Are super feminine gay men exempt from beatdown portion of The Man Code ?

For instance, a straight man who started berating a woman in public like the flamboyantly gay man who berated Ivanka Trump would likely have his arse kicked. And if not, he'd at least have the expectation that he might have his arse kicked. That's because part of being a straight man is understanding that if you verbally assault a women, her husband, father, boyfriend is likely to beat the shite out of you. The Man Code is unambiguous about that. It's ancient stuff, hardwired into our DNA.

Gay men, particularly super-feminine gay men, don't really grow up observant of the playground code pertaining to male violence. They are more likely to be lumped in with the girls in that there is no expectation that they will ever either be expected to fight or held to account if they don't. Because of this societal pass, the gay man is more likely (like a woman) to get all up in your grill. He knows he's not going to get punched in the face.

In other words, if a masculine male verbally assaults your wife, it's on. But a feminine gay guy is given a pass, and put into the same category as a woman. There is an expectation by the gay man that he may be ultra-histrionic and over-the-top bitchy and still avoid getting his arse kicked, whereas a straight man would never make that assumption.

I also don't think this applies to a masculine gay-guy. He's likely to get his arse kicked too.

*Special Little Snowflake disclaimer-I'm not making the case for violence against gays, I'm just making an observation about our sacred American Man Code.