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re: What's the Max body count you allow a woman that you're considering dating?

Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:06 pm to
Posted by molsusports
Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:06 pm to
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I am actually a little shocked at the amount of people ok with marrying a slut.


There's a number somewhere that correlates to fewer successful marriages. One sociologist put a breaking point around 5 partners (as in over this number the frequency of divorces began to rise significantly).

This isn't great news since promiscuity is extremely common. But then again marriage is such a legal landmine that I see why many people rule it out and just make babies out of wedlock
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:08 pm to
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You're shocked at how few people there are who still believe in that double standard - men can sew their oats, women better remain pure.


I'd love for you to point out where I said that

Posted by NorthTxLSU
Dallas to Austin to Houston
Member since Nov 2018
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Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:08 pm to
someone who gets laid enough wouldn’t care this much about how many people his hypothetical wife has slept with
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108047 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:08 pm to
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There's a number somewhere that correlates to fewer successful marriages. One sociologist put a breaking point around 5 partners (as in over this number the frequency of divorces began to rise significantly).


You have a link to this study? I’m genuinely curious as to what it has to say about other potential variables that may correlate with a higher body count (such as age, previous relationships/marriages, etc).
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:09 pm to
quote:


There's a number somewhere that correlates to fewer successful marriages. One sociologist put a breaking point around 5 partners (as in over this number the frequency of divorces began to rise significantly).

This isn't great news since promiscuity is extremely common.



I'm going to go ahead and call bullshite on the validity of such a study.
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:09 pm to
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Me and my beaches


You’ll find someone some day. I hear there are women out there that like guys that have a superiority complex with overwhelming insecurities.

You’ll get your shot fella…one day.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108047 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:09 pm to
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Defending the honor of their obese, foul mouthed, tatted up slut wives !


Well that seems highly specific.

She left you in a bar in the Quarter didn’t she?
Posted by Tigergal79
Member since Oct 2019
54 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:09 pm to
One thing I’ve learned dating in my forties is stuff like that doesn’t matter.
Do you work? Does your penis work? Is your ex insane? What kind of dad are you?
That’s the kind of things I’m worried about, not how many women he has had sex with.
Also, most guys who throw the high quality word around aren’t usually high quality. But you sit there and keep getting lied too.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
41563 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:10 pm to
Neither you nor OP will answer a straight question about how many partners is acceptable for a woman and for a man.

It's not much of a leap to guess why.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33051 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:12 pm to
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You have a link to this study? I’m genuinely curious as to what it has to say about other potential variables that may correlate with a higher body count (such as age, previous relationships/marriages, etc).

They are out there and googleable. I've seen some. They generally show correlation between marriage young age with higher premarital partners being more prone to divorce.

It's all self reported data though so nothing is too scientific.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
56875 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:12 pm to
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Me and my beaches



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simps


Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
50990 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:14 pm to
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BluegrassBelle
This morning while going through my instagram feed I saw a meme. Had a chick with one foot on the bottom step and the other foot all the way up on the 5th step. Each step was labeled.
1.touching
2. kissing
3. putting fingers in
4. oral
5. penetration.

I feel like the author of this thread is one of the guys that does this...straight from 1 to 5.
Posted by 850SaintsGator
Pensacola
Member since Sep 2021
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Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:15 pm to
Does your mom keep a body count?

Follow up, does your mom count a train as 1?
Posted by molsusports
Member since Jul 2004
37539 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:16 pm to
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going to go ahead and call bull shite on the validity of such a study


Because in your opinion it would be unrelated information?

Like it or not it seems like highly relevant information. Half of the marriage concept is arguably about raising and protecting children. But the other half is probably about fidelity to only one partner.

That's pretty limiting (the opposite behavior of promiscuity or hedonism) and pretty difficult if you are attractive enough to be offered sex by others after you marry.

Having a smaller number of partners is probably a good indicator just because it indicates good impulse control and an emphasis on sexual selectivity rather than spreading your seed.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108047 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:16 pm to
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They are out there and googleable. I've seen some. They generally show correlation between marriage young age with higher premarital partners being more prone to divorce. It's all self reported data though so nothing is too scientific


Well and my first question would be is the higher likelihood of divorce more likely a correlation due to the younger age/lack of maturity (especially these days) versus the actual number of self-reported partners. And do we take into consideration populations that may not have had access to good sex education, maybe have family members that don’t value monogamy, etc. If that makes sense.
Posted by Me and my beaches
Member since Feb 2022
26 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:18 pm to
You can't make a housewife out of a hoe.
This is how the OT husbands spend their lives.
Everywhere they go, they run into a guy who's already been there and done that to their little angel.

This is how the husbands of the OT spend their lives.
This post was edited on 3/1/22 at 2:22 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53541 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:18 pm to
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They are out there and googleable. I've seen some. They generally show correlation between marriage young age with higher premarital partners being more prone to divorce.

It's all self reported data though so nothing is too scientific.

I've read studies that show that large age gaps increase divorce rates quite considerably too. IIRC divorce rates were higher for 5+ year age gaps and considerably higher for 10-20 years.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108047 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:18 pm to
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I feel like the author of this thread is one of the guys that does this...straight from 1 to 5.




There is absolutely some poor girl out there who has been two pumped and dumped by this poor guy. Without a doubt. Bless her.
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
50990 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:20 pm to
He prob was brought up in some Christian church that taught that a husband is over his wife's body. That her enjoying sex is wrong. That anytime she had anyone touch her before marriage, she gave herself away and could not fully give herself to him.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22363 posts
Posted on 3/1/22 at 2:21 pm to
Ive also read where income disparities are a factor as well. Someone who is 10 years older has accumulated more assets, prior to the marriage.
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