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re: Tinder/bumble what's your strategy?

Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:20 pm to
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:20 pm to
quote:

By going all in on the nice guy/overinvestment "gentlemen" act in the first 2 dates you are going to either turn her off with your soft/weak frame or you are going to get slotted into the beta provider box for


Christ, you guys are inept. You can be alpha as frick while playing to their emotions.

I see some lonely futures in the lives of many here.
Posted by DirtyDawg
President of the East Cobb Snobs
Member since Aug 2013
15551 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:24 pm to
Make sure you take a shirtless pic on the lake while holding that bass you just caught.

20/10 you'll get your piece wet.
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39965 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:25 pm to
Yea I'm always nice, I've ended up hooking up with 7 girls from tinder, maybe more, so maybe goldennugget is just a weird bird


Ended up dating one for a while and she absolutely was/is wife material by the book
This post was edited on 4/16/17 at 4:27 pm
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:26 pm to
avoid
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:27 pm to
quote:

You can be alpha as frick while playing to their emotions.


You absolutely can, you just need to establish a primal attraction before it will work

It's why one guy can get flowers for a girl and be called romantic, and another guy can get flowers for the same girl and called a creep

It's why women's panties are drowning when they hear Shawn Mendes sing the song "I can treat you better than he can", but if Billy Beta sang the same song to those women they would cringe and be creeped out

Playing on her emotions only works when she is attracted to you, and only in extreme moderation once she is.

Women are different than men. Men will see a woman and will be attracted right away based on how hot she is. Women are different. Women will determine their attraction over a longer period of time. Hence why women "shite test" men, its their way of trying to break the man's frame and test how solid and strong he is mentally and emotionally. It's why women are attracted to qualities like physical strength and muscles, and emotional stability, because that's how women evolved. Because in caveman times women who mated with men who were weak physically, emotionally and mentally had their offspring killed. So if you go all in with the nice guy act and weak soft frame playing to her emotions before she has had a chance to size you up and determine if she is attracted to you or not, she will be turned off and say "I can't breed with this guy"
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:28 pm to
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Yea I'm always nice, I've ended up hooking up with 7 girls from tinder, maybe more, so maybe goldennugget is just a weird bird



You guys act like I literally meet up with this women, call them a bitch off the bat, fart in their face and then shove their nose into my arse and make them smell it for 10 seconds.
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
29609 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:37 pm to
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Ended up dating one for a while and she absolutely was/is wife material by the book

Why did you stop dating?
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39965 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:40 pm to
I moved 4 hours away for a job and I wasn't ready for marriage
Posted by themasterpater
I travel
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Posted on 4/16/17 at 5:16 pm to
What's your advice for becoming attractive/ getting in shape?
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 6:38 pm to
quote:

Yea I'm always nice, I've ended up hooking up with 7 girls from tinder, maybe more, so maybe goldennugget is just a weird bird



He's one event away from slicing his left ear off. He's most definitely strange, and in need of psychiatric help.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 7:03 pm to
Because you're a douchebag and he seems normal.
Posted by dmjones
Acworth, GA
Member since Mar 2016
2303 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 8:30 pm to
My strategy was finding someone in real life and not relying on an app.
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
11082 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 8:58 pm to
Some of the responses remind me of the criminal minds episode where the serial killer took a douche bag's class on picking up women.

Thank God I'm married!
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:03 pm to
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Some of the responses remind me of the criminal minds episode where the serial killer took a douche bag's class on picking up women.


Meh, women do the same thing to guys, everyone manipulates to a certain extent, even married couples. Serial killer? That seems like a bit much.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98925 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:05 pm to
Nugget is definitely a serial killer in training
Posted by sweetwaterbilly
Member since Mar 2017
19648 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:07 pm to
Swipe right on everyone (saves time), then just go through and weed out and unmatch the matches you don't want afterwards.
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
42218 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:07 pm to
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It's why one guy can get flowers for a girl and be called romantic, and another guy can get flowers for the same girl and called a creep

this is entirely based on looks
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:36 pm to
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:37 pm to
quote:


this is entirely based on looks


Exactly.. You can wine and dine a girl and never appear desperate if you're put together. The desperation is what deters women and men alike.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56691 posts
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:39 pm to
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How successful are you?


Fairly. 1 in 5 matches end in a date, 1/2 of those lead to a little bit more.

quote:

How often do you use it?


Every day.

quote:

Is it worth it?


I spend 15 minutes a day on it and I get dates. How is that not worth it? There is literally nothing to lose and a decent bit to gain.

As far as strategy, I just talk to them, grab their number if they're willing, and set up a date. Not that hard.
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