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re: South Carolina with new rule to shut up parents at soccer games

Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:01 pm to
Posted by hg
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Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:01 pm to
How is there enough officiating in little league soccer to where parents get upset?
Posted by LakeViewLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:02 pm to
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They shouldn't let their kids play soccer in the first place.


If your kids dont play soccer when they are 5-6, you are a Commie.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:07 pm to
There's no real way to de-escalate the situation, except just make them go sit in the car. Warning them just makes it worse.

I think there should be some sort of time out for kids who foul outside of normal contact. Say 5 minutes, sub the player...no card. Just to defuse what's going on. The card system is so rarely used there's no real way to refocus the kids...go take a break so your damn parent can calm down and the parents of the kid you hurt feel like something was done.
Posted by pvilleguru
Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:10 pm to
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There's no real way to de-escalate the situation, except just make them go sit in the car. Warning them just makes it worse.
You can ban the parent for a period of time. 2 weeks, a month, or a season. Whatever seems best.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:10 pm to

Reading this final America Shark Jump makes me want to punch Lee Greenwood in the fricking throat.
Posted by pvilleguru
Member since Jun 2009
60453 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:11 pm to
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I think there should be some sort of time out for kids who foul outside of normal contact. Say 5 minutes, sub the player...no card. Just to defuse what's going on. The card system is so rarely used there's no real way to refocus the kids...go take a break so your damn parent can calm down and the parents of the kid you hurt feel like something was done.
It's rare that something like that ever really needs to be done. Especially in rec league youth games.

You don't punish the kid because their parent can't control their emotions.
This post was edited on 7/6/17 at 10:14 pm
Posted by G Vice
Lafayette, LA
Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:15 pm to
This is part of the draw to lacrosse. Zero tolerance for douchebag parent bullshite. ZERO.

Anyone can be ejected at anytime, and everyone plays by those rules.
Posted by pvilleguru
Member since Jun 2009
60453 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:19 pm to
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Anyone can be ejected at anytime, and everyone plays by those rules.
You can do this in soccer, too. However, you often have kids in high school or college as the refs and are easily intimidated by the parents/coaches and aren't comfortable ejecting adults.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:20 pm to
We haven't played rec in a while, but I don't remember parents ever being an issue. I live in a small town and it was hardly competitive.

Holy crap though, club soccer gets intense. The better the team, the better the parents. Still though, you hope to play a team with skilled defenders or it gets bad.

My boy is playing U12 this upcoming 'season' (fall) so I hope it's even better. The quality of our tournaments should be better.
Posted by pvilleguru
Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:20 pm to
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How is there enough officiating in little league soccer to where parents get upset?
It doesn't take much for some parents to lose their shite.
Posted by pvilleguru
Member since Jun 2009
60453 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:22 pm to
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We haven't played rec in a while, but I don't remember parents ever being an issue.
I assign the refs for our local youth and adult rec league. We've had a ton of issues with parents and coaches. Mostly in the U10-12 leagues.
Posted by pvilleguru
Member since Jun 2009
60453 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:25 pm to
The league will support us when we relay the issues that we see, but they rarely have reps watching the games so that they can cut it out before it really gets going. We often have 16 year old refs out there by themselves with no support.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:25 pm to
We play a Chivas team this weekend and I love how animated the Mexican parents are. Every dad's a coach. Those kids usually play tough as nails, but pretty straight up. They play the ball and would rather beat you at your best.

The shite teams try to take out players. That's some bs. I've actually heard parents justify a hurt player by saying 'well it was their best kid'.
This post was edited on 7/6/17 at 10:28 pm
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
41677 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:26 pm to
5 year old boys baseball, league semifinals last night, 4 dads (2 from each team) got into a fistfight in the stands.

Same game, a HC and an assistant coach from the same team were ejected for cussing out the umpires.

5 year olds. Rec ball.
Posted by BayouBengals18
Fort Worth
Member since Jan 2009
9843 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:29 pm to
You going to send your son to the coast's dynasty, Stanislaus?
Posted by G Vice
Lafayette, LA
Member since Dec 2006
13179 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:30 pm to
Understand that. We played soccer way back in the day (2009-2010). Saw lots of young refs.

Lacrosse refs are adults though. And that changes the dynamic quite a bit.

ETA: must be a baseball d-bag who downvoted me. the flatbill giving him full view of his computer monitor
This post was edited on 7/6/17 at 10:36 pm
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:35 pm to
Yea, he's going there. Probably run track and play soccer...but we go up to the field and placekick there too. No one supports young kickers so we'll have to just see what happens when he gets there for Jr high.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
41677 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:35 pm to
When I was in college I did a lot of officiating to make beer and car money. One night I had to go call games at a park that did something interesting. They put up a 4 foot tall home run fence, drug all the bleachers behind the fence, and got black tarps and covered the entire backstop, backs of the dugouts, and foul line fence down to about 50 feet past the bases with said tarps. So esentially you could not stand behind the backstop or dugouts and see anything.

By far the easiest two games I worked that entire season. I didn't hear a peep from the fans.
Posted by Tigerbait357
Member since Jun 2011
71185 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:39 pm to
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They shouldn't let their kids play soccer in the first place.



I still don't understand what people have against soccer, its not a horrible sport at all.

Its extremely exciting to watch, well if you watch any games in Europe. USA is still lagging behind in the mens side unfortunately, but at the highest level its fun. No there aren't 50 points being scored but games are usually always close and there are a lot of moments in the game where one gets extremely close to scoring but don't.

This post was edited on 7/6/17 at 11:45 pm
Posted by pvilleguru
Member since Jun 2009
60453 posts
Posted on 7/6/17 at 10:40 pm to
As bad as the parents can be for youth games, I referee high school soccer and those parents are exponentially worse
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