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re: True Confessions of a suburban cheating Mom.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:45 am to shiftworker
Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:45 am to shiftworker
Almost every time I'm around a married couple for a length of time long enough for one of them to let the charade down I'm reminded why I don't want to be married again.
I've learned to enjoy the bachelor life. There's more fun and more sex. All the rest of the "wifely" things can be taken care of by a maid.
Who you then can have sex with.
I've learned to enjoy the bachelor life. There's more fun and more sex. All the rest of the "wifely" things can be taken care of by a maid.
Who you then can have sex with.
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Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:50 am to LSU1NSEC
If you ignore your wife, get complacent, and have a boring sex life then she will and probably should cheat on you (and vice versa) IMO
Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:53 am to Mattwells90
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It's sad dude. Once you remove personal responsibility from society you get stuff like this.
"It's not my fault, things are just so lonely."
No one made this chick spread her legs. She did something selfish and incredibly damaging. Psychologically there isn't much more damaging to a person than a cheating spouse. But by all means she got what she needed so screw her husband.
This. And that is the sad thing about today's society - its the "victim mentality" that people, especially the younger generation, have.
I think that was one of the excuses that one gave my friend - "he was never home; he didn't show support, blah, blah, blah..." She played him (my friend, that is), though. Told him everything he wanted to hear. Funny thing, even after she moved to VA to be with him she called my friend almost nightly. Hell, she would even send him pre-paid cards so he could call her - and, she even got a PO Box (keep in mind that their mail was delivered to the house) so he could send her things. She would send all kinds of stuff to him - t shirts and a whole host of shite, and a ton of pictures. I think it went on several months like that, and when they came down to visit friends, she would sneak over trying to rekindle. Eventually, it died off, but he said she was all like he was the earth and sky. What a ho...
Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:55 am to Poulet
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If you ignore your wife, get complacent, and have a boring sex life then she will and probably should cheat on you (and vice versa) IMO
this is what is wrong with the world today
Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:56 am to CAD703X
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this is what is wrong with the world today
People have been sport fricking for thousands of years.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:56 am to LSU1NSEC
I read (OK,skim) things like this and I love my wife even more.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:58 am to LSU1NSEC
Her husband sounds beta
Posted on 8/25/14 at 10:58 am to N2cars
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I read (OK,skim) things like this and I love my wife even more.
100% agree. good women whose heads aren't full of MTV/oprah/dr phil shite are hard to find..you hold onto them when you do.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:00 am to shiftworker
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You should seriously ask the admins to delete this post. Literally one of the worst posts I have ever seen on this site. Only the Huffpost would consider that worthy of posting. Frickin terrible.
Thanks for replying. Now can you go menstruate on another thread please?
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:05 am to CAD703X
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this is what is wrong with the world today
Why? I don't plan on cheating, but if my wife just "gives up" and becomes some nagging, unmotivated, fat loser then what do you think is going to happen when some cute chick at work starts flirting with me, making me feel funny, cool, smart, good looking, etc...
Luckily, my SO is awesome and this probably won't ever happen.
And the flip side is that if I become some fat douche who is always belittling her then I have no one else to blame but me when she starts blowing her tennis coach!
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Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:07 am to Poulet
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becomes some nagging, unmotivated, fat loser
Then ask her for a divorce. Thats the issue here. If you're unhappy, then end it dont put your dick into every possible crevasse you can.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:09 am to lsuhunt555
I'm not saying that you should cheat, I'm just saying what will happen.
Too many people just give up once they get married and take their partner for granted. Everyone wants to feel good about themselves, and if you stop making your partner feel good then they're going to find someone who will.
Too many people just give up once they get married and take their partner for granted. Everyone wants to feel good about themselves, and if you stop making your partner feel good then they're going to find someone who will.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:12 am to LSU1NSEC
Nah. I'm fine here, but thanks for your concern.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:13 am to lsuhunt555
An upvote for you sir.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:13 am to Poulet
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Luckily, my SO is awesome and this probably won't ever happen.
i fully expect to attend your 50th wedding anniversary.
why did you get married at all if you are planning to cheat on your wife the second things don't work out? have you given her your criteria? how many lbs can she gain before you put her on probation? do you grade each sex session for quality? too many 'boring' sex sessions and you're at asian spa?
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:17 am to fr33manator
Fr33 you got screwed over royally, so I understand why you feel this way. I do believe that there are good faithful women out there. I believe that my wife is one of said women. I really think the best thing we have going for us is our friendship. She's my best friend. That is a constant through all the ebbs and flows of married life.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:19 am to CAD703X
I never said I'm planning on cheating; quite the opposite, in fact.
There's a difference between going through a rut, periods of high stress, etc... It's not like I'm going to put on my basketball shorts and going to strip clubs just because she gained 5lbs or hasn't been feeling well.
But if she just gives up and becomes just a constant source of nagging, sex becomes lifeless and boring, etc..., then I'm just saying what probably would happen.
And vice-versa!
Luckily both of us are very happy with each other and don't stop making the other person feel loved and special. That's not to say that there are no rough patches or that we never fight or anything, just like all marriages. But the point is that marriages take work and we are both willing to do the work.
There's a difference between going through a rut, periods of high stress, etc... It's not like I'm going to put on my basketball shorts and going to strip clubs just because she gained 5lbs or hasn't been feeling well.
But if she just gives up and becomes just a constant source of nagging, sex becomes lifeless and boring, etc..., then I'm just saying what probably would happen.
And vice-versa!
Luckily both of us are very happy with each other and don't stop making the other person feel loved and special. That's not to say that there are no rough patches or that we never fight or anything, just like all marriages. But the point is that marriages take work and we are both willing to do the work.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:33 am to Spaceman Spiff
This is a bit of a goofy example but it's similar to the feelings you have before and after you bust a nut. Before when you're horny, nothing disgusts you and you do almost anything in the bedroom. After you nut sometimes you look at yourself like "how did I possibly think that was hot?"
It's the same thing with women. They get caught up in emotions and cheat and when the sex is over they realize what they've done. However as I posted earlier, personal responsibility is out the window so they must come up with a reason as to why their cheating is not only justified, but in a way deserved. It all comes down to the same thing though. Disloyal people with no commitment engaging in the most committed form of human unity which is marriage. It's a recipe for disaster.
It's the same thing with women. They get caught up in emotions and cheat and when the sex is over they realize what they've done. However as I posted earlier, personal responsibility is out the window so they must come up with a reason as to why their cheating is not only justified, but in a way deserved. It all comes down to the same thing though. Disloyal people with no commitment engaging in the most committed form of human unity which is marriage. It's a recipe for disaster.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:34 am to shiftworker
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Fr33 you got screwed over royally, so I understand why you feel this way.
I learned my lesson the hard way. That's for sure. Almost a year of no sex and I still never cheated. I was tempted for sure, but never did.
Now after I found out about her betrayal and she left, the gloves were off. I had more sex in a year than I'd had in my whole life up to that point. I've settled down a bit now and have a lady friend, but she knows the second she tries to put a cage on me or tie me down or starts being a bitch, I'm gone.
I'm sure there are nice women out there. They usually marry assholes like I was and cheat on them.
My faith in the fidelity of women isn't high. But it doesn't bother me. If they don't like the situation as I lay it out, they can leave. Plenty have. Doesn't bother me. There's always more around the corner, and they make more every day.
IMHO, if a man is tied to one piece of arse, then she rules him.
A man who keeps two in the kitty isn't in need, so he can be who he needs to be.
I can understand the French way of thinking now, how a man needs "a wife, a mistress and a girlfriend."
I don't think monogamy will ever be for me again.
I don't mind having sex with one person as long as it's frequent and good and I enjoy their company.
But if they want to try and tell me that I can't have sex with anyone else!?
Well, I'll be dick deep in some other broad before the door slams.
Posted on 8/25/14 at 11:36 am to fr33manator
There's so much wrong with this idek where to begin.
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