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Posted on 2/19/25 at 2:49 pm to the808bass
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I’m assuming you will not be using chemotherapy, a vent or ECMO and have a medical will that stipulates to that.
Surely you realize that those procedures are ordered towards the preservation of life and do not include the destruction or mangling of life along the way, right?
The analogy you gave and one from earlier in the thread about organ transplants breaks down when considering the differences with elective IVF, and IVF's inherent potential for destroying and damaging life.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 2:50 pm to Pettifogger
I know 2 pre thirty women that could not get pregnant and went the IVF route.
Not sure if they know whether it was mom's eggs or dad's sperm, but they had been trying since early 20s.
Not sure if they know whether it was mom's eggs or dad's sperm, but they had been trying since early 20s.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 2:54 pm to Rip Torn
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Well then you would have no problem explaining to others or starting threads about the sin of masterbation and lust?
Lust and porn consumption are sins and are pretty commonly discussed in the Reformed communities (online) where I spend time. I will say that they're less common from the pulpit, but there is no ambiguity about where the church stands.
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sports betting, smoking, or beer drinking in the South
Dude what south did you grow up in

In Georgia and Alabama Baptist churches, it was VERY common to hear the dangers of alcohol from the pulpit in my youth.
In general I think it's fair to say that there are certain sinful practices that have gotten disproportionate attention from the Church. You can argue that for most of the current era there was too much focus on the sin of homosexuality OR at least not enough focus on the sin of sex outside of marriage, lust or other sexual sin.
I think there are non-hypocritical reasons for that to some extent, for example because the push for approval of premarital sex or the like hasn't been quite as direct and authoritative as the push for acceptance of homosexuality. But in general I don't think your criticism is entirely off. I do think it is mostly irrelevant to abortion, which regardless of hypocrisy elsewhere should nonetheless get the Church's full attention.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 2:59 pm to Pettifogger
The Baptist churches I attended growing up were all pastored by men who smoke, dipped tobacco, drank, gambeled, and used contraceptives. It doesn't surprise me that many in that denomination don't see an issue with IVF as a result.
ETA: I'm not anti-tobacco or alcohol. Just saying I can see why many in those circles don't see any issue with IVF when it's anything goes for the people who are leading your flock.
ETA: I'm not anti-tobacco or alcohol. Just saying I can see why many in those circles don't see any issue with IVF when it's anything goes for the people who are leading your flock.
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Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:01 pm to Stitches
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It doesn't surprise me that many in that denomination don't see an issue with IVF as a result.
Feel free to peruse the thoughts of the Reformed Baptist community on IVF
You're making a lot of assumptions in this thread, per normal.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:02 pm to Pettifogger
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Feel free to peruse the thoughts of the Reformed Baptist community on IVF
These were IFB churches. When I see "Baptist" I view that as being distinct from "Reformed/Confessional Baptist"....even though it's a stretch to call yourself Reformed when all the reformers baptized infants.
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Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:04 pm to Rip Torn
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I haven’t heard too many sermons on sports betting, smoking, or beer drinking in the South but I have heard quite a few on abortion and other politically divisive issues
You are obviously very tied into the church scene. Thanks for the posts.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:04 pm to winkchance
I'm not denying the utility for those women.
But in my neighborhood, I feel like I could ask the average woman (or often her husband) and she'd be able to recommend a fertility doctor. I dare say the overwhelming majority of folks in our crowd have at least consulted with one and started down that path (not all IVF of course).
Anecdotally, it's just really common to see people struggling to conceive, and it makes sense. You go to grad school, you don't start life until 25. You're in a big city and you're starting a professional career. You don't marry until 35. You spend a couple of years blowing money on travel because you can or to save for a house. Suddenly time is getting away from you and you're panicking.
I'm not saying that's the norm or the only reason for the spike in fertility issues, but I just imagine it being a very common scene in cities and burbs all over the country.
But in my neighborhood, I feel like I could ask the average woman (or often her husband) and she'd be able to recommend a fertility doctor. I dare say the overwhelming majority of folks in our crowd have at least consulted with one and started down that path (not all IVF of course).
Anecdotally, it's just really common to see people struggling to conceive, and it makes sense. You go to grad school, you don't start life until 25. You're in a big city and you're starting a professional career. You don't marry until 35. You spend a couple of years blowing money on travel because you can or to save for a house. Suddenly time is getting away from you and you're panicking.
I'm not saying that's the norm or the only reason for the spike in fertility issues, but I just imagine it being a very common scene in cities and burbs all over the country.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:05 pm to Foch
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Surely you realize that those procedures are ordered towards the preservation of life and do not include the destruction or mangling of life along the way, right?
They are obviously “playing God” as the OP delineated the issue and followed up in subsequent posts. If that is not the issue, then they shouldn’t use it pretending that it’s the issue.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:06 pm to Stitches
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even though it's a stretch to call yourself Reformed when all the reformers baptized infants.
I'll let them know when I see them
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:06 pm to Pettifogger
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Anecdotally, it's just really common to see people struggling to conceive, and it makes sense.
I think you are seeing issues in younger couple as well. No stats on that. Just anecdotal on my end.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:09 pm to Pettifogger
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I'll let them know when I see them
Good deal. Give them a copy of Iustitia Dei by Anglican theologian Alister McGrath too. It might interest them to know that a detailed analysis of early church history has shown that the system of justification they were trying to return to didn't actually exist until they invented it.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:14 pm to Stitches
The thief on the cross will certainly be surprised to hear all that.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:24 pm to the808bass
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The thief on the cross
Died under the old covenant, and even if he didn't (he did), that doesn't then necessitate the exception to become the rule.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:36 pm to Stitches
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Good deal. Give them a copy of Iustitia Dei by Anglican theologian Alister McGrath too. It might interest them to know that a detailed analysis of early church history has shown that the system of justification they were trying to return to didn't actually exist until they invented it.
I think they have that one already, sitting next to Faith Alone by Sproul
Posted on 2/19/25 at 3:50 pm to Pettifogger
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Faith Alone by Sproul
Great book, and one which completes the set. Iustitia Dei for a deep-dive into what Christian's believed from 33-today, and Faith Alone for an analysis of what Protestant Christian's have believed since the reformation.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 4:01 pm to Stitches
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Died under the old covenant,
And yet he was in Paradise that very day with Jesus?
My theological understanding of the old covenant is all screwed up, I guess.
Posted on 2/19/25 at 4:11 pm to wackatimesthree
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And yet he was in Paradise that very day with Jesus?
Depends. There are no punctuation marks in the original Greek of Luke 23:42-43.
So the passage could be read as, “Truly, I say to you today, you will be with me in paradise.” On this reading, “today” refers not to when the good thief will be with Jesus in paradise, but to when Jesus tells the good thief that he will be with him in paradise. This would make the most sense since Jesus later tells the disciples after the resurrection that he had not yet gone into his kingdom.
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My theological understanding of the old covenant is all screwed up, I guess.
I wasn't implying that people who died under the Davidic covenant can't go to Heaven, if that's how you took it, but rather the Protestant use of the good thief to support their new covenant sola fide doctrine that didn't exist for 1.5 millenia after Christ can't apply to the good thief like they think it does, because he didn't die under that covenant.
This post was edited on 2/19/25 at 4:14 pm
Posted on 2/19/25 at 4:13 pm to burger bearcat
quote:IVF results in an otherwise infertile couple having a baby, so you tell me.
Does IVF create abortions?
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