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re: Wedding invite etiquette
Posted on 6/23/14 at 1:56 pm to heartbreakTiger
Posted on 6/23/14 at 1:56 pm to heartbreakTiger
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its trashy to not make sure guest have a plus one
Not it's not.
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and as i said if its the open bar/buffet style reception its not that big of deal.
It is though. Places charge up to $100 or more per person regardless of how little that person eats or drinks.
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I have never seen a wedding run out of food.
That is completely irrelevant.
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However, if it wasn't a close friend or family id probably ask but if its family then i will just bring a guest anyways.
And you're a rude douchebag for assuming. On the incredibly long list of people who a wedding day is not about, some random guest is pretty much at the bottom.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 1:57 pm to heartbreakTiger
With your attitude, I wouldn't worry about it. I doubt you get invited to many weddings to begin with
This post was edited on 6/23/14 at 1:58 pm
Posted on 6/23/14 at 1:59 pm to heartbreakTiger
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its trashy to not make sure guest have a plus one and as i said if its the open bar/buffet style reception its not that big of deal. I have never seen a wedding run out of food. However, if it wasn't a close friend or family id probably ask but if its family then i will just bring a guest anyways.
You sound like the trashy one, especially since you can't seem to grasp that it's not all about you that day.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 1:59 pm to iAmBatman
Don't you know a wedding is all about some random guest and his SO that the couple getting married has never met. He's important 
Posted on 6/23/14 at 1:59 pm to heartbreakTiger
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I haven't seen any weddings actually counting the guest as they walk in. It has always been more along the lines of paying for a certain amount of food.
well yea its not like walking into baskin robbins and grabbing your numbered ticket but a head count certainly does matter.
and with weddings costing as much as 20-150k, bringing uninvited people is wrong.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:00 pm to LNCHBOX
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The venue does that discreetly. Do you really think someone from the actual wedding party is responsible for that? You other post made you seem clueless, but jeez.
A lot of caterers will count plates to get an idea of the head count.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:00 pm to iAmBatman
funny because I go to at least a couple of weddings a year. sorry you suck too bad to do what you want.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:01 pm to lsunurse
nurse every day is about me
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:01 pm to heartbreakTiger
bro, whats it like to be so alpha that it hurts, bro?
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:02 pm to yellowfin
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It's a wedding, not a bar
In south Louisiana night time receptions are basically classy (sometimes
Day time receptions or receptions without alcohol are a different animal.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:03 pm to heartbreakTiger
Stick to the SECOT. It's a better place for you
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:04 pm to Epic Cajun
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In south Louisiana night time receptions are basically classy (sometimes ) bars. Music, a dance floor, free flowing alcohol...
and I wouldn't attend a wedding that is
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receptions without alcohol are a different animal.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:05 pm to Epic Cajun
It's still a wedding though.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:10 pm to lsunurse
Most weddings I've been to lately are no different than a bar
If someone wants kids at their wedding, yay for them. I don't see why it's a big deal if others don't though. Plenty of events exclude children and that's not an issue for people.
People get weird when it comes to weddings.
If someone wants kids at their wedding, yay for them. I don't see why it's a big deal if others don't though. Plenty of events exclude children and that's not an issue for people.
People get weird when it comes to weddings.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:13 pm to lsunurse
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It's still a wedding though.
I didn't care if the kids were at my actual wedding (as long as they weren't crying infants). I just didn't want little kids running around the reception.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:13 pm to Epic Cajun
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I just didn't want little kids running around the reception.
Why?
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:14 pm to heartbreakTiger
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funny because I go to at least a couple of weddings a year. sorry you suck too bad to do what you want.
A couple? shite we had 18 last year and 11 this year. And three in one weekend.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:15 pm to Epic Cajun
Didn't have any kids at my wedding and it was the best decision we made. I was a groomsman in a wedding a few months ago and kids were running wild throughout the reception. Made the whole experience unenjoyable because every time you turned around, there was someone's little brat running through the dance floor or between the tables.
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:16 pm to LouisianaLady
The no kids thing is probably me just looking for an excuse not to go to the wedding anyway
Posted on 6/23/14 at 2:17 pm to LNCHBOX
Some people don't like it/think it's cute. Why is it hard to believe someone might not care about your kid?
Your venue might not have, but plenty charge per head for all ages as well. Even if it's half the amount of an adult, it's still $30+ per kid.
Your venue might not have, but plenty charge per head for all ages as well. Even if it's half the amount of an adult, it's still $30+ per kid.
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