too busy spoiling for a fight and doesn't notice


This is what happens when one's worldview is that society is out to get them. Although, she could be trolling and not truly believe what she says (I doubt it though.)

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And yet you and I and other otherwise well-adjusted prople continue to return to this place


Maybe we're not well-adjusted (maybe nobody is), it's just that coming back to this place that makes us realize that we could be more paranoid and irrational compared to our reference group (i.e., some of the other posters.)
Posted by TX Tiger
at home
Member since Jan 2004
38108 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 6:22 pm to
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I just want them to have objective information.
And you think they'll get this in public education?
Posted by buckeye_vol
Member since Jul 2014
35373 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 6:42 pm to
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And you think they'll get this in public education?


No. Besides I don't think the evaluation of a homeschooling curriculum should be tasked to public schools. Instead, I would like to see those incomplete in education research and evaluation (e.g,, universities) to do it.
Posted by Roger Klarvin
DFW
Member since Nov 2012
46671 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 7:05 pm to
Homeschoolers aren't evil, they're just predominantly white conservative Christians which rubs some people on the far left the wrong way.

Other than some general, mild social awkwardness I really don't see an issue with homeschooling. If you are home schooling because you think the public school system blows, more power to you. If you're home schooling to keep your kid from being "indoctrinated" by "propaganda" in history and science classes, your kid was probably going to pick up your beliefs anyway given the nature of the parenting being used.
Posted by Roger Klarvin
DFW
Member since Nov 2012
46671 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 7:10 pm to
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And not to be a dick but who the frick are you to tell someone else, hey I have concerns about how you educate your own child?
Don't you see the inherent infringement on individual rights those thoughts engender?



Everyone has things they would object to being taught to children, those things just differ from person to person.

Saying "who are you to say what I teach my child" just means you happen to agree with the information being taught in that case. If a mainstream movement was using the homeschool model to train their children in the art of human torture, you would object to it and most likely support legislation to prevent it.

There is a level of common sense that needs to be had by all involved for discussions like this to in anyway be productive.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 8:17 pm to
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Homeschoolers aren't evil


I try to be evil on Mondays and Thursdays
Posted by C
Houston
Member since Dec 2007
28169 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 8:24 pm to
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Good educators are the experts on instruction, skill-building, curriculum,


Well you aren't always going to get a good one. Especially at $30k per year.
Posted by buckeye_vol
Member since Jul 2014
35373 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 8:37 pm to
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Well you aren't always going to get a good one. Especially at $30k per year.


Agreed. But I think the likelihood is greater that you'll find an educator with those skills than a parent who hasn't had any training.
Posted by TX Tiger
at home
Member since Jan 2004
38108 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 9:48 pm to
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Well you aren't always going to get a good one. Especially at $30k per year.





Agreed. But I think the likelihood is greater that you'll find an educator with those skills than a parent who hasn't had any training.
NOBODY has better training for their child than the parent. As for curriculum, a monkey could teach reading, writing, and arithmetic.

But it's still cute how some actually believe that government-run organizations are most efficient and exist to be our saviours.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
76603 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 9:51 pm to
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NOBODY has better training for their child than the parent.
From what I've seen, that may not always be the case.
Posted by TopsInAmericaTim
Houston Area
Member since Oct 2011
1403 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 9:52 pm to
Yep... All about control... Lest we not forget this "grieving Sandy Hook dad"... LINK
Posted by TopsInAmericaTim
Houston Area
Member since Oct 2011
1403 posts
Posted on 10/7/14 at 9:53 pm to
And just completely ignore... No Air Rescue Copters ordered... And the shooter killed 22 out of 22. No wounded. All kill shots. Greatest shooting exhibition in history. Make sure to see the Grieving Dad... LINK
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