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Problems in the black community can be fixed with this one simple trick.

Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:29 am
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
118782 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:29 am
Dads, take care of your kids.
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
54210 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:32 am to
That's true but the moms aren't all innocent. About 15 years ago there was an article in our statewide Ark. newspaper. A 25 yo black woman had seven kids by five different dads - and had never been married to any of them.
Posted by IslandBuckeye
Boca Chica, Panama
Member since Apr 2018
10067 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:32 am to
I wholeheartedly and 100% agree with you but suspect that there is little to no chance of that conversation taking place.

If it did, BLM et al would have to admit some part in causing the problem. As a result they would lose their victim status.

I do wish this aspect would gain momentum. It would be a giant leap forward for ALL of us.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58759 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:33 am to
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Dads, take care of your kids.


It’s always men’s fault.
Posted by dawginar
Member since Jan 2012
968 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:36 am to
Get out of here with that shite. You know how many kids they have/time constrates with jobs/child support for non working bitches. Oh wait I think I'm paying for most of them
Posted by 3nOut
Central Texas, TX
Member since Jan 2013
28897 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:40 am to
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I do wish this aspect would gain momentum. It would be a giant leap forward for ALL of us.



There are some men spreading this message but it’s drowned out by people freaking out about people fighting with the police getting shot.

Benjamin Watson, Denzel, Chance the Rapper, etc. have made this their message but it’s ignored often.

What’s worse is that organizations like BLM want to destroy the notion of it being the right idea. I understand trying to remove the shame of it and support single mothers, but acting like it’s a bad thing to begin with is a terrible idea.
This post was edited on 8/29/20 at 8:42 am
Posted by La Place Mike
West Florida Republic
Member since Jan 2004
28812 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:43 am to
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Problems in the black community can be fixed with this one simple trick.


You want believe number 12!
Posted by mtntiger
Asheville, NC
Member since Oct 2003
26640 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:43 am to
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A 25 yo black woman had seven kids by five different dads - and had never been married to any of them.


Would be very interested to see how those kids' lives turned out.
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
118782 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:45 am to
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You know how many kids they have/time constrates with jobs/child support for non working bitches. Oh wait I think I'm paying for most of them




Well, having a job is part of taking care of your kids. It doesn't mean taking on the mom's role.
Posted by Crimson Wraith
Member since Jan 2014
24751 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:45 am to
Don't you know, that's a white construct.
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
118782 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:47 am to
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There are some men spreading this message but it’s drowned out by people freaking out about people fighting with the police getting shot.

Benjamin Watson, Denzel, Chance the Rapper, etc. have made this their message but it’s ignored often.



You are right. These guys are preaching the benefits of the nuclear family. In general and over time the nuclear family bears good fruit.
Posted by OccamsStubble
Member since Aug 2019
4992 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:48 am to
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Dads, take care of your kids.


And the only people who can make the case are
Black clergy
Black politicians
Black athletes
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
118782 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:48 am to
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Don't you know, that's a white construct.



That's a very popular myth in the United States.
Posted by redfish99
B.R.
Member since Aug 2007
16441 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:49 am to
Any Adult would do. There’s just none available. They at Check cash place
Posted by lil 7thward
ATL
Member since Jan 2012
2588 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:49 am to
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Dads, take care of your kids.
Stop with your racist fantasies. We take care of our children. I guess you don't know how the game is played; I'm not the one to snitch about how the game is being played.
Posted by kkv75
Member since Sep 2017
4890 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:50 am to
Posted by Seldom Seen
Member since Feb 2016
40152 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:50 am to
Dad's aren't going to take care of their kids as long as the federal government is giving single moms so much money.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58759 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:50 am to
How is the game played?
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
118782 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:51 am to
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I guess you don't know how the game is played


Apparently I don't. Fill me in, please.
Posted by Hennigan
Member since Jan 2020
987 posts
Posted on 8/29/20 at 8:55 am to
Not so simple.

Great Society; no fault divorce / laws and family court rigged against men; awful cultural values; decimated middle class. Among others.

A symptom of much deeper societal rot and problems.

Still doesn't excuse individual's behavior though.
This post was edited on 8/29/20 at 9:08 am
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