re: Why are guys not able to see a cheater?

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She is a hard drinker. Not many can keep up.

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One guy did.

Most people never know their spouse is cheating. It happens, a lot.

You know what's hilarious in a really fricked up way?

Seeing these chicks with their FB photos of their happy family and them posting shite like "best husband ever! He bought me a new car!" "lovin life".


And knowing that less than a week before she was getting every hole stretched out while he was at work.

I had a similar situation with a friend in college and he told me years later that he was afraid to leave her because he didn't think he could find anyone else. I think guys with low self esteem are the only ones who put up with this sort of shite.

I remember one of my gf's told me a few months into our relationship that she had a bf when she met me and she had cheated on him with me. I dumped her not long after because I knew she would end up doing the same to me.

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I know a girl that cheated on her husband for over two years consistently. Like 2-3 times a week.
I know because I was the other guy. Neither of us had a clue. He knows now and I think they still together- lol
I'm not smart enough nor do inhale the energy to keep a double life together like that. It's gotta take a ton of planning and energy

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How the frick is it possible this goes on for 2 years and you don't have a clue about it? I'm calling bullshite. You have to be incredibly, incredibly stupid to carry on an affair with a married woman for 2 fricking years and to not have known. Did it not seem suspicious that she wouldn't call you for hours at a time or not spend whole weeks with you ever?

Maybe a month or 2, but 2 years? No fricking way that happens with both sides being guiltless and ignorant.

It's only hard the first time. After that, everything is easy.

It's the damndest thing. They can have their cake and eat it too. They get off on it.

And really...it's so easy. Jody doesn't sleep.

Jody's plowing your woman in his truck before she goes in to Zumba with his spunk all up inside her while you stay at home to watch the kids.

She's blowing Jody in a car wash during the middle of the day.

You really can't stop it. If a woman wants to cheat, she's gonna cheat.

That's the cold hard truth.

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Maybe a month or 2, but 2 years? No fricking way that happens with both sides being guiltless and ignorant.

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If you had a chick you met out somewhere, and every week she'd come over, frick your brains out, and leave...would you really care?

It's not like you want a relationship with her. She's a fun little frick toy at that point. You don't ask questions.

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It's very possible, particularly if they don't live in the same town and it's a very casual sexual relationship.

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But surely vacations and holidays had to come into the picture during a two year relationship. In 2 years you don't get remotely curious to visit the girl on her home turf? You have to be half-way retarded in order for this to go on for 2 years and be totally ignorant to it.

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If you had a chick you met out somewhere, and every week she'd come over, frick your brains out, and leave...would you really care?

It's not like you want a relationship with her. She's a fun little frick toy at that point. You don't ask questions.

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Maybe I'm just too curious of a person, but I like to know what someone who I've been having sex with for 2 fricking years is actually up to. 2 years is plenty of time to find this out even if you aren't actively curious about the situation.

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If you had a chick you met out somewhere, and every week she'd come over, frick your brains out, and leave...would you really care? It's not like you want a relationship with her. She's a fun little frick toy at that point. You don't ask questions.

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how the hell is you mom ?