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re: What is your opinion on parents who forget their children in the car?

Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:55 am to
Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21221 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:55 am to


I agree about the 12 year old. I watched as one of them started up the car, rolled down the windows, and started blaring the music. Then bam the car started moving and I think one of them must have hit the gas instead of break.

Momma came running out of the store boobs and arse all jiggling and bouncing hollering my babies.

Then the police showed up and she was really crying.
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
18950 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:56 am to
These are sad situations, really. No further comment.
Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21221 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:57 am to
I think 9 or older is okay to leave in the car as long as your only running right in and out but in this day and age a smash and grabs happen to frequently and I'd rather take them in the risk never seeing them again or worse having to wonder what or if they are alive the rest of my life.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72160 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 8:59 am to
I'm already kinda paranoid when I leave for a work trip and my fiancé is at the house alone. We live in the city. I can't imagine how I'd be with my child.
Posted by laangler21
On the lake.
Member since May 2012
3034 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 9:01 am to
Sympathy just for losing a child, but completely at fault.
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Do you think you could ever make this mistake? And if so, could you live with yourself afterwards?

I hope I never do, I do check my backseat everytime I get out of one of our vehicles. The kids rarely ride in my truck but I still turn around and look in the back seat when I get to work.
Cant imagine losing my kids, especially if it was my fault, I would be a wreck regardless.
Posted by namvet6566
Member since Oct 2012
7847 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 9:09 am to
Take both shoes off put them on the back floor under the child seat you will not walk without getting your shoes

Posted by nguyt518
Member since Apr 2015
207 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:06 am to
Coworker has two older kids and an infant.

She got out the car to open the house for the older kids to get out, and the two older kids started fighting. After everything said and done, five minutes passed by and she forgot her infant in the car.

Thankfully the car was parked under the carport. Needless to say, she felt like shite.
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:33 am to
Have a 2 year old and have never even almost forgot. I could not live with myself if something happened.
Posted by TeddyPadillac
Member since Dec 2010
30355 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:35 am to
I've got a 4 and 2 year old.
I will never leave one in the car and you have to be an absent minded moron to do something like that.

I am not what anyone would consider a paranoid parent or over protective, but i always know where my kids are, regardless of where we are.
It amazes me when i go to birthday parties with my kids and i seem to be one of the only parents that constantly keeps an eye on my kid. I can understand if the kid is 6+ years old, but how you take your eye off of a 3 year old when you aren't in your own home is beyond me. Not asking you to stand next to them the whole party, but the words "where's my kid" should never come out of your mouth.

I definitely see how people may leave a kid in the car, but it's only b/c i see how stupid some people are when it comes to parenting at times.

I've left milk in the car before. I've left chicken. Both were b/c i was on my phone when i got out the car. It just boggles my mind how you can forget your kid is in the car. It's a kid, not milk. How do you allow the presence of your kid escape your mind? The presence of the milk escaped my mind. It's milk. How can someone treat their kid like a gallon of milk?

Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
36335 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:39 am to
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This post was edited on 6/3/15 at 11:40 am
Posted by LSUTygerFan
Homerun Village
Member since Jun 2008
33232 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:40 am to
how can there be more than one opinion on this?
Posted by GrammarKnotsi
Member since Feb 2013
10152 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:46 am to
Dropped my wife and two daughters off at the front of the museum, then I went to park the car..Ten or so minutes and I found a spot...

After walking 1/2-3/4 of the mile from the lot to the entrance, I see my wife with our tickets..Then I see her and my daughters doing some sort of goofy dance and moving towards me..Then I hear them...Where is our son...

He had been asleep when I dropped them off, and I was bitching in my mind about the walk when I got out of the car...

I'm pretty sure I set some kind of record for the time that I made it back to our car...This was late February, so I was lucky that the weather was still cool...

He has no idea it ever happened, and my wife is reluctant now when I drop them off at doors, to let my son stay with me in the car...

I was very lucky that day, and honestly don't know what I would have done had I not been...

Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19500 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 11:55 am to
Whatever happened to the guy in Atlanta last year who left his kid in the car and was found to be googling how long it takes for an animal to die in a hot car?
Posted by timbo
Red Stick, La.
Member since Dec 2011
7900 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 12:00 pm to
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you had an extra period in the link, it's here



That was an amazing piece. All of those stories were heartbreaking.
Posted by timbo
Red Stick, La.
Member since Dec 2011
7900 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 12:03 pm to
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Whatever happened to the guy in Atlanta last year who left his kid in the car and was found to be googling how long it takes for an animal to die in a hot car?


That guy was a hunk of shite. He was also sending dick pix to 17-year-old girls and googling shite about being single. Way different than the poor people in that Washington Post article who have to spend the rest of their life living with unbelievable guilt.
Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12489 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 12:25 pm to
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Take both shoes off put them on the back floor under the child seat you will not walk without getting your shoes 

But couldn't this actually make it more likely for you to leave them in the car? You're in a rush one morning and forget to put your shoes back there, then when you get to work your brain assumes the kid isn't with you because your shoes are on
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112902 posts
Posted on 6/3/15 at 1:01 pm to
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I read an article a while back that I think was actually posted here that went into the psychology of it. You're going through your day in auto pilot. You do one thing differently. Out of the ordinary you have to take the baby in the morning to drop it off at daycare instead of the SO. And your mind doesn't keep up. You make one horrible life changing frick up. Some of the people who do this seem to be perfectly loving parents. I do feel really bad for them. I'm sure some of them are simply shite bags though.
Pretty much this. I feel terrible for the parents when it happens, can't imagine how awful that must be.
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