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re: Women who say “it means more when a woman tells me I’m beautiful than when a man does”

Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:19 am to
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5635 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:19 am to
Another problem that I have with something like this is that it’s kind of like when black people say racist things. No one will bat an eye, but if a white person says the same thing society wants to crucify him.

If a woman says this, it’s perfectly ok. If a man would say something like this, he would immediately be labeled a sexist and misogynist and someone who thinks he’s superior to women.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4517 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:20 am to
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Women who say “it means more when a woman tells me I’m beautiful than when a man does”
cbree88
Is this is a pretty big red flag? I would venture to say yes.


Does she have pointy long nails?
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5635 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:20 am to
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lol! Where do you hear this crap?


I see it on Facebook. Imagine that lol. It’s where women go to air their dirty laundry out.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124853 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:22 am to
except that there are women who will tell a man in a wig with a 5 o'cock shadow that he's a beautiful lady.


Their opinions are suspect
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
1083 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:23 am to
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Is this is a pretty big red flag?

What? No.

If she’s even slightly above average she hears from rando dudes how pretty she is all the time.

If another straight woman (who obviously isn’t trying to gain anything) says it, then yeah it would mean more.

Now, if she’s talking about her husband/SO, that’s completely different.
This post was edited on 5/23/24 at 10:25 am
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5635 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:24 am to
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I know a lot of females and of them all- maybe 2% are nut jobs.



bullshite. It’s much easier to find crazies than sensible, logical women. That’s why you see such constant nonsense on/in Facebook, TV, movies, pop culture, community events, social circles, family gatherings, etc.

I waited to get married until I was 35 because it took so long to sift through all the crazies/stupids and find a good woman to spend my life with.
This post was edited on 5/23/24 at 10:27 am
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
79290 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:24 am to
Don’t Lady Splain me !
This is a Man space!
Buhleeve all Pimps!
Oh yeah. Uh huh.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
1083 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:26 am to
quote:

Another problem that I have with something like this is that it’s kind of like when black people say racist things. No one will bat an eye, but if a white person says the same thing society wants to crucify him.

If a woman says this, it’s perfectly ok. If a man would say something like this, he would immediately be labeled a sexist and misogynist and someone who thinks he’s superior to women.

Brother, you sound a little bitter.

Maybe get offline and go interact with people IRL.
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
30709 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:27 am to
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bullshite. It’s much easier to find crazies than sensible, logical women. That’s why you see such constant nonsense on Facebook, TV, movies, pop culture, community events, social circles, etc.


perhaps my circle has excluded the crazies.

that's my point though sort of- be selective of who you spend time with friends/lovers/etc...

and ffs- people give WAY TOO MUCH THOUGHT to social media platforms.

This post was edited on 5/23/24 at 10:28 am
Posted by 0x15E
Outer Space
Member since Sep 2020
12888 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:28 am to
Perhaps you’re thinking way too much about this
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
5635 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:28 am to
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Brother, you sound a little bitter. Maybe get offline and go interact with people IRL.


I do interact with plenty of people in real life.

Regardless, I don’t think that will solve anything. Burying your head in the sand and using a pacification approach has never solved anything.
This post was edited on 5/23/24 at 10:29 am
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
1083 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:31 am to
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I don’t think that will solve anything. Burying your head in the sand and using a pacification approach has never solved anything.

Interacting with actual people (as opposed to stuff you read online about people you’ll never meet) isn’t burying your head in the sand. I believe it's the opposite.

Have you actually had any of these interactions with real people you’ve encountered in the world? Have you actually complimented a woman who told you your opinion matters less than a woman’s IRL? Have you been told you’re a racist by someone IRL?
Posted by NATidefan
Two hours North of Birmingham
Member since Dec 2008
36291 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:33 am to
I didn't realize most women take being called cute as some type of insult until I was a bit older. Which is strange cause that's the number one term they use for guys they find attractive.

Cute to me means pretty, playful, not trashy looking. Marriage material type.

Apparently, they all want to be called sexy whores.... who knew?
This post was edited on 5/23/24 at 10:35 am
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
30709 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:37 am to
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I didn't realize most women take being called cute as some type of insult until I was a bit older.


who is telling y'all this???

quote:

Cute to me means pretty, playful, not trashy looking. Marriage material type.


exactly. a compliment.

quote:

Apparently, they all want to be called sexy whores.... who knew?


perhaps these are the women who dress up as slutty nurses for halloween. and imho- those types are the red flags and should be avoided at all costs.
Posted by Apache
San Diego
Member since Dec 2013
2507 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:41 am to
It's because of simps. She has 10-12 simps currently in her dm's just handing out compliments hoping it'll get them laid. It's meaningless at that point.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
79290 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:43 am to
Women want the men they are attracted to to playfully dismiss them. That’s what builds attraction. That’s why you give her attention but not constant affirmation. It’s better to answer her question with a little playfulness than a “ ohmyGod you look gorgeous “. Better to say “ not bad “.
Posted by Gaggle
Member since Oct 2021
5693 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:46 am to
Never heard that. It's an obvious lie.
Woman sympathize and compliment each other as a purely social function, almost universally, to their absolute enemies. Then they turn around and talk shite immediately. Women know this.
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
41322 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:46 am to
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Because they put 175 different things on their face and hair and no straight dude is going to notice all of that.



I've told my wife for 30 yrs that I prefer her without all the makeup, hair coloring, etc, etc. Yet, she still does it. She's doing it for the other women at work and not me at all.
Posted by Gaggle
Member since Oct 2021
5693 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:48 am to
The same way you practice basketball to beat the other guys. It's their social competition. They don't love the compliment, they're scared of the insult.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
79290 posts
Posted on 5/23/24 at 10:50 am to
Man: Is Lizzo beautiful?

Woman: Absolutely. Gorgeous. Brave. Courageous. Amazing.

Man: You remind me of Lizzo.

Woman: * Slaps man across face
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