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re: Why is being an a-hole of a parent frowned upon?
Posted on 3/15/17 at 7:21 am to theunknownknight
Posted on 3/15/17 at 7:21 am to theunknownknight

Posted on 3/15/17 at 7:36 am to theunknownknight
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Why am I expected to deify my kids and do whatever they want to do at the time? Our culture has seemingly turned parents into glorified servants.
Maybe in your paranoid mind it has
Posted on 3/15/17 at 7:41 am to offshoretrash
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offshoretrash
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I have 5 kids, 2 being step daughters.
Checks out.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 7:53 am to theunknownknight
What happens when your kid comes home one day and says that Kobe was overrated, only truly had success when paired with Shaq, and was injury-prone and selfish?
Posted on 3/15/17 at 8:04 am to theunknownknight
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Why am I expected to deify my kids and do whatever they want to do at the time?
You're not.
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I'm talking about rearranging my life for their "memories" and temporary happiness.
You don't have to.
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Maybe I'm old fashioned, but my kids aren't dictating the terms in our relationship.
This isn't being an a-hole parent. This is being a parent.
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I know that makes me a "bad" parent these days but who cares?
No it doesn't. Nobody will call you a bad parent for not allowing your kid to dictate the relationship.
This entire thread is built upon a very flimsy strawman.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 8:11 am to theunknownknight
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I'm the dad. They are the kids. End of story.
That's right. They need to understand that when I order them a chocolate shake, there's a daddy tax to be paid. I get first pull of that shake before I pass it back.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 8:24 am to UncleRuckus
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I really don't understand parents who put up with tantrums. You act like your fricking crazy and you're going to get in trouble
This. I also don't understand parents who discipline their kids by putting them in timeout for like 10 seconds. I see this with my brother & sis in law
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:32 am to SidewalkDawg
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That's why I don't show up to birthday's or ball games after I promised I would, and if I do, it's usually piss drunk and swearing.
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:36 am to tke857
I was just looking for this to post. Saw it on the FB the other day. 
Posted on 3/15/17 at 9:46 am to ChineseBandit66
My dad was never our friend going up and we loved and adored him. He could be an arse and was very tough on us. We didn't get the newest video games or nicest clothing. We sure as hell had fishing poles to fish the ponds and guns to go shoot critters with. Bought us POS vehicles at 16 and made us pay for gas and insurance. Made us take care of those 2k vehicles like they were brand new Z71s. No curfew but if your grades were anything less than what he expected you were in deep shite. If you got caught doing something you shouldn't and he found out goodbye life for about a month and hello tractor, push mower, and weed eater on 13 acres by yourself. Today my dad is one of my best friends and I can go to him with anything. He's a wonderful grandfather to my little one and I hope to be half the dad to her as he was to me.
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