re: Should I be ashamed?

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ego

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Is the problem here.. If you like her, just be honest and say you let it get under your skin and you shouldn't have. If you don't, leave it be and move on to the next one.

It's a tangent, I know, but what happened to normal communication. You should have sat her down, preferably over a bottle of wine and some home made spaghetti, and said something to the effect of I like you and see you being an important part of my life. Either she'll agree, or she'll disagree and you can quit wasting your emotions on someone who doesn't want to reciprocate.

Just took advantage of your trustworthiness, willingness and effort to make her a priority. I guess it's not necessarily doing anything wrong in the grand scheme of things. It's just immature, in my humble opinion.

It sucks when you realize that the person you want to make an effort for doesn't feel the same about you, especially if you've let yourself subconsciously pretty much fall for her. Been there.

I am a little lost here

What is your reason for acting like this?

What do you hope to get out of this?

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So, you didn't know shite and you jumped straight to accusing her. Good job there, broham.

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go with gut

he thought it strange that she blew off plans

it made him confirm what his brain already knew

saw the dude/car...ended it in male fashion

didn't read her texts....perfect....they will be lies or justifications for her actions(ie nurse "not exclusive")

regardless of "had the talk" or not....if she's not into you enough to not need the talk....leave the trash at the curb.

Damning the dude about bragging, was a great parting shot IMHO

He could of just made a mixtape expressing how he feels for her.

She gone.

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Yeah, a lot of guys make the mistake of thinking "non exclusive" just applies to their end and is solely their choice and the natural state of females is to not play the field.

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Exactly mid the roles were reversed and she assumed an exclusive relationship while he was out sexing it up you can better believe she would have gone nutzo. I don't blame the guy for being pissed and for saying something to her face letting her know he's pissed.

The passive aggressive routine isn't going to do any good.

Either dump her outright for the implied betrayal or lay things on the line with her and see if she wants to take the relationship to an exclusive level.

shitty situation all around...no point in playing mind games, though....tell her what the deal is and let it play out from there....either you want to be with her or you don't