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re: Tinder/bumble what's your strategy?
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:20 pm to goldennugget
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:20 pm to goldennugget
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By going all in on the nice guy/overinvestment "gentlemen" act in the first 2 dates you are going to either turn her off with your soft/weak frame or you are going to get slotted into the beta provider box for
Christ, you guys are inept. You can be alpha as frick while playing to their emotions.
I see some lonely futures in the lives of many here.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:24 pm to themasterpater
Make sure you take a shirtless pic on the lake while holding that bass you just caught.
20/10 you'll get your piece wet.
20/10 you'll get your piece wet.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:25 pm to AUsteriskPride
Yea I'm always nice, I've ended up hooking up with 7 girls from tinder, maybe more, so maybe goldennugget is just a weird bird
Ended up dating one for a while and she absolutely was/is wife material by the book
Ended up dating one for a while and she absolutely was/is wife material by the book
This post was edited on 4/16/17 at 4:27 pm
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:27 pm to AUsteriskPride
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You can be alpha as frick while playing to their emotions.
You absolutely can, you just need to establish a primal attraction before it will work
It's why one guy can get flowers for a girl and be called romantic, and another guy can get flowers for the same girl and called a creep
It's why women's panties are drowning when they hear Shawn Mendes sing the song "I can treat you better than he can", but if Billy Beta sang the same song to those women they would cringe and be creeped out
Playing on her emotions only works when she is attracted to you, and only in extreme moderation once she is.
Women are different than men. Men will see a woman and will be attracted right away based on how hot she is. Women are different. Women will determine their attraction over a longer period of time. Hence why women "shite test" men, its their way of trying to break the man's frame and test how solid and strong he is mentally and emotionally. It's why women are attracted to qualities like physical strength and muscles, and emotional stability, because that's how women evolved. Because in caveman times women who mated with men who were weak physically, emotionally and mentally had their offspring killed. So if you go all in with the nice guy act and weak soft frame playing to her emotions before she has had a chance to size you up and determine if she is attracted to you or not, she will be turned off and say "I can't breed with this guy"
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:28 pm to Riseupfromtherubble
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Yea I'm always nice, I've ended up hooking up with 7 girls from tinder, maybe more, so maybe goldennugget is just a weird bird
You guys act like I literally meet up with this women, call them a bitch off the bat, fart in their face and then shove their nose into my arse and make them smell it for 10 seconds.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:37 pm to Riseupfromtherubble
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Ended up dating one for a while and she absolutely was/is wife material by the book
Why did you stop dating?
Posted on 4/16/17 at 4:40 pm to cwil177
I moved 4 hours away for a job and I wasn't ready for marriage
Posted on 4/16/17 at 5:16 pm to goldennugget
What's your advice for becoming attractive/ getting in shape?
Posted on 4/16/17 at 6:38 pm to Riseupfromtherubble
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Yea I'm always nice, I've ended up hooking up with 7 girls from tinder, maybe more, so maybe goldennugget is just a weird bird
He's one event away from slicing his left ear off. He's most definitely strange, and in need of psychiatric help.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 7:03 pm to goldennugget
Because you're a douchebag and he seems normal.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 8:30 pm to themasterpater
My strategy was finding someone in real life and not relying on an app.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 8:58 pm to themasterpater
Some of the responses remind me of the criminal minds episode where the serial killer took a douche bag's class on picking up women.
Thank God I'm married!
Thank God I'm married!
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:03 pm to Beessnax
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Some of the responses remind me of the criminal minds episode where the serial killer took a douche bag's class on picking up women.
Meh, women do the same thing to guys, everyone manipulates to a certain extent, even married couples. Serial killer? That seems like a bit much.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:05 pm to AUsteriskPride
Nugget is definitely a serial killer in training
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:07 pm to themasterpater
Swipe right on everyone (saves time), then just go through and weed out and unmatch the matches you don't want afterwards.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:07 pm to goldennugget
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It's why one guy can get flowers for a girl and be called romantic, and another guy can get flowers for the same girl and called a creep
this is entirely based on looks
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:37 pm to Brosef Stalin
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this is entirely based on looks
Exactly.. You can wine and dine a girl and never appear desperate if you're put together. The desperation is what deters women and men alike.
Posted on 4/16/17 at 9:39 pm to themasterpater
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How successful are you?
Fairly. 1 in 5 matches end in a date, 1/2 of those lead to a little bit more.
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How often do you use it?
Every day.
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Is it worth it?
I spend 15 minutes a day on it and I get dates. How is that not worth it? There is literally nothing to lose and a decent bit to gain.
As far as strategy, I just talk to them, grab their number if they're willing, and set up a date. Not that hard.
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