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re: Should I Propose?

Posted on 12/29/21 at 11:09 pm to
Posted by wartiger2004
Proud LGB Supporter! JESUS IS LORD,
Member since Aug 2011
19044 posts
Posted on 12/29/21 at 11:09 pm to
With all due respect DON’T FRICKING DO IT. LIVE YOUR LIFE AND DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT DO IT. That is all.
Posted by sportsaddit68
Hammond
Member since Sep 2008
6265 posts
Posted on 12/29/21 at 11:22 pm to
quote:

We’re the same age (24) and we pray together, go to church, enjoy each other’s family, and love each other.



Saying this about prayer and church time and then follow it up about no issues in the blowjob department makes me think prayer and church isnt being taken as seriously.

Or maybe it's cause I'm married and jealous.
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
33847 posts
Posted on 12/29/21 at 11:31 pm to
quote:

Saying this about prayer and church time and then follow it up about no issues in the blowjob department makes me think prayer and church isnt being taken as seriously.


Or he's lying about one or the other. I would guess that by "no issues in that department" he meant that he's never gotten any from her so it's not something to worry about losing.
Posted by SmelvinRat
Slumwoody
Member since Oct 2015
1727 posts
Posted on 12/29/21 at 11:44 pm to
Posted by JustLivinTheDream
Member since Jan 2017
3535 posts
Posted on 12/29/21 at 11:47 pm to
quote:

We’re the same age (24) and we pray together, go to church, enjoy each other’s family, and love each other.


Go for it. It's worth the risk if she's not a trashy bitch, and it sounds like you've got yourself a good one.
Posted by Big Jim Slade
Member since Oct 2016
5908 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 1:15 am to
Proposing, sure, a good idea if she’s the one. It is the law school option that should give you pause. Law is a cruel mistress that has ruined many marriages.
Posted by Noggin
In the mountains.
Member since Sep 2019
141 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 1:20 am to
No way
Posted by Barstools
Atlanta
Member since Jan 2016
10389 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 2:02 am to
quote:

We have no issues in that department


That's the point, dingus.
Posted by WinnaSez
Jackson, MS
Member since Mar 2019
1234 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 2:20 am to
Please tell me you don’t teach English or Composition.
Posted by TideSaint
Hill Country
Member since Sep 2008
79442 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 2:24 am to
quote:

BayouBengal21


Get your finances in order and then re-assess.

You can ask her to move with you but separate every bill.

Ask the question when you feel ready. You'll know when it's time if it is meant to be.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
18539 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 2:58 am to
Absolutely not.

Get your feet wet once you finish law school and see where life takes you. Don’t screw yourself with some chick that is waiting to be a stay at home
Posted by DJ3K
Member since Dec 2011
7034 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 4:38 am to
No. Go to law school and bang lots of slutty law school women
Posted by Nguyener
Kame House
Member since Mar 2013
21057 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 4:44 am to
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I’m currently waiting for my acceptance letters into law school (and I most likely will go out of state)
quote:

we’ve been together for about 9 months

Oh boy.

How long did you know each other before you started dating? That’s an important question.

WhAt does she do and what are her future plans?

What do her parents do and are you ok marrying her mom? Because she will eventually turn into that.

And what’s her opinion on not seeing you for the next 2 years? Because if you go to law school out of state you’ll be married to that all of 1L year and most of 2L year.
This post was edited on 12/30/21 at 4:59 am
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
8662 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 4:51 am to
Is her dad wealthy? If not, it’s too soon. Focus on law school, obviously, she can move with you if that’s what she chooses
Posted by ThatTahoeOverThere
Member since Nov 2021
4178 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 4:54 am to
No hot senior girls available?
Posted by Tarps99
Lafourche Parish
Member since Apr 2017
9762 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 5:33 am to
quote:

Is her dad wealthy? If not, it’s too soon.


You can also add in the same vein, is her dad a lawyer or involved in law in some way. You can get married and take her last name so that way it looks appealing to the law school teachers and future bar associates. Look we have another blue blood coming up in the ranks.

Also you can lean on the father in law for a good job after law school. That way you can get to partner faster at the firm. If women can sleep their way to top, why can’t a man.
This post was edited on 12/30/21 at 5:38 am
Posted by Topisawtiger
Mississippi
Member since Oct 2012
3651 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 5:54 am to
My wife and I were 22 and 19, both in college when we got married. We also dated for 9 months. That was soon to be 40 years ago. It was tough, financially but we knew that going in, we just didn't want to be apart and got married. My mom told me if you wait until you can afford to get married or to have children, you never will. Point is, if you love each other, talk seriously about it with her and do what you and her think is right. In any case good luck and God Bless.
Posted by Emteein
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
3956 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 6:29 am to
9 months, id wait. You probably havent been in a real uncomfortable situation with her yet. What I mean is you haven't seen how she reacts when she's out of her comfort zone. It's the best advice I can give, see how she reacts to being uncomfortable, if it's not too much to deal with then go all in sport. But if her reaction is worse than the situation, get the frick out of there as quickly as possible. Marriage is supposed to be forever, and there will be a lot of uncomfortable situations, especially if you plan on having kids. So you've got to plan, do you really want to go the long haul with someone who's going to constantly, be making situations worse.

Posted by Hightide12
Member since Nov 2012
2730 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 6:30 am to
24 is generally too young. You barely know yourself.
Posted by MintBerry Crunch
Member since Nov 2010
5468 posts
Posted on 12/30/21 at 6:32 am to
Yes
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