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Resignation etiquette....

Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:00 pm
Posted by adamb2151
Houston, Texas
Member since Jun 2013
6586 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:00 pm
Need some professional advice here. I have probably come to the wrong place but here goes...

I have been offered a position with a company in the somewhat same industry as I am in but not a direct competitor. It is more money and a position I think I would enjoy more. I believe there is an equal amount of long term growth potential. The only person I report to is our local president and he is out for the day.

Question is, would you email him today and let him know you got an offer and you were taking it and we could discuss further Monday? Or would that be a dick move to do on his vacation day and before the weekend? I feel like it would give him more time to talk with our corporate office and prepare a possible replacement or a counter offer for Monday. I think I would want to know asap if I was in his shoes but I dont want to violate etiquette.

I have resigned before but never with this particular set of circumstances. Email him today or talk to him in person Monday?
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36799 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:02 pm to
frick you, frick you, frick you


You’re cool



frick you, I’m out
Posted by deathvalleyfreak43
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
14569 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:02 pm to
Personally on Monday
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33219 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:02 pm to
Posted by Smoke7024
Member since Jun 2010
24126 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:02 pm to
Wait until Monday.
Posted by CarRamrod
Spurbury, VT
Member since Dec 2006
58618 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:02 pm to
In person on Monday with a resignation letter.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:02 pm to
Never burn bridges. Tell him Monday and congrats
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:03 pm to
Make sure you don't have a non competition or non disclosure agreement in place, download any information you want to keep onto a thumb drive (but don't steal company IP or trade secret info), think about everything over the weekend, talk to him on Monday.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37466 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:04 pm to
Do what everyone else has said and wait until Monday. If you want, send him a meeting request for Monday or something, but I wouldn't tell him that you're quitting on his day off.
Posted by Major Dutch Schaefer
Location: Classified
Member since Nov 2011
39737 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:05 pm to
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talk to him in person Monday


ETA: First thing in the morning.
This post was edited on 10/19/18 at 3:06 pm
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
45191 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:05 pm to
quote:

feel like it would give him more time to talk with our corporate office and prepare a possible replacement or a counter offer for Monday
No you dont. You want to give him the news via email before facing him Monday. You should wait to tell him in person.
Posted by adamb2151
Houston, Texas
Member since Jun 2013
6586 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:07 pm to
quote:

No you dont. You want to give him the news via email before facing him Monday. You should wait to tell him in person.


Nah, we have a good relationship. Im not worried about talking with him. He usually works all wknd from home anyway. I honestly feel like he would appreciate knowing today. But I am going to wait until Monday though on the advice of the OT.
Posted by LZ83
La
Member since Sep 2016
17446 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:07 pm to
You don’t make any sense
Posted by Cump11b
Member since Sep 2018
2026 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:08 pm to
Tell him on Monday, not his vacation. He isn't going to be calling anyone at corporate over the weekend to work up a counter offer.

But, when you do, be sure and him how much you have enjoyed working there so you do not burn that bridge. If you are looking for a counter offer to stay, the I would talk to your boss and let him know you have been offered another position, but really enjoy your current position, and wanted to inquire if the company is willing to counter offer or come close to meeting the current offer since you enjoy your current employer.
Posted by BRich
Old Metairie
Member since Aug 2017
3106 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:09 pm to
quote:

I have been offered a position with a company in the somewhat same industry as I am in but not a direct competitor. It is more money and a position I think I would enjoy more. I believe there is an equal amount of long term growth potential. The only person I report to is our local president and he is out for the day.


You say "offered a position". HAVE you ACTUALLY taken it? I hope not.

Wait until Monday, talk with the local president on Monday, tell him you that you are taking the offer. If they really want to keep you, he may want to throw some more money, perks, possibility of growth potential, etc. your way and change your mind.

Happened to me about 5 years ago.
Posted by adamb2151
Houston, Texas
Member since Jun 2013
6586 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:10 pm to
quote:

not his vacation. He isn't going to be calling anyone at corporate over the weekend to work up a counter offer.


Technically its a vacation day but he took off to take care of his kids because his wife is busy with something. He has been emailing me from home all day. And yes, he works all wknd every wknd. Lol
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:10 pm to
shite.
ON.
DESK.
Posted by Slevin7
Member since Sep 2015
2833 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:10 pm to
If you have a good relationship call the dude.
Posted by Purina
Member since Sep 2017
408 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:13 pm to
Don't say a word about any potential employment until you've made a decision. Then, give your employer two weeks notice, or longer if you wish, and that's that.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
42502 posts
Posted on 10/19/18 at 3:15 pm to
quote:

Personally on Monday


Be a man and do this
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