Started By
Message

re: Should I be ashamed?

Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:21 pm to
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33223 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:21 pm to
His last post about her saying "well, we'll see how it goes" makes me feel bad for the guy. He was invested in the relationship and she wasn't. Time for the OP to find someone better suited for him.
Posted by chalupa
Member since Jan 2011
6887 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:22 pm to
quote:

Read the texts and post them here so we can help you in the future.


Don't leave us in the dark. Post them.
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:22 pm to
quote:

His last post about her saying "well, we'll see how it goes" makes me feel bad for the guy. He was invested in the relationship and she wasn't. Time for the OP to find someone better suited for him.


Yeah, it's tough. Can't win them all. Life moves on.
Posted by N2cars
Close by
Member since Feb 2008
37867 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:23 pm to
Well, he was able to get out before he got real jammed up.

Thread title should be: How lucky did I get?
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33223 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:26 pm to
quote:


Thread title should be: How lucky did I get?


Vette, this is absolutely correct. He dodged a bullet.

Since they run in the same circle of friends, I'll bet that the OP lands on his feet and she may end up with a regret. Then again, I don't know them.
Posted by NoSaint
Member since Jun 2011
12432 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:26 pm to
I like that the OP was all "I liked her and was invested in things but didnt want to scare her away or be overbearing" and a good percentage of replies acted like he was trying to sleep around on her by not having the talk.
Posted by StrangeBrew
Salvation Army-Thanks Obama
Member since May 2009
18318 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:27 pm to
quote:

we were never officially exclusive -


But you were? If you wanted to be exclusive you should have told her!
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 8:31 pm
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:28 pm to
quote:

His last post about her saying "well, we'll see how it goes" makes me feel bad for the guy. He was invested in the relationship and she wasn't. Time for the OP to find someone better suited for him.



Yeah, me too.

That being said, if you're 3 months in and she said that (with no weird circumstances), you gotta understand she doesn't see this as a relationship.
Posted by N2cars
Close by
Member since Feb 2008
37867 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:29 pm to
You don't ask, you tell.
Posted by bpinson
Ms
Member since May 2010
2673 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:30 pm to
If you would have been banging another that nite you would never driven by. By driving by, you are stalking and not really in a position of strength. You fricked up when you said something. Consider the 4-5 months a gift. Play it out and see what happens. Treat them like shite and tell them you love them. They are all whores and should be treated as such. That is all...carry on.
Posted by xLxSxUxFxAxNx
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
58633 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:31 pm to
You know likely that had been going on the whole time, right?
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33223 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:32 pm to
quote:

she doesn't see this as a relationship.


Agree. That's why Vette's suggestion of changing the title of the thread to "How Lucky Did I Get" makes sense to me.
Posted by oVo
Member since Dec 2013
11983 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:35 pm to
If the OP is really over her and is alpha, he needs to post pics of her and the text.

Also send me her number.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:35 pm to
quote:

If you would have been banging another that nite you would never driven by. By driving by, you are stalking and not really in a position of strength. You fricked up when you said something. Consider the 4-5 months a gift. Play it out and see what happens. Treat them like shite and tell them you love them. They are all whores and should be treated as such. That is all...carry on.



You sound like a winner.
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
8891 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:35 pm to
I did handle it immaturely but there was no other way in my mind (at that moment) to let her know that I knew without being vague and giving her an opportunity to lie.

Here are the texts (in order):

"Seriously,(my first name). Where did you go?"

"Can we talk right now?"

"Don't ignore me. Are you home?"

"Just let me know where you are."
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
287824 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:36 pm to
I'd hear what she has to say
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:36 pm to
u should have taken out cheater's insurance the 2nd week into dating her. how hard is it to understand?
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
8891 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:37 pm to
quote:

You know likely that had been going on the whole time, right?


It has crossed my mind.
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
67766 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:38 pm to
had some similar shite happen recently. havent shown my hand like you did though. we never agreed to be exclusive so im not that mad
Posted by bpinson
Ms
Member since May 2010
2673 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 8:38 pm to
Yup, you never know, break up sex, get back together sex, grudge sex it's all good. If you're lucky ya'll might get married, have 3 kids and who knows.
Jump to page
Page First 3 4 5 6 7 ... 22
Jump to page
first pageprev pagePage 5 of 22Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram