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re: Who else’s wife jumps the gun on taking kids to the doc?

Posted on 3/5/23 at 11:03 am to
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
14257 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 11:03 am to
My ex used to cart all our kids off to the pediatric ophthalmologist at least once a year because the oldest needed glasses at a young age. None of the others had ann issue. After the divorce and scheduling was under my control, those appointments have stopped.
Posted by jmh5724
Member since Jan 2012
2132 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 11:05 am to
There’s a reason urgent cares are popping up like fast food restaurants. These places basically print money knowing overcautious moms will show up for anything
Posted by evil cockroach
27.98N // 86.92E
Member since Nov 2007
7457 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 11:09 am to
Mrs Evil is a board certified hypochondriac
Posted by evil cockroach
27.98N // 86.92E
Member since Nov 2007
7457 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 11:09 am to
quote:

There’s a reason urgent cares are popping up like fast food restaurants. These places basically print money knowing overcautious moms will show up for anything
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Posted by Mfiwd
Member since Mar 2020
338 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 11:21 am to
Yes, the Ex. Anything and everything.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired
Member since Feb 2019
4569 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 11:40 am to
Why are you whining on the OT and not taking control of your wife? You call the shots, but be a cuck.
Posted by Team Vote
DFW
Member since Aug 2014
7730 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 1:18 pm to
Mine doesn’t, we still only have one but we will put it off until it’s certain he needs to see a doctor. We don’t mind calling and consulting the on call nurse though.
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
55243 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 1:19 pm to
Testify
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21403 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 2:49 pm to
My sons hardly ever went to the doc. However, I was so protective of my daughter I took her to doc for anything and everything. Once, it saved her life, so I offer no apologies.
Posted by VictoryHill
Alabama
Member since Nov 2013
3209 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 2:56 pm to
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Am I being a hard arse or how does everyone else handle this stuff. Genuinely curious.

This isn't unique. My wife is a physician and she says I wouldn't believe the amount of people that waste time bringing their kids to the doctor for nothing. There's nothing a doctor is doing for a kid with a common cold or a simple virus being passed around school. Eat nutritious food, hydrate, take your vitamins, and rest. It'll pass.
Posted by PrpleReign007
Member since Mar 2022
15 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 3:09 pm to
Sure she does, then I remind her who ultimately runs the show. When she questions that, which is rare, I tell her to go call her father. He backs me up, she was raised right.

We make decisions together, but I'm the tie breaker. Just gotta chose your battles, and how my kids are raised is worth fighting for
This post was edited on 3/5/23 at 3:12 pm
Posted by BradBallard
Wilmington, Delaware
Member since Jun 2020
353 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 3:11 pm to
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Yes, the Ex. Anything and everything.


The golden uterus, supermom….My ex did the same thing - she doctor shops until she gets the diagnosis she Googled. Thankfully, I got sole legal custody when my daughter was 13 and put and end to that immediately.

However, fast forward to now, and my daughter just received a conditional appointment to the Naval Academy pending she gets a medical waiver for some things that she was never diagnosed by a doctor. Example - Tachycardia got into her record because my daughter once had some brief symptoms. My ex takes her to the Dr for something else, and tells the Dr she had a history of Tachycardia.

Posted by Globetrotter747
Member since Sep 2017
4307 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 4:02 pm to
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I swear my wife (no pics) will want to take my kids to the doc for a sneeze literally right after it happens (being a little sarcastic but you get my drift).

I bet any males will be a sack of hell on the football field one day.
Posted by SuperflyLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2014
970 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 4:31 pm to
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2 of our kids will get or has gotten 104-105 F fevers


quote:

wheezing with blue lips/fingers and breathing 40-50/times a minute


If my kid is sustaining a 105° fever or wheezing with blue lips / fingertips, his arse is going to the doctor. If that makes me a pussy then so be it. I get letting it ride for an ache or vomiting but holy shite.
Posted by Oneforthemoney
New Iberia, La
Member since Dec 2013
1784 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 9:37 pm to
7 year old is unvaxxed so he never gets sick. Goes to dr once a year for his yearly checkup.
Posted by Oneforthemoney
New Iberia, La
Member since Dec 2013
1784 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 9:39 pm to
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are they vaccinated?


If you have to ask that, you already know just like I do.

There is a reason my unvaxxed son never gets sick
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
11443 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 9:41 pm to
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If I find a tick on me I’m going to the doctor for antibiotics. Lyme is not something I care to play around with.


Tell me you live in the city, without teling me you live in the city?
Posted by JAMAC2001
Member since Jan 2013
2763 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 9:42 pm to
Not sure if already mentioned, but my wife (and others im sure) are forced by the school to take the kids to the dr in order to get an excused absence from school.

Pisses me off. Sure, the kid is too sick to be at school and needs to recover at home. However, in order to be excused, must be a doctor's excuse.

I essentially pay a $35 copay just to get an excuse.
This post was edited on 3/5/23 at 9:43 pm
Posted by CE Tiger
Metairie
Member since Jan 2008
41584 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 10:06 pm to
My 1.5 year old likes to let us know he has an ear infection by projectile vomiting everywhere once he wakes up. So we usually take him after to get him started on whatever treatment. He’s had five ear infections this year and this week we are meeting to schedule tubes. My high deductible plan getting used the F up and he’s draining my HSA
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
16921 posts
Posted on 3/5/23 at 10:11 pm to
My kids go to the doc once a year for their well visit; they started daycare at 1 month old and are now invincible. In 10 years they’ve been on antibiotics maybe 5 times between the 2 of them.
This post was edited on 3/5/23 at 10:16 pm
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