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re: when have you been friend-zoned?

Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:14 pm to
Posted by ZereauxSum
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:14 pm to
Man I'm glad I'm not single. I would literally have no clue what to do.

My wife and I talked for MONTHS before in even tried to kiss her. Granted, we were in high school when we met but I don't see anything wrong with going on a few dates before getting physical.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:15 pm to
Friend zone on the front end is easy. She's not interested, you move on. Friend zone with an ex where you think you can get it back is much more difficult to deal with.
Posted by Jcorye1
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Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:16 pm to
quote:

probably one or both of those are true. at the end of the day, I want to sleep with her so I should probably make that clear. We've known each other in a professional sense for close to 3 years now. I've actually never really considered her an option until she dropped some weight recently after she joined the army. I guess this would be a case of me initially "friend-zoning" her and then realizing after she dropped some weight that I wanted to sleep with her.



Posted by The Baker
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:45 pm to
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:54 pm to
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Posted by KG5989
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Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:03 pm to
quote:

I really like a girl that probably considerers me her best guy friend and I really don't want to be friends with her anymore because she is just too attractive and really cool, How would the OT'ers handle this situation to move to the next level?




Never fails.
Posted by MunichBengal
Member since Apr 2014
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:05 pm to
Before I became alpha and learned how to take what I want.
Posted by MunichBengal
Member since Apr 2014
399 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:06 pm to
It's too late - she has pegged you as a beta and doesn't yearn for your cock.

Only way to change that is to step away for 6 months, stop jerking off, practice running game on other girls to improve your skill, and reemerge as an alpha, reframing your relationship with the girl you want.
This post was edited on 5/17/14 at 5:09 pm
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92877 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:18 pm to
quote:

1st date and no sex? 2nd date and no sex? anything after? thoughts?



It all depends but if you think no sex on the first date means you are in the friend zone you are crazy! You can tell if a girl likes you are not and if she does go for it but I guess if you need a rule you should at least have made out after 3 dates!
Posted by iliveinabox
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Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:20 pm to
No kiss after 2nd date..
Posted by LT
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Member since May 2008
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:23 pm to
quote:

How would the OT'ers handle this situation to move to the next level?


I've been with my wife for 11 years. How are you young people courting? Do you ramble around in intersecting packs hoping your private parts bump into each other?

Ask the fricking girl out to dinner. Some place decent. I hear the lava cantina is nice. If she accepts, she likes you too.

Whenever the date is over be intimate. Don't mean show her your dong..... But kiss her. Something.... Make her know you are no longer her buddy.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171080 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:31 pm to
this thread is making it hard to kill the "beta" trend
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:32 pm to
quote:

when have you been friend-zoned?

"a better question is, when have i not?"

-2006
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:33 pm to
quote:

Ask the fricking girl out to dinner. Some place decent. I hear the lava cantina is nice. If she accepts, she likes you too.

not true at all

girls know how to get free dinners + if this is an actual FZ scenario, she feels guilty to say no
Posted by Cosmo
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Member since Oct 2003
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Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:35 pm to
you gotta go for second base by third date at the latest.

if no dice, you are FZ
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Member since Jan 2004
423481 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:37 pm to
yeah def...unless the girl is a super christian-prude (which still do exist)

Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
112370 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:37 pm to
quote:

girls know how to get free dinners + if this is an actual FZ scenario, she feels guilty to say no


Truth. They don't mind giving you a glimmer of hope for a free meal.
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92877 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:38 pm to
quote:

you gotta go for second base by third date at the latest.




shite you gotta go for that on date one! If you don't get it by the 3rd date it doesn't mean you are in the FZ but you GOTTA try!
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120427 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:39 pm to
quote:

unless the girl is a super christian-prude (which still do exist)


naw, even those will usually give up at least 2nd base if they are into you. getting the d in the p may take a lot of work though
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
423481 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 5:40 pm to
wait..what is 2nd base? an old fashioned?
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