re: My wife is afraid of guns

For any first time shooter, start them out with a .22. I agree a rifle is preferable since they are quieter than a pistol.

Let them get good and comfortable with it before starting them on anything else.

Then I would work up to a .22 pistol. After that, a full size 9mm. Maybe a .40 S&W. Later on, if she wants, you can consider a larger caliber like .357 or .45 ACP.

If you're trying to share your hobby with your girl, you will do this, otherwise she is never going to enjoy the sport.

LC