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re: American Men. How did we all become such weak pu.....

Posted on 8/30/22 at 11:39 am to
Posted by umrebel2009
Member since Feb 2010
8472 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 11:39 am to
The internet was responsible for the rise and fall of our society
Posted by zeebo
Hammond
Member since Jan 2008
5406 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 11:44 am to
You can’t keep women in check if you can’t fund the family by yourself. If they have to work to help pay the bills it is hard.
Posted by chrome_daddy
LA (Lower Ashvegas)
Member since May 2004
2484 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 11:54 am to
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Guy I work with has been walking around work all week with a mask on. I asked him if he or someone was sick. He said no, but his daughter in law won't let him see his new grandson unless he wears a mask at all times even when they aren't around. I asked what his son thought about all that, and he laughed and said he wasn't involved in those decisions and takes orders from his wife. It sounds like the son isn't the only one taking orders from the DIL either. She is running shite even when she's not in the room.

Wow...you just described what my sister and her husband has been going through for the past two years.
- Her two sons are married to "strong women" who control every aspect of their lives.
- My sister lives for her grandkids and has had to be one of those people who still wears a mask in a grocery store bc her DIL's insist on it.
- They want to know if she/her husband ever get sick, ever go to a bar/restaurant/vacation.
- They are crazy militant. And my sister does it all willingly if she ever wants to see those kids.
- My nephews are both engineers so they are smart, but I'm dumbfounded they let their women lead them around by their noses.
- Sad. I've lost all respect for any of them.
Posted by OBReb6
Memphissippi
Member since Jul 2010
41553 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 11:56 am to
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Woe to the wicked! It shall be ill with him, for what his hands have dealt out shall be done to him.
My people—infants are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, your guides mislead you and they have swallowed up the course of your paths.



Isaiah 3:11-12 ESV
This post was edited on 8/30/22 at 11:59 am
Posted by KAGTASTIC
Member since Feb 2022
7989 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 12:08 pm to
Should have asked him if she holds her BF to the same requirement.



Posted by BamaMamaof2
Atlanta, GA
Member since Nov 2019
2656 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 12:10 pm to
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Feminism


I don't know about that, sounds like that is Low T man issue.

I can say with certainty that my my husband would look at me like I was crazy if I told him what he HAD to do! I really don't know why a woman would want a man that she could dominate like that!

I might ask to do something and he either agrees or disagrees, just like he can ask me to do something and I will either agree or disagree.

Buck up men and stand your ground against these type woman!
Posted by KAGTASTIC
Member since Feb 2022
7989 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 12:11 pm to
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Caveat - masks can be helpful when you are the one who is ill and want to curb the probability of spreading it to others around you. However, they must be KN-95 and you cannot talk because it would break the seal around your mouth. All that to say that it is essentially useless in a working environment where you have to speak and eat.


As I heard a Surgeon say in an interview regarding the blue surgical masks (so thinking works the same for the cloth ones most wear)...

"They are splash guards, not viral guards."
Posted by Flats
Member since Jul 2019
26950 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 12:14 pm to
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I really don't know why a woman would want a man that she could dominate like that!


Most of them don't, even if they think they do. They lose respect for those men and end up resenting them, frequently to the point of having an affair or leaving them for a man who's not a simp.
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
19233 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 12:17 pm to
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Bullying is the answer to your question, however. We need to bring it back.


This is correct. Granted, sometimes they took things too far, but they helped maintain social order.
Posted by KAGTASTIC
Member since Feb 2022
7989 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 12:23 pm to
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Wife knows I make all the big decisions for our family but she runs day to day ops. It’s a give and take. But a man should be the head of the house.


And to build that trust, it's important for the husband to show that he hears/heard her opinion, and she trusts he heeded it when he makes the final call.

Sad thing is that there are so many boys without a good father figure to show them this naturally. I wasn't told this directly by my father, growing up I watched how my parents had this dynamic, so to me it's 2nd nature.

Key is for guys to tell girls they are dating, and see long term potential, that this is the way it will be before it goes to far. Unfortunately, the poonanie TKOs way to many in the first couple of rounds. If they were only taught that many girls/women really want a man that takes this approach and will get them purring.
Posted by BamaMamaof2
Atlanta, GA
Member since Nov 2019
2656 posts
Posted on 8/30/22 at 1:03 pm to
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Sad thing is that there are so many boys without a good father figure to show them this naturally. I wasn't told this directly by my father, growing up I watched how my parents had this dynamic, so to me it's 2nd nature.


Could not agree with you more on this statement. My husband was raised by a great Dad and he has been an incredible role model for our son.

We normally come to an agreement on the big decisions for our family. There are times he might feel strongly about something, and even though I don't, I will compromise and the same is true for him.

The key to this is having a strong relationship with 2 strong people. I won't kneel to him as having the final decision and he doesn't kneel to me either.
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