Started By
Message

Writing a journal to your child

Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:21 pm
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62985 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:21 pm
Apparently my wife started this and I didn't know until today when she asked me if I wanted to write in it. I was hesitant, but ended up writing 3 pages for my first entry.

It's a little awkward, since I have no idea what our relationship will be like when he gets it (many years, maybe even HS graduation), but I kind of got into it.

Has anyone done this or is in the process? What are some things you put in it? So far, I just told him about me at this point in time, saying I can feel him kicking and things I've that. I figured it would be cool for him to see what we were thinking during the process, and also maybe throw in some advice that we may forget to tell him, or that would be worth reading again at an older age.

Anyway, the first entry was a pretty cool experience, in regards to what it made me think about and imagining him reading it later in life. It might turn out to be really special if God forbid something should happen to me or my wife.
Posted by pkloa
Member since Jan 2011
2264 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:22 pm to
That's cool. Kinda wish I could write more than one paragraph
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:23 pm to
That is actually the first time I've heard of this. However, what a great idea. I totally would do this if I have a kid.
Posted by PepaSpray
Adamantium Membership
Member since Aug 2012
11080 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:24 pm to
Hey son, sorry for your lack of college funds.....skank was cute
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85032 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:25 pm to
My wife has a blog dedicated to him. It's letters to him about big events or tough days or good days. She started it when she found out she was pregnant. She enjoys it and, I think, is mostly for her. But if he reads it one day, it could be something special to him too.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62985 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:25 pm to
I suspect some entries might only be a paragraph, or a list, or even just pictures taped in it. My imagination really got going when she gave it to me.

I suggested we not read each other's entries for now, just to see where we repeat things or even contradict each other. Might change, though.
Posted by Tino
:yawn:
Member since Dec 2004
86225 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:26 pm to
Today me and your dad rode our beach cruisers and went hiking with the dogs. I also got into a fight with an old gross lady on a message board. Oh, let me about the vacation we are planning.....six pages of nonsense nobody will ever read
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
278385 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:27 pm to
Posted by BoogerEater
Lake Charles, La.
Member since Feb 2008
1597 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:28 pm to
All the time, my father died before I was born and wish he would have done it. So, just in case something happens to me I write to her as if something does so she can read it. I also have birthday cards and other big event cards written just in case. Maybe silly but it's my way.
Posted by CT
Kate Upton's back
Member since Sep 2004
21054 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:28 pm to
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:29 pm to
I wouldn't write crap like that in it.


Like the OP said, something like that could be priceless to a child one day. Esp if they lose their parents when they are young.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62985 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:30 pm to
My class I'm 8th grade did a retreat thing and part of it was our parents had to write us a letter. It was pretty awesome reading what my parents had to say, since I think a lot of us don't say everything we want to all the time. It was emotional, in a good way, and I was reminded of how cool it was today and got excited about my son having that on a larger scale.

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:31 pm to
Makes me think of this commercial actually...


LINK
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53417 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:32 pm to
My wife got me a nice leather journal to write to my kids... I used it for a workout log. She's just happy I used it.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:34 pm to
That's really cool. And I think it's important, no matter what type of relationship you have with your son.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62985 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:35 pm to
Me too! I saw that right before our first pregnancy and thought I would like to do that, but it sort fell off the radar. I told the wife about the idea back then, so I like to think that's why she started it, but I doubt it.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:36 pm to
Can you imagine if Southern Farmer wrote a journal to his kids???


Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:37 pm to
quote:

Makes me think of this commercial actually...


Aw Goddamnit
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:37 pm to
I love that commercial, makes me smile.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 1/26/14 at 6:38 pm to
quote:

I also got into a fight with an old gross lady on a message board.


Dear Baby, today I am going to tell you all about internet trolls.
first pageprev pagePage 1 of 2Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookTwitterInstagram