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re: What is your relationship with your dad like?

Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:43 am to
Posted by cattus
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:43 am to
This thread have anything to do with Black History Month?
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:43 am to
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Great until he married my mom's best friend after their divorce and her death. He doesn't understand why that is weird.

If he waited until your mom's death it doesn't seem that weird.
Posted by Bmath
LA
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:44 am to
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My Dad And I had a very rocky relationship when I was a teen but it has gotten much better and now we can just hang out and talk about anything.


That's pretty typical for most people.

My dad is pretty introverted and very reserved. We might drink a beer together, but I'm not going to have scotch and cigars with him like I do with my father-in-law. Our biggest bonding exercise is LSU football, and we go to several games together each year.
Posted by Theboot32
Member since Jan 2016
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:44 am to
i was thinking about this yesterday, listening to an interview with Joe Buck, saying his dad was his best friend growing up.

thats not the case at all for me, he helped me develop into a man by being a hard arse, but thats about it. we are not close at all, but we see eachother often, struggle to find things to talk about
Posted by Count Chocula
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:44 am to
quote:

This thread have anything to do with Black History Month?


ISWYDT
Posted by ellishughtiger
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:44 am to
Awesome. We goto Widespread Panic shows together.
Posted by theOG
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:47 am to
solid. i live 700 miles away from him, so we talk on the phone a couple times a week. i regularly call and ask his advice, sometimes even when i know what i'm going to do.
Posted by Cole Beer
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:53 am to
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He is a jerk


How so? Because mine is too. I only put up with him because I hope to get a big inheritance someday down the road.

My dad isn't a bad person, he's just very difficult to get along with.
Posted by PaperPaintball92
Fly Navy
Member since Aug 2010
5318 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:54 am to
Before my dad passed away, we were very close. We had our rough times but we became closer as I got older.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
83369 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:55 am to
good

My dad annoys me with some of his opinions and his refusal to take care of some health stuff, but he's about as reliable as they come. Worked pretty hard in a job he hated his entire life to provide for us, and while we're not traditional best friends, he's one of 2 or 3 "rocks" in my life, as should be the case.
Posted by shotcaller1
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:57 am to
Does not exist
Posted by Blob Fish
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 10:59 am to
Posted by OhMy
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Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:01 am to
Non existent
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
450812 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:01 am to
my dad is a crazy person who lives in his own reality

speaking of, i'm going to poke the bear now
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
30706 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:01 am to
it's OK. we are nowhere near close though. we talk at least once a month.

he's a very good man, but not overly a nice guy. terrible as a grandfather. he's done enough in the past to make me proud to have been raised by him. one event he did when i was in particular in our past nullifies any of his personality failures. i didn't realize at the time, but i love him most for that.

i live in a historic district with awesome older homes and rundown meth houses. a tweaker neighbor that has depended on me for a lot of things was borrowing a mower once and he mentioned it was his birthday. i asked how old he was and he said he was the exact same age as me. i stared into oblivion contemplating the face that i could be a 300lb man that has refuses to take a job and spends all day outside without a shirt, but with a cigarette who has to rely on other people to feed my kids.

i called my dad and said despite the fact he didn't help me much in life, he did raise me right and i greatly appreciate it.
This post was edited on 2/1/17 at 11:07 am
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
450812 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:10 am to
yeah see i have none of that. my dad basically didn't raise me outside of teaching me baseball

my parents divorced when i was in 5th grade and by that point i already made power plays over him (i didn't call him dad i called him by his first name, even in front of other kids). when i was in middle school, i was more mature and less irrational-emotional than he was
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
43148 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:14 am to
my father and i are both controlling, hardheaded and stubborn so when we clash, its volcanic. thankfully those instances are very seldom, and we have successfully started and grown a business together for the last 12 years

i am so very thankful to have enjoyed a "young" father in my life (i was born when he was 20, now i'm 50)...matter of fact i need to tell him that more often
Posted by SundayFunday
Member since Sep 2011
9619 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:15 am to
Ok to good. He has his issues but He's my dad and I love him.
Posted by Grit-Eating Shin
You're an Idiot
Member since May 2013
8502 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:17 am to
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He's dead, so it's fine.
Yep. Now we talk about as much as we did for the last 20 years of his life. He beat my mom & didn't give two shits about his kids, so...

OTOH, my son & I are best friends.
This post was edited on 2/1/17 at 11:18 am
Posted by onelochevy
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2011
17478 posts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:17 am to
Very good. About the only reason we won't move away from slidell is because we're really close to my parents. My dad is my golf partner.
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