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Posted on 7/14/17 at 10:35 pm to Prominentwon
My wife is the same way. Has a great dad. Dated girls with daddy issues before her. Totally boring, submissive, and undriven. If you prefer girls with daddy issues, you are probably your own problem.
Posted on 7/14/17 at 10:38 pm to nelaZZ
Give us an example OP.;
Posted on 7/14/17 at 10:44 pm to Hogwarts
quote:
Give us an example OP.;
Her dad spent time with her and cared about her.
OP barely gives her the time of day and plays golf 3 times a week and can't figure out why he doesn't get blown everyday
Posted on 7/14/17 at 10:47 pm to nelaZZ
PIIHisB
Posted on 7/14/17 at 10:51 pm to nelaZZ
Posted on 7/14/17 at 11:02 pm to nelaZZ
It's great when a girl has good relationship with her dad and loves him/respects him, but when they go beyond that and compare you to him or disrespect you it's a "RUN" situation. I had this and I'm glad we broke up. Years later come to find out the dad was cheating on her mom and he wasn't so "great" then.
If you really want this to end then talk to her asap. You'll either know this isn't going to get better or maybe she'll understand what's she's doing. You have to figure out how to get her non-confrontational about it, but let her know you respect him and appreciate her love for him but being compared to him isn't going to work long-term and she has to decide if you're the right guy for her.
If you really want this to end then talk to her asap. You'll either know this isn't going to get better or maybe she'll understand what's she's doing. You have to figure out how to get her non-confrontational about it, but let her know you respect him and appreciate her love for him but being compared to him isn't going to work long-term and she has to decide if you're the right guy for her.
Posted on 7/14/17 at 11:08 pm to nelaZZ
Having dated girls with absent fathers and ones who worshiped their father - the one constant is the woman...bitches be crazy.
Posted on 7/14/17 at 11:22 pm to nelaZZ
You have gotten a lot of good answers to a bunch of different daddy issues, but you really havent given enough info to get an answer to your specific problem.
How is your relationship with her father? Do you live in the same town? What does he do that you dont and what do you do that he doesnt? Those are the biggest questions.
If he spends all his time on family things while you go out with your friends every week than that can be a problem.
Most women base their expectations on a man based on what they grew up watching and will either try to mold you to that or get pissed if you dont change.
Every relationship comes with compromises and changes. Only you can determine if they are reasonable and worth it.
How is your relationship with her father? Do you live in the same town? What does he do that you dont and what do you do that he doesnt? Those are the biggest questions.
If he spends all his time on family things while you go out with your friends every week than that can be a problem.
Most women base their expectations on a man based on what they grew up watching and will either try to mold you to that or get pissed if you dont change.
Every relationship comes with compromises and changes. Only you can determine if they are reasonable and worth it.
Posted on 7/14/17 at 11:26 pm to nelaZZ
How is this a problem? Sounds like she has high standards, probably good ones
Posted on 7/14/17 at 11:35 pm to nelaZZ
I have dated girls on both ends of the spectrum and everything in between.
They are all crazy. They are all capable of making you miserable. The one that worships Dad is a safer bet than the ones that resent and hate their Dad, but you are going to want to avoid both extremes.
They are all crazy. They are all capable of making you miserable. The one that worships Dad is a safer bet than the ones that resent and hate their Dad, but you are going to want to avoid both extremes.
This post was edited on 7/14/17 at 11:36 pm
Posted on 7/14/17 at 11:56 pm to LSUgirl4
For starters: apparently her parents never have disagreements. Atleast not infront of her.
Any good parent should NEVER argue infront of their children, but disagreements and communication to fix said disagreements happen. I explained, her parents probably just had these conversations in private, but they happened.
Any good parent should NEVER argue infront of their children, but disagreements and communication to fix said disagreements happen. I explained, her parents probably just had these conversations in private, but they happened.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:03 am to nelaZZ
Every couple has disagreements whether she believes that or not. She sounds really naive so you better watch out.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:04 am to nelaZZ
Bang her dad. Make her jealous. That'll teach her.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:09 am to nelaZZ
This wouldn't be an issue if you'd just frick her better than he fricked her.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:13 am to Hogwarts
Very naive. From a small town, small private school.
Live in different cities as her father, though he drives here, constantly. For "work", but they live an hour away, and they usually just go eat, change her oil, tire pressure, turn signal fluid, you name it.
Her father is a great guy, don't get me wrong, huge family man. She has a small family and they are very very close. The biggest problem is that I don't live to be around her family, or my family for that matter. This problem is seeking to be a lot more complex than I originally thought.
Edit. I said he, it's sometimes him, sometimes parents, sometimes the pot head high school brother comes.
Live in different cities as her father, though he drives here, constantly. For "work", but they live an hour away, and they usually just go eat, change her oil, tire pressure, turn signal fluid, you name it.
Her father is a great guy, don't get me wrong, huge family man. She has a small family and they are very very close. The biggest problem is that I don't live to be around her family, or my family for that matter. This problem is seeking to be a lot more complex than I originally thought.
Edit. I said he, it's sometimes him, sometimes parents, sometimes the pot head high school brother comes.
This post was edited on 7/15/17 at 12:55 am
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:28 am to nelaZZ
Almost married a girl like this. She was 35 and her father ran her life, like ridiculously so. I didn't realize how bad it was until a few months before the wedding. Luckily for me she couldn't stand not being right under his arse and moved back to Dallas. Get out while you can.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:32 am to nelaZZ
apparently, she sees some of the characteristics of her father in you and that is what gives her comfort in dating you...if he is a great guy, as you say he is, then you picking up a few of his characteristics may not be all bad.
fact of it all is, that if there is a future with her, it will include her family.
fact of it all is, that if there is a future with her, it will include her family.
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:34 am to nelaZZ
Start worshiping....unless...you....know...
Posted on 7/15/17 at 12:44 am to nelaZZ
Sorry you're dating the daughter of an alpha. Better adjust your sights downward.
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