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re: Trashy story.

Posted on 8/3/17 at 12:58 am to
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
21691 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 12:58 am to
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. As the kids grow keep and open line of communication with them. Tell them if mom talks bad about me make sure they ask you the truth about what she said bad about you

Honestly, that is all I am trying right now. They are young and i dont know what will become of this. Just scared for my kids as all i ever wanted was a family an my little piece of the american dream
Posted by PhifeDogg
Member since Mar 2006
6191 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 1:06 am to
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little did i know....heroin. or other opiates.


That's gonna be a wrap for her. She didn't magically kick opiates in the 2 weeks your kids were gone. Time for you to take the kids and leave.
Posted by TitleistProV1X
Member since Nov 2015
3597 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 1:56 am to
Why is her drug problem not a big deal to you? If my wife was a drug addict I would've never started dating her, never got engaged to her, never married her, never knocked her up, oh and never knocked her up again! Seems like you've had countless opportunities not to get stuck down this rabbit hole but here you are. I assume you also do drugs though since you're obviously okay with it. You really need to divorce her and get your life turned around. Be a better example for your young kids.
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
21691 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 1:58 am to
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2 weeks

No. Two months. frick this shite. She got a fricking bypass by going to a fricking methadone clinic. Prescribed and shite. Im about to just say frick it...
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19568 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 2:06 am to
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Everything is great besides her drug problems


literally nothing before this matters. get out, get your kids out, let her get help and stay clean for a year with periodic visits. if she can stay sober on her own, then, and only then should you think about getting back together.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
19898 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 2:18 am to
Sorry for your ordeal, I would recommend you get an attorney. A good one, dont be cheap, these are your kids youre fighting for. I paid 15 grand for my divorce and I walked out with my kids, the house and both cars. Man up! Daddy up! Your kids need stability and you in their lives.

Good luck.
Posted by texashorn
Member since May 2008
13122 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 2:46 am to
So your kids got into her stash and took some heroin, and they were taken away?

What kind of hellhole household do you run?
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144561 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 4:38 am to
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fricking methadone clinic
this =/= kicking an opiate habit and going through any withdrawals

If she is hellbent on having to take something to get her off the dope (honestly not everyone is built the same and some people just have to have some crutch) then get her on suboxone regiment, but make sure it's also paired completely with actual treatment. She is both physically and mentally addicted and to tackle this and get her healthy you needs multifaceted approach.

Being super pissed off and cursing and screaming like you are in this thread isn't going to help anything. You can be a man two ways, do what has to be done helping her, or completely cut ties and help her with tough love. You can't half arse either approach.


Good vibes your way bro
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8730 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 4:46 am to
Prepare thy anus
Posted by RhodeDawg
Delete my account
Member since Jun 2016
4450 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 4:57 am to
I noticed that you stopped doing drugs 7 years ago and you married her 7 years ago.
Did you meet in rehab by any chance? Serious question, in other words, did you know she had drugs in her background?
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29454 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 4:58 am to
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Been clean 7 years
quote:

Ok so I married my wife 7 yrs ago.

Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
49216 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 5:48 am to
Meauxjeaux2 alter?
Posted by Lacour
Member since Nov 2009
32949 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 6:02 am to
And Alabama people try to say the stereotypes about them aren't true
Posted by mauser
Orange Beach
Member since Nov 2008
24932 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 6:07 am to
And I would add that if your marriage is irretrievably going down the tubes and if you want custody of the kids, you better hire a detective. The only way that you will get custody is if you can prove that she is UNFIT to be a mother and the only way you can prove that is by hard evidence. Your stories, even if true, won't cut it. If you can't prove it, the best you will get is the typical every other weekend.
Posted by AFtigerFan
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2008
3554 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 6:39 am to
Heroin? Yes, get out now. Truth be told, she's probably banging her supplier so she can get the drugs without your knowledge. That or she is turning tricks to get them.
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
21691 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 6:45 am to
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e. The only way that you will get custody is if you can prove that she is UNFIT to be a mother

Thats it. Been clean on DHR records..... And thats all that matters. frick this man. Thanks for the good vibes and all. Seems like some have been through it, but without the SO being a fricking druggie. The kids are with me as of now. That is just ending the "safety plan". (Which means someone has to basically have custody). Once again, she pissed dirty not me. She has passed two months of drug tests from DHR. Hair follicle coming after 90 days.
This shite has basically wrecked my life
Posted by Whodat28
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2016
759 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 6:50 am to
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Divorce her and get custody of the kids. They will be better off. You owe them a life free from a dope head mother.


She will still get half your money.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
19898 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 6:57 am to
Not if she's unfit she wont see a dime

Get a good lawyer. Its worth it in long run
Posted by Flashback
reading the chicken bones
Member since Apr 2008
8479 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 7:01 am to
You knew about the dope, you lying frick.
Posted by Perrydawg
Middle Ga Area
Member since Jan 2014
4924 posts
Posted on 8/3/17 at 7:37 am to
sounds like you are in a terrible situation, but if I were you, I would go get myself tested for some STD's because she was getting the drugs without money and dealers don't give them away for free.
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