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Who initiates intimacy in your relationship?

Posted on 8/21/17 at 11:57 am
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
4767 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 11:57 am
Do you ask or does she? Curious how the alphas in the ot handle business. Should she beg for it or should you command it?
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
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Posted on 8/21/17 at 11:59 am to
I just grab her boobs and go from there
Posted by Run Ultra
Member since May 2017
1904 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:00 pm to
my right hand
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
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Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:00 pm to
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Posted by Janky
Team Primo
Member since Jun 2011
35957 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:00 pm to
Her boyfriend
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:00 pm to
My hand. :(
Posted by Blob Fish
Member since Mar 2016
3091 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:00 pm to
Don't ask.

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Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:00 pm to
i usually can sneak the handcuffs on her right after she doses off to sleep
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
33804 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:05 pm to
Mostly me but if it is middle of the night sex she does. Her main method of seducing me is to take my hand and put it on her tit. It works.
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
7622 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:07 pm to
Whoevers horny at the time
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84582 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:07 pm to
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Should she beg for it or should you command it?


Folks, this is what trying too hard looks like.
This post was edited on 8/21/17 at 12:08 pm
Posted by JetFuelTyga
Born in desert,raised in lion's den
Member since Feb 2016
1785 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:08 pm to
Usually her
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:15 pm to
It's about 60/40 me.

It depends on the situation. If we've been drinking, it's usually her. She tried to rape me 2 nights ago at like 1:00 in the morning when I just wanted to go to sleep.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5699 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:16 pm to
There is no asking. One of us decides they want it, goes for it, and neither of us say no.
Posted by frankenfish
Crofton, MD
Member since Feb 2008
837 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:21 pm to
same; usually her- she knows I'm good to go at almost anytime so when ever she's ready I'm ready.

She shared a conversation the ladies (mid-to-late 40s) at her book club had last week. I always thought it was a caricature but she said several ladies in book club actually do not like sex. They gave such comments as, "I'm so happy the day after because he knows we don't do it two days in a row" and "I'm so glad when I menstruate because he will leave me alone."

I couldn't believe this. We are good friends with another couple and the other wife is kind of this way; she said her body has changed so much after 3 kids she doesn't feel sexy anymore. I asked her if her husband had any complaints and she said "no" he still wanted to do it often. She admitted I had a point when I said, "do you see the irony in your not having sex as often with your husband because you don't find yourself as attractive as you once did but he still does?", but she didn't say that would change her behavior.

After 17 years of marriage and two kids I'm still averaging 2-3 times a week with the wife. I'm glad she hasn't succumbed to this type of thinking...
This post was edited on 8/21/17 at 12:23 pm
Posted by fjlee90
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2016
7829 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:31 pm to
I just grab her by the pussy and go from there. Sometimes it is a yes, sometimes I find myself icing my hand.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
18537 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:50 pm to
Snuggle. Key to everything.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21394 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:50 pm to
quote:

Who initiates intimacy in your relationship?


In order to qualify as the initiator, does it have to be a successful initiation? If not, I'm definitely the chief initiator, however my success rate is very low. She, on the other hand, as the initiator (from what I remember), is very successful, in fact very close to perfect.
This post was edited on 8/21/17 at 12:51 pm
Posted by tketaco
Sunnyside, Houston
Member since Jan 2010
19380 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:51 pm to
She normally tells me that she wants sex. Doesn't take much to get me started.

Sometimes it can be a burden, with all this magic in my pants.
Posted by Hacker
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2009
3239 posts
Posted on 8/21/17 at 12:52 pm to
If you have to ask then you're doing it wrong.
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