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re: What?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:14 pm to PnGtiger81
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:14 pm to PnGtiger81
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Also, and perhaps I may be wrong, but weren't you asking advice about what kind of diapers you should stock up on before your child was born?...if memory serves correctly, your kid should be about a year old.
Is this true?
The OP? I do not recall this, but that is interesting.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:16 pm to CAT
cheat on your wife with the girl you like
tons of people are doing it nowadays
tons of people are doing it nowadays
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:16 pm to CAT
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Never would act on it in a million years but
You just did. You posted about it for more information. Bang the woman, what could go wrong.
BTW, if your wife sees this post she will figure out who the woman is and you are frickED
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:19 pm to GeeOH
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BTW, if your wife sees this post she will figure out who the woman is and you are frickED
No shite.. I hope that's not his kid in his avatar.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:19 pm to CAT
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Yes, we see the other couple for cards, hanging out. Have to cut down on the interaction
Ever considered swinging?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:20 pm to CAT
Is this other woman from work or what?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:21 pm to PnGtiger81
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I can't say the same.
We both know that's not true. But it's OK, Broke knows it too.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:23 pm to SwaggerCopter
Get...
quote:Stay as far apart from and as uninvolved with the object of your crush as you can. Focus on your wife, you life together, the things about her that attract you. The things about her that you love. Do things with her that are fun. Try to imagine how empty life would be if you did not have your wife to wake up next to every day. All the while, walk away from any thoughts about that other one. And don't be alone with her. If you're really brave, tell your wife about some of these feelings and how shocked you are by them. She might surprise you and let you in on some of her own stuff. That can only make you stronger.
over it. Marriage is a commitment. Love is a choice, not a feeling.
This post was edited on 8/26/14 at 1:24 pm
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:24 pm to USMCTiger03
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"Crush" sounds kind of strong to be completely normal and okay, IMO.
I'd think more of an "attraction" as being perfectly normal. You feel it, it's cool, you ponder here and there but don't really dwell on it.
Crush sounds like a higher degree of attraction, like you're always thinking about them. Not good.
This right here. Being physically attracted to women besides your wife is completely normal and innocent. A crush infers that there are emotions involved as well, and that's potential for a huge problem.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:25 pm to JawjaTigah
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If you're really brave, tell your wife about some of these feelings and how shocked you are by them. She might surprise you and let you in on some of her own stuff.
Sure. What could go wrong there?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:26 pm to LouisianaLady
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The OP?
I swear, I thought it was him asking for advice on diapers. The reason I recall was that I thought to myself, "That's a first-time parent question and the advice being doled out is atrociously stupid...lemme shed some wisdom on here." I scrolled back up to see who was posting the question.
I could be mistaken though and perhaps he wasn't the OP, but I'm almost positive he was in that thread....
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I do not recall this, but that is interesting
Again, I could be wrong.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:26 pm to CAT
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the other woman
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Central Arkansas
Your Sister, right?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:27 pm to 632627
Agreed. Still a crush isn't the beginning of the end. If you don't realize what it is and put a conscious stop to it, then that's a bigger problem.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:27 pm to JawjaTigah
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If you're really brave, tell your wife about some of these feelings and how shocked you are by them. She might surprise you and let you in on some of her own stuff. That can only make you stronger.
Solid advice, no doubt.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:30 pm to CAT
Be sure you are not perpetuating the thrill......that goes into emotional infidelity that may likely lead to the physical type.
Do not make yourself available for drinks after work or any other convenient forum to grow the crush.
Walk away or yee shall be judged.
Do not make yourself available for drinks after work or any other convenient forum to grow the crush.
Walk away or yee shall be judged.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:30 pm to CAT
In my opinion it's only normal. You're biologically programmed to reproduce with the fittest mate and your mind sees this women as your next reproductive tool. Acting on it would be shitty human part. I'm sure everyone at one point in their marriage has seen another person and just wanted to frick them all night.
I firmly believe proximity creates attraction.
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My sister calls them work crushes, and she tells her husband. If you work a ton of hours with this person, shite like this happens.
I firmly believe proximity creates attraction.
This post was edited on 8/26/14 at 1:32 pm
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:30 pm to CAT
Do you consider yourself cooler than her husband?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:34 pm to CadesCove
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We both know that's not true. But it's OK, Broke knows it too
Don't talk to me about that old bitchface.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:46 pm to LaBR4
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Is this other woman from work or what?
I have a co-worker I would like to slam... But "don't stick your pen in the company ink" Someone WILL find out....
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