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re: Spin-off: are you still friends with your ex(es)?

Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:27 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
296260 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:27 pm to
Yep, good terms with all of my ex S/O's.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46098 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:29 pm to
Not necessarily friends but I also don't harbor any ill will. If I saw one out, I'd say hello, but I'm not going out of my way to run into them.
Posted by ItalianTiger
BR
Member since Feb 2005
779 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:49 pm to
We both work at the same hospital but different departments. We just had supper together and walked around the hospital. No problem. Thank goodness!
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82723 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:54 pm to
Do I hate them? No. Not at all.

But no, I am not friends with them either. Every situation is different, and I'm sure there are plenty of people who have platonic friendships with their exes, but it would be inappropriate for me since I have a SO.

Plus, I don't care to know my ex's dating life.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82723 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:21 pm to
quote:

i don't make enemies


Jones was just making fun of me today for this. Girl I know despises me, and I'm always nice to her regardless. He doesn't understand why I don't just tell her to frick off. But that's just not something I can do. I hate when someone doesn't like me, so I'm just as nice as possible to them.

Generally, people get super guilt-stricken when you're not mean in return.

This chick apologizes every single time she's awful to me. She will throw in "I still don't like you" with her apology, but she always feels guilty when she's mean and I'm not mean back.
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
66433 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:25 pm to
Only one. But we didn't date long. We're better as friends.

Now the others can frick off.
Posted by SuzukiGoat
Atchafalaya Basin
Member since Jan 2014
1086 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:35 pm to
My penis tends to find its way into women Im friends with, which says a lot for my unconscious game because Im no ryan gosling...soon as I found a real relationship...I cut ties with any female I have ever been friends with. First relationship Ive ever been 100% faithful while in, it'll be the last one thankfully.
Posted by CrimsonFanSince94
Hell itself
Member since Mar 2012
1720 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:36 pm to
Hell no .. Frick that bitch
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:36 pm to
nope

they wont even speak to me

i was at a bar a few weeks ago and one walked in the door....she wasnt in there 10 seconds and she saw me and immediately left
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
31774 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:41 pm to
One I crushed so much she hated me for most of the rest of college.

She relented, realized I was right to call it off when I did and FB'd me a few years later.

My HS ex and I got along well the day after the break up and have ever since. My wife met her down the road and liked her a lot.

I knew my wife's ex BF before I met her and I love that guy.

He currently is a stay at home husband to an ONGYN Dr wife.
This post was edited on 4/7/14 at 7:42 pm
Posted by 03geauxtigers
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2009
136 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:18 pm to
That seems to be the trend for me too. The less serious it was/shorter relationship, the more likely I am to be friends with them.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:24 pm to
quote:

He currently is a stay at home husband to an ONGYN Dr wife.



livin' the life
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
31774 posts
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:31 pm to
He really is. Hilarious dude but flat out unmotivated slacker. It works perfect because his wife (a friend from college as well) doesn't really want a relationship that requires a lot of work. And he doesn't work.

He posts pictures of dates at dog parks during the work day.
Posted by Tigerntx
NOLA
Member since Jul 2011
1309 posts
Posted on 4/8/14 at 8:32 pm to
Displaced - NO bitterness - if I still have a relationship with all 3, how can their be?

Comment was about so many of the failed relationships that we read here. Give me a break.

Now let me give you something to contemplate. It may sound like an oxymoron, but when I take a look back, I have had three good marriages. We all had a good run together, just grew personally & professionally in different directions that it got to the point that it was best for all to move on. Their was no anger at the end, share great deal of affection, and continue to share our journey together.

Reached the point in this life that I can see the finish line, just can't judge the distance. Been a great run.
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