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re: Should I be ashamed?

Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:44 pm to
Posted by TheDrunkenTigah
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
18124 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:44 pm to
quote:

She was a pussy about it, but anyone who has any experience with dating knows people generally suck at coming out and saying "not interested".. so they give excuses that seem like a glimmer of hope.


Yeah I'll be the first to admit this is on him as well. I'd have been out the door.

This latest development could turn out to be quite the twist, we might all owe Jones an apology.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 1:59 pm to
Did we get an update after she came to his place at 1a.m.? If not, he's probably too embarrassed to come on here and let everyone know he's back with her.... I have no problem with him being a nice guy and respecting women, but when he went night stalking her house and saw another guy's car it was time to move on... I got a hundy saying he's with her right now...
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 2:01 pm
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19467 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 2:09 pm to
quote:

he's probably too embarrassed to come on here and let everyone know he's back with her


No fricking way. He would update immediately, because according to his fricked up psyche, that would be a win in his department.
Posted by Ignignot
Member since Mar 2009
18823 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 2:25 pm to
quote:

Although not officially exclusive


no offense Lester, seems like she had you right where she wanted you

its obvious she likes attention from you or she wouldn't be around

its also obvious she wants the option of being able to bang a random dude every now and then and that's why ya'll aren't officially bf/gf

you have a decision to make podnuh, are you ok with chicks doing this to you, or are you gonna have a little fricking respect for yourself as a man and not hang around when a chick is walking over you

not being mean just being real

drop this chick, learn from this, and in the future don't get emotionally wrapped up with girls like her anymore, just stick and run
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 2:40 pm to
If she was that into him, she would have wanted to chill with him and not get banged by another guy. Everytime I've been "talking" to a girl, I would shut off other chicks until I figured out if the chick I was talking to had relationship potential.
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
5101 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 2:42 pm to
quote:

This latest development could turn out to be quite the twist, we might all owe Jones an apology.


Someone want to give me some cliff notes on the developments after the initial post?
Posted by TheDrunkenTigah
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
18124 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 2:51 pm to
quote:

Someone want to give me some cliff notes on the developments after the initial post?





OP's post history seems to indicate the girl may have dumped him prior to any of this happening, or he's at the least lying about the timeline for dramatic effect. None of the other devlopments really matter unless he clears that up.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33843 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 2:55 pm to
quote:

you have a decision to make podnuh, are you ok with chicks doing this to you, or are you gonna have a little fricking respect for yourself as a man and not hang around when a chick is walking over you


That's right. He put it out there, and she put it out there as well when she said "let's see how things go" or whatever. In my experience, that's womanspeak for no thanks. Women really suck at being straightforward with that type of thing unless you just push them to the edge, then they'll be plenty straightforward with you.

But he let it go on past that so I don't see what right he had to get all pissy towards her. Should've read the signs. If that exclusivity is what you want why would you settle for someone that was clearly ambivalent towards you?
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 3:01 pm
Posted by NorthEnd
Member since Oct 2007
2200 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 3:45 pm to
where is OP?
Posted by Ignignot
Member since Mar 2009
18823 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 4:11 pm to
quote:

But he let it go on past that so I don't see what right he had to get all pissy towards her. Should've read the signs. If that exclusivity is what you want why would you settle for someone that was clearly ambivalent towards you?


agreed, once he caught a hint that she wasn't in it to date, he should have just tapped her every now and then when she texted but not pursued by any means
Posted by Tail Dragger
Member since Aug 2012
344 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 4:11 pm to
quote:

Did the OP ever ask her if she fricked the guy? Break up or not I would need this answer for peace of mind.


Even if he did I imagine she would just lie and say she didn't there B
Posted by TigerStripes06
SWLA
Member since Sep 2006
30032 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 5:19 pm to
Just in case you haven't read all of this thread, or you are a complete idiot...the only reason I'm posting in this thread is to tell you...this guy:

quote:

JudgeHolden


Don't ever listen to this guy. Ever.
Posted by ILikeLSUToo
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2008
18018 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 5:56 pm to
quote:

where is OP?



I started reading this thread this morning, checking his posts for his own updates, and he's been online off and on. I'm guessing if OT detectives have discovered that his story doesn't mesh up with his previous posts about his relationship with this girl, he's going to cease posting until the OT gets bored and this threads gets pushed to page 5.
Posted by Sampson
Drusilla and Jefferson
Member since Mar 2012
25028 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 5:58 pm to
In summation, yes the OP should in fact be ashamed.
Posted by mkibod1
South of the Donna Dixon Line
Member since Jan 2011
4746 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 6:35 pm to
quote:


I'll just have to re-install Tinder.




Well, at least there's hope that you'll see her again.



Seriously LOLed
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 6:38 pm to
quote:

TigerStripes06


Do I know you? Clearly you know me.

Eta: I up voted you.
This post was edited on 6/30/14 at 7:09 pm
Posted by LSUzealot
Napoleon and Magazine
Member since Sep 2003
57656 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 6:56 pm to
quote:

JudgeHolden


The OP is clearly in full retard beta mode, but he hasn't posted since 1am and you've trashed him in about 20 separate posts since then. Chill the frick out.
Posted by mkibod1
South of the Donna Dixon Line
Member since Jan 2011
4746 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 7:02 pm to
UncleLester,

Scary reading this. Felt like a walk down memory lane haha Had a skank pull something very similar like this on me senior year of high school. She goofed and knew it. Came back begging for another shot. Luckily it happened right before graduation, so when I came to LSU, she was long gone haha It left me a jaded a-hole for a while but I found my way. Just whatever you do, end it now, and DO NOT try to even remain friends. You were in deeper than she was and it simply will not work. You will only torture yourself for even remaining in contact with her. Let her know you know, tell her it is what it is, and cut any and all ties between you two. Nut up and move along. Lots of drinking and good guy friends helps the process. Oh and the high road feels fantastic, especially after finding someone much better and still seeing her pathetic arse sending you SnapChats of her "interesting" life hahahaha
Posted by brodys_lettuce
Houston
Member since Jun 2014
791 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 9:16 pm to
Bumpidy Bump Bump Bumpidy Bump Bump

Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 6/30/14 at 9:20 pm to
He won't be back in this thread... You spilled the beans about the other guy, then told him that it wasn't anything and she didn't even like him... OP starts crying, she hugs him and says she loves him, he falls for it... They're together right now.



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