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re: This is what schools face in dealing with violent kids.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:05 am to bird35
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:05 am to bird35
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Message Posted by I teach in a high school and the OP is correct it is almost impossible to expell a special ed. Student. For extreme cases we let the police handle it. The student hits, kicks, bites, ect... and we call the police and press charges.
The police will take the child to jail and the parent can pick them up from there.
When the parent sees the child will get arrested with every violent occurrence they homeschool the student.
We only do this for extreme cases not every time a incident occurs. We have done it twice in the last 10 years. Worked perfectly.
Again, a slippery slope. While your school may only do what you have to do to "force" violent kids out, other use similar tactics to force out kids they find undesirable or a liability. Happened to us this year, and my kid has never been a discipline problem at school or anywhere else. His condition is just very complicated and difficult to manage. They've been trying to get him out the door since day 1. While I think violent kids should be schooled differently, it scares me when they are removed or otherwise forced out. I think the problem lies with the classification system. 504 should be what it is. But IEP should not encompass disabled children and violent children. Violent kids should get their own classification and their own classrooms/schools that actually enforce rules.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:12 am to drunkenpunkin
Give the kid straight As in all required classes to graduate....
Ta-daa!
Kids graduates (no mater what age) and is gone!
#boom

Ta-daa!
Kids graduates (no mater what age) and is gone!
#boom
This post was edited on 5/16/14 at 7:13 am
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:30 am to heypaul
I think that happens. Maybe not for violent kids, but for others. My son told me he didn't want to sit next to a certain girl in school. She just moved here and speaks no English at all, yet is somehow in his regular classes. He said he doesn't like sitting next to her because another girl tells her all the answers and it is distracting. I think they'll just pass this kid on without ever teaching her much.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:36 am to prplhze2000
Question for the OT attorneys :
Can a parent of a bullied kid put a restraining order on the lil bastard to force separation?
I'll hang up and listen.
Can a parent of a bullied kid put a restraining order on the lil bastard to force separation?
I'll hang up and listen.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:46 am to LSUGrrrl
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Dealing with this right now with a child in my son's class. The classroom has been evacuated and the door held closed with the child inside until someone could get there to help. It's.not the first time this year the other children had to evacuate the 1Sr grade classroom this year. He's thrown a chair at a substitute, held a classmate against the fence while kicking him,attempted to stab a lunch lady with his lunch utinsil, screams & jumps on bus seats every commute, stolen more than we will ever put together, forced classmates to buy him seconds at lunch, regularly trips random people in the hallway... I can go on. He has only been suspended 1 day this year.
No worries, though. His mother is treating his behavior by removing gluten & additives from his diet - the food endowment steal from others
Someone needs to whip that little POS arse. If a bigger kid would break these little frickers jaws and make them sip broth through a straw for two months, maybe theyll learn
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:48 am to StraightCashHomey21
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rap music back 10 years ago was much more violent and vulgar than it is now. Kids now days are growing up in the electronic music culture.
Have you considered that the little shits in school now are being raised by the assholes who listened to rap from 10 years ago?
Lulz
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:51 am to xTHUNDERBOLTx
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Sorry but I totally disagree with this. I teach middle school and the kids I teach listen primarily to rap. They are seriously influenced by the anti-authority, just out to have a good time, thug life mentality
Rap now is not even close to as bad as it was in the 90's and early 2000's
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:52 am to LT
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Have you considered that the little shits in school now are being raised by the assholes who listened to rap from 10 years ago?
Lulz
The majority of people in HS in the mid 90's to 2000's already have HS aged kids well frick
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:52 am to Beauregard96
The federal government continues to try and step in and tell everyone how to run their schools based on "research". Both in discipline and how students are taught. I am one that is against Common Core, mainly b/c it takes away even more classroom control from the teachers. Not every student learns the same, and not every student needs to be disciplined the same. Here are some quotes from Eric Holder and Arne Duncan on how they think schools should handle discipline. It's pretty clear what they are saying, the same old story of minorities having it so bad and that it's the schools fault. They don't want to call out the parents, b/c they need their votes, so they instead come down on the schools and teachers. They are empowering the people that are the problem by saying "Hey, you just keep doing what you are doing at home and we will make the schools cater to you. Oh, and don't forget to vote."
BALTIMORE — Bringing new attention to harsh punishments in schools, federal officials Wednesday urged educators across the country to move away from practices that suspend students for minor infractions and disproportionately affect minorities.
“The need to rethink and redesign school discipline practices is frankly long overdue,” said Education Secretary Arne Duncan, speaking in Baltimore alongside Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. as the two leaders unveiled what were described as the first national guidelines on school discipline.
Duncan told the crowd that racial discrimination in school discipline is “a real problem today — it’s not just an issue from 30 or 40 or 50 years ago.” He said the Obama administration is the first to provide national guidance on the issue.
The toll of tough discipline is clear, the federal leaders said: Secondary schools suspend or expel 2 million students each year. “That’s a staggering amount of lost learning time and lost opportunity to provide more meaningful support,” Duncan said.
Duncan said that students should be removed from classrooms “as a last resort,” and only for serious infractions such as endangering the safety of other students or teachers.
Their effort followed a landmark 2011 study of nearly 1 million Texas students that associated suspensions with academic failure, dropping out and involvement in the juvenile justice system
The administration will propose $50 million in grants to more than 1,000 schools to train teachers and staff in research-based strategies aimed at improving student behavior and school climate, officials said.
According to comprehensive Education Department data on the 2009-10 school year, Virginia suspended 7.9 percent of its students and Maryland 6.9 percent. Duncan noted Wednesday that South Carolina suspended 12.7 percent of its students — at the high end of the spectrum — while North Dakota suspended just 2.2 percent.
“That huge disparity is not caused by differences in children,” he said. “It is caused by differences in training, professional development and discipline policies.”
How many minorities live in North Dakota vs South Carolina? Do these people actually believe that the disparity in suspensions is due to training??? They don't want them suspended b/c that is "lost learning time". So their answer is to keep them in class and have 25 students suffer lost learning time while the teacher continues to deal with the kid throwing books at people. We have to stop giving people(ALL people) so many freebies. You don't want to work, here's a check. You had your 10th kid, here's a check. Your kid is mentally unstable(according the doctor getting kickbacks), here's a check. You don't discipline your kid and thus he/she is a disruption at school, no worries, we are going to force the school to keep them so that it doesn't interrupt your daily nap. Now, start TAKING checks away each month b/c a child is acting up in school or not showing up with homework. Then see how fast momma smacks junior upside his head and tells him to get is act together.
BALTIMORE — Bringing new attention to harsh punishments in schools, federal officials Wednesday urged educators across the country to move away from practices that suspend students for minor infractions and disproportionately affect minorities.
“The need to rethink and redesign school discipline practices is frankly long overdue,” said Education Secretary Arne Duncan, speaking in Baltimore alongside Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. as the two leaders unveiled what were described as the first national guidelines on school discipline.
Duncan told the crowd that racial discrimination in school discipline is “a real problem today — it’s not just an issue from 30 or 40 or 50 years ago.” He said the Obama administration is the first to provide national guidance on the issue.
The toll of tough discipline is clear, the federal leaders said: Secondary schools suspend or expel 2 million students each year. “That’s a staggering amount of lost learning time and lost opportunity to provide more meaningful support,” Duncan said.
Duncan said that students should be removed from classrooms “as a last resort,” and only for serious infractions such as endangering the safety of other students or teachers.
Their effort followed a landmark 2011 study of nearly 1 million Texas students that associated suspensions with academic failure, dropping out and involvement in the juvenile justice system
The administration will propose $50 million in grants to more than 1,000 schools to train teachers and staff in research-based strategies aimed at improving student behavior and school climate, officials said.
According to comprehensive Education Department data on the 2009-10 school year, Virginia suspended 7.9 percent of its students and Maryland 6.9 percent. Duncan noted Wednesday that South Carolina suspended 12.7 percent of its students — at the high end of the spectrum — while North Dakota suspended just 2.2 percent.
“That huge disparity is not caused by differences in children,” he said. “It is caused by differences in training, professional development and discipline policies.”
How many minorities live in North Dakota vs South Carolina? Do these people actually believe that the disparity in suspensions is due to training??? They don't want them suspended b/c that is "lost learning time". So their answer is to keep them in class and have 25 students suffer lost learning time while the teacher continues to deal with the kid throwing books at people. We have to stop giving people(ALL people) so many freebies. You don't want to work, here's a check. You had your 10th kid, here's a check. Your kid is mentally unstable(according the doctor getting kickbacks), here's a check. You don't discipline your kid and thus he/she is a disruption at school, no worries, we are going to force the school to keep them so that it doesn't interrupt your daily nap. Now, start TAKING checks away each month b/c a child is acting up in school or not showing up with homework. Then see how fast momma smacks junior upside his head and tells him to get is act together.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:57 am to StraightCashHomey21
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The majority of people in HS in the mid 90's to 2000's already have HS aged kids well frick
Not the majority of all high school aged kids. The majority of the parents from the video.
You don't think there are bunches of 32 year old grandmothers out there?
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:58 am to LT
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You don't think there are bunches of 32 year old grandmothers out there?
A very small % but we already know for hoodrats and white trash thats an endless cycle.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 7:59 am to prplhze2000
And this is just the beginning. Imagine the rest of his life when he almost certainly rapes and/or kills someone. Think of the courts, the judges, the security guards, and the fact that he's going to be in maximum security prison for the rest of his life. Better just take the kid out of his misery now, as well as sterilize any remaining members of his family.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 8:02 am to TigersforEver
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I don't have the answer though, I mean you have to balance compassion and the safety of the rest of the school.
I do. You don't allow mentally unstable kids who threaten to murder others attend school. Granted I was in private school, but this really mentally unstable kid who I'd be shocked if he didn't murder someone someday threatened to kill one of his classmates with a screwdriver and was expelled for it. That's how you deal with it.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 8:09 am to JJ27
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Link shows the problem but most will miss it. Parents fricking suck. Absolute shite parenting that carries over to their shitty kids. Girl stabs a boy twice, mom blames boy for aggravating her. Seriously?
Yep. People blame the schools for shitty kids and the fact that we need to dump more money into education. The kid being educated in school isn't the problem. The problem is these kids have super shitty parents whose lives are chaotic and they now have an outlet in school to vent out their frustration at life, and thus all the other kids are fricked. When I'm in charge the first thing I do is find all these fricked up kids, do background checks on their families, and then forced sterilization all around when they don't meet the criteria for even a halfway passable human being. Watch the classrooms get safer, watch the quality of education rise, and watch crime rates plummet over a single generation.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 8:16 am to Sir Drinksalot
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There are a million reasons why the schools are failing us but the big reason is we are failing our kids. THE KID SHOULD NEVER BE THE BOSS. So many parents bending to the child's demands. I see it from the lunch that is packed to the test scores to the attitudes of BOTH parents and children.
I don't think this is the problem with the kids we're talking about. Most of these kids have a cider jug for a mom and a wolverine for a dad (if he's present at all), to where the kid is typically beaten, ignored, and treated in all sorts of deplorable ways. Sure the coddled kids can turn into Eric Cartman's, but these kids typically aren't the violent types that ruin schools.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 8:17 am to prplhze2000
frick this kid's parents.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 8:19 am to OMLandshark
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The problem is these kids have super shitty parents whose lives are chaotic and they now have an outlet in school to vent out their frustration at life,
Parents. Parents. Parents.
These fricked up kids are absolutely the product of their parents. I honestly think that kid's parents should have to start being held responsible for their kid's actions in school and their schoolwork.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 8:23 am to LSUGrrrl
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Dealing with this right now with a child in my son's class. The classroom has been evacuated and the door held closed with the child inside until someone could get there to help. It's.not the first time this year the other children had to evacuate the 1Sr grade classroom this year. He's thrown a chair at a substitute, held a classmate against the fence while kicking him,attempted to stab a lunch lady with his lunch utinsil, screams & jumps on bus seats every commute, stolen more than we will ever put together, forced classmates to buy him seconds at lunch, regularly trips random people in the hallway... I can go on. He has only been suspended 1 day this year
But yet there's kids out there getting suspended for doing nothing more than pretending their finger is a gun.
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No worries, though. His mother is treating his behavior by removing gluten & additives from his diet - the food endowment steal from others.
Sadly that passes for parenting nowadays.
Posted on 5/16/14 at 8:26 am to Darth_Vader
I have a child who can't sit still. I took him off gluten for a month. It was expensive as he'll and his conduct grades got considerably worse 
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