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re: So the time has come. A young man is coming over to take my daughter out.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:12 pm to Darth_Vader
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:12 pm to Darth_Vader
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Part of being a parent is actually controlling your child
You’re missing my point. And controlling isn’t going to make them do the right thing. What makes a child do the right thing is parroting what they see at home and how you treat your SO. It’s teaching that as a person she or he has worth and something as intimate as sex isn’t something you should share with just anyone.
I know this isn’t the most popular thing to say but self worth isn’t something instinctive, it’s learned.
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Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:12 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
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guess if you spent the first 15 years being a shitty parent and not instilling values and charecter in your kids.
Wrong you ignorant frick. I spent the first 15 years instilling in them values and character that made it perfectly normal and acceptable to them to know that at the age of 15 they still obey and respect their parents. It’s called parenting and not just being their friend.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:12 pm to t00f
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I just said I am not letting a 15 year old date an 18 year old
Which is stupid when using as a hard and fast rule. Not all kids are created equal. Maybe your 15 year old is too immature and you didn't instill the proper charecter in her, but that isn't true of all kids that age.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:12 pm to Bedhog
15 year old daughter and 18 year old boy.... negative my friend. He may come spend time with her at my house where i can see them but she aint leaving with him.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:13 pm to Tester1216
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You’re missing my point. And controlling isn’t going to make them do the right thing. What makes a child do the right thing is parroting what they see at home and how you treat your SO. It’s teaching that as a person she or he has worth and something as intimate as sex isn’t something you should share with just anyone.
I know this isn’t the most popular thing to say but self worth isn’t something instinctive, it’s learned.
And you also instill in them enough sense to know they’re not going to date an 18 year old when they’re 15.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:14 pm to Darth_Vader
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Wrong you ignorant frick.
Chill out. Go look at foot porn or something, weirdo.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:14 pm to Darth_Vader
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I spent the first 15 years instilling in them values and character that made it perfectly normal and acceptable to them to know that at the age of 15 they still obey and respect their parents
None of that has anything to do with the 18 year old also in high school boy other than your simpleton binary logic.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:14 pm to Bedhog
OP is bending to the will of a 15 year old girl.
I think I know why his wife left.
I think I know why his wife left.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:14 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
Yea, nice selective quoting.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:15 pm to Bedhog
Is this some dude from her school or some random bum
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:15 pm to t00f
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I just said I am not letting a 15 year old date an 18 year old, The rest if this nonsense is conjecture as there are too many variables.
I get it but I think I’d feel much better about the situation regardless of this or anything else if I knew my child was taught better and was wise enough to realize this isn’t a good thing and tell the guy to FO.
This post was edited on 6/22/19 at 7:17 pm
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:15 pm to ThatMakesSense
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ThatMakesSense
Funny you want me to chill out but didn’t seem to have the same thoughts when he was insulting me.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:15 pm to Relham10
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15 year old daughter and 18 year old boy.... negative my friend. He may come spend time with her at my house where i can see them but she aint leaving with him.
In a real world this would be my hope.
But it isnt unfortunately for us. Her mother and I dont get along at all and she would use this to play each other to get her way.
This post was edited on 6/22/19 at 7:16 pm
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:15 pm to Bedhog
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Told her I was not at all good with her having interest in an 18 year old and had an even bigger issue him having interest in her.
How did she react?
This post was edited on 6/22/19 at 7:16 pm
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:16 pm to Bedhog
Would you like me to offer the services of one of my elite security teams to oversee the intentions of this young hound?
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:16 pm to Bedhog
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In a real world this would be my hope.
But it isnt unfortunately for us. Her mother and I dont get along at all and she would use this to play each other to get her way.
It sounds like everyone involved is trashy so it really doesn't matter what you do.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:16 pm to Darth_Vader
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And you also instill in them enough sense to know they’re not going to date an 18 year old when they’re 15.
I agree, if you have done your job as a decent parent this would likely be a non issue.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:16 pm to Tester1216
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I agree, if you have done your job as a decent parent this would likely be a non issue.
Because, clearly, every 18 year old and 15 year old are the exact same.
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:17 pm to Bedhog
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In a real world this would be my hope.
But it isnt unfortunately for us. Her mother and I dont get along at all and she would use this to play each other to get her way.
So which one of you cheated? Does your daughter know why you got divorced?
Posted on 6/22/19 at 7:17 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
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None of that has anything to do with the 18 year old also in high school boy other than your simpleton binary logic.
Again, you’re showing your ignorance. At 15 your daughter should know (because you’ve taught them) that they’re not ready to date an 18 year old guy.
Hopefully you’re taking notes so you’ll remember this when you grow up and have kids.
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